Your feelings are what matter here, sounds like you are not happy with this situation. Have you try putting a stop to it, or at least try telling him how you feel about it? He went out to the movies with her knowing that this is wrong to do, maybe you should consider talking to him about your feelings, and then decide

Ask him why they broke up if the want to talk three times a day and sneak behind your back and go to the movies. In my experience your significant other only lies when they are doing something wrong.

My gawd I'd be so pissed if my boyfriend snuck out behind my back to go out with his EX??? Come on...there is a line that you don't cross and he crossed it. He's being a selfish asshole! He is dating YOU. He needs to consider YOUR feelings. Damn right you don't trust him! I wouldn't! Not after he snuck out like that! Find someone that will put you first. Sounds like he is putting you in second place. Don't put up with that crap. You are worth more than that.

If he had to lie to you and then go to the theatre with his ex, he's being a damn prick by saying you don't trust him; and by all rights you shouldn't, not if he's going to lie like this. Don't fall for this psychological or emotional fuckery by feeling bad for not trusting him. Sit him the hell down and ask him to explain wtf's going on, and if he's not willing, I'd make him kiss my ass.

No you are not wrong. Most great relationships are made up of communitation, respect and trust. He is communicating enough with her.. but not with you, because he A) Lied to you and B) doesnt seem to want to talk to you about it. You need to sit down with him and have a very serious talk! she is his ex for a reason. They broke up. They have had their chance. Now it is your chance, and if he wants to fu(k it up then that is his problem. He shouldnt have to fu(k you up with him! If he tries to make you feel guilty about how HE sneaks around, then i would leave him. He does not respect you.

If he did infact lie to you about seeing a movie, whats to say hes not lying about other things? My bf of 2 years went behind my back and constantly slept at his ex's house, all I did was talk to him, I told him that the relationship wasnt worth my while if all I was getting out of it was worry and pain. He hasnt even talked to her since. So just talk to him, if he interupts about you not trusting him remind him that if he hadnt put you in the situation you would have no reason to mistrust him.

You are being cheated on.

You are right not to trust him i think he deserves the big heave ho.

you are wayy within your limits to be pissed off. tell him why you dont trust. maybe give him a few days. or just dump him

Well, there's nothing wrong with talking to an ex in itself -- I talk to one of mine sometimes, but I only think of her as a friend now -- but the fact that he lied to you gives you full right to be pissed off and suspicious.

You don't trust him, and you have a right not no. Mine was talking to his ex too and you gotta talk to him and have that stopped. If he says no, he might just care for her more and it's not even worth it.

talking with an ex is totally wrong I don't know why people say its normal! ex means PAST gf! so why the hell he was talking and going out with her! I'd leave him for this though.

If he's going out with his ex behind your back, IT'S A RED FLAG! You must talk to your boyfriend about his behaviour, and if he keeps bouncing the ball back to you, PLEASE break up with him because then it'd mean that he doesn't care about your feelings AT ALL! He's obviously making excuses for his disrespectful behavious, TAKE NONE! BE FIRM. BE CLEAR. AND DO WHAT YOU MEAN. If he doesn't cease contact with her, LEAVE.

Of course you don't trust him. Except on a ruler, the distance between zero and one is not the same as the distance between one and two, or for that matter between one and a hundred. If he'd never lied or stepped out, he probably never would. If he has lied or stepped out, he probably always will--again and again and again.

Trust your instincts. Usually if you have to ask a question like this, you already know the answer. I'm sure it is hurtful when he lies to you or goes out with his ex. I hope everything works out for you, but if things start going downhill, stand up for yourself and keep your dignity. There is someone out there for you who will treat you as you deserve to be treated. Often we are so busy trying to make a bad relationship work that we miss the opportunity to begin a new relationship. For example, my co-worker dated a man on and off for 5 or 6 years. He would see his ex and call things off. He told her he didn't want to get married because she had children. It was always something this or something that. Then, he secretly got engaged. When she found out she was distraught and cried everyday before his marriage, on his wedding day and especially during his honeymoon. I felt his getting married was the best thing for her because she couldn't look to the future or find someone worthy of her because she was too busy trying make this jerk love her. To make a long story short, 4 months after "the jerk's" wedding, I introduced her to "Mr. Right." That was a year ago and she became engaged 2 weeks ago. She is getting married next year on my birthday. So don't stay too long in a relationship that is going nowhere. Know that you deserve better. One of my favorite verses from the Bible is "Live by faith and not by sight." (2 Cor 5:7) You tend to miss out on things when you live by sight. Have faith that someone better will come into your life. Good luck!

Nothing wrong with talking to exes that are friends. Nothing wrong with being absolutely open and up front about it. However, if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck...Duck!

i have the same problem! and he's doing it behind my back also and he doesn't even addmit it! i don't have facts but i feel something wrong when he suddenly stop answering my calls for 3 hours or even worse not answering some phone calls when i'm with him. he says it's normal to see her she's just a friend but i don't like it. he even says he doesn't tell me because i will make a scene out of it and i don't know what to believe! we've been together for six years and she's the rebound girl from when we broke up. so if u find a miraculous solution to ur problem please tell me! and don't think ur alone we are hundreds!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

You should break up with him. Your bf knows exactly what he's doing. He probably knows it really bothers you and keeps doing it. How do you know what they are doing behind your back? Adn what is it that they have to talk about so much? I'm pretty sure guys don't even talk to their friends that much a day, so there is no reason to be doing that with her. I'm sure there is something else going on there. So, don't let him give you shit and just dump him.

You shouldn't trust him if he's proven he's untrustworthy. Does he really think that everything will be okay if he lies to you? If he does then he's living in la la land. If you betray someone's trust, then they will not trust you any longer. If it were me, I'd get out of the relationship. I never could stand not knowing if I was hearing the truth or not.