If you love someone should you fight for them or just let them be and see if they come back?
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KonaCutie
ANSWERS: 17
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If you love someone let him go, if he comes back it is yours, if he doesn't he never was
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I cannot see fighting to keep someone who wanted out. They would have to let me know that they believe we have a chance otherwise, I would let them go find their happiness, even if it is without me. I may love them but if they do not want to be with me I cannot hold them down and know they are not happy, just to soothe my own feelings. To love someone is to want their happiness. If they want to go, love them enough to let them.
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i would have to say that i'd fight for the person i love, but in the end, it would be their choice and i would let them figure that out on their own...that's definitly a hard one...
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tough call. if they're really yours they will come back. They need to work out for themself if they love you the same. I know its not what you want to hear but fighting can also push them away and make it harder on you...
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I don't believe in the simple, let them go and they will come back to you, theory. IN some rare cases that could be true. I think there are some things worth fighting for, working hard to turn things around, and not giving up if they have. They could be lost or delusional, they could be manipulated or deceived, they could be ill. There are so many different scenarios that I can imagine not giving up but working, fighting, demonstrating my love and concern. No, I wouldn't keep someone that needed to go that was truly unhappy. But I think that I will take my chances with love fighting for itself.
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Depends on the situation. If the people are married than I think you should fight for it because you made a commitment for better or worse. If just in a relationship I would let go.
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Let them gooooo.
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if they come back then you get to keep him. in some instances after you let go, you realize how good life is without that person - that means you did the right thing.
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i think that very few things in life are worth fighting fo anymore these days.. simply because everything comes so easy. so when you do have that rare thing that is actually worth the fight, worth the struggle n the pain.. then do it, fight. otherwise you will surely regret it, the worst is being left wondering "what if?". after you have fought & its not what you had hoped would eventuate, then mos def let go.. set them truly free & set yourself free. you never kno.. u may jus find eachother again by chance one day, n if that happens then it happens fo a reason =)
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ah, but if he leaves, could you ever take him back?
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Definitely let them be and see if they come back.
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if you love someone set it free,if it comes back to you it is yours,if it does not come back to you,it never was yours...
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if someone loves you, you wont HAVE to fight for them. let them go. (btw, im in the same position)
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I tried saving my marriage but I failed, so I would say let them be and see if they will come back on their own free will without being pressured and without begging into coming back... As what Anonymous said above is correct "if you love someone, set him free, if he comes back, he's yours, if he doesn't then he was never yours"...
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Honestly, if you love them and they are happy with other people, but not you...Just set them free..And be happy that they are happy with whoever or whatever makes them happy...Along the way, I promise you they will think of you, and they will make some sort of contact with you.. Its just how it works...
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The latter! But show a little bit of passion just at the beginning so they know you want them.
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You have no control over what someone else does. You only have control of yourself. If someone doesn't want to be with you there's nothing you can do.
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