Why does love always come at the wrong times? and why when it does come, we are never ready for it? and when we are ready, why do we always mess it up?
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ALWAYS is a very strong word. 1) Love DOESN'T ALWAYS come at the wrong time. It does soemtimes, but not always. 2) When it does come, we are not ALWAYS ready for it, but most of the time we are. (Certainly, not NEVER) 3) We do NOT ALWAYS mess it up. This sounds like a person who has had unrequited love, then, when a person returned that love, got a bit scared and backpedaled, or DID do something wrong and messed it up. It doesn't ALWAYS have to be that way. Every love you have is important, and if you learn from your mistakes with THAT one, when you fall in love again (and it WILL happen), you will know what NOT to do there. You can, of course, also learn from examples, or learn from others, but you have to internalize what you learn from other than yourself, and make it a part of yourself. Bertrand Russell said "To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead." (That's the category this question was in when I answered it.)
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Maybe you think it is, But Is not meant to be.
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