ANSWERS: 5
  • Quit being embarrassed. Do you know how many people, meet other people on line, and start dating, It is astronomical.
  • First of all, kudos on writing a question people will actually be able to understand! Meeting online is far more accepted now than it used to be - but I do understand it is a little taboo. You need to meet in person at some point in order to have a real relationship and discover if you really have feelings of "love" for this person. But if you are happy writing and calling each other for now, stop worrying about what others think. You don't have to tell them anything you don't want to. You don't have to tell them he exists. You can say you met through a friend. It really is none of their business. Enjoy your time with him and don't worry about the details :o) --- Edited: If you do choose to meet - be safe - meet during the day in a public place and make sure someone knows where you are. I know it takes the romance out of it - but ya gotta be careful!
  • Until you've met face to face you don't know who this person is. May be a 59 yr old woman....or worse. Arrange to meet in a public place during the day. If everything's on the up-and-up, you can truthfully say that you're a real couple, if you really feel that way.
  • The best answer is "BE CAREFUL" emotionally and physically. It is so easy to manipulate appearances and to be "someone else" on line. Don't commit yourself to anything until you have had some real face to face time. That said.... I met my wife on line on a site called "Plenty of Fish", so I know on-line meetings can work. But we met in-person fairly quickly after meeting on-line. Good Luck and please "BE CAREFUL!!!!!!
  • ok i have to start off by saying you cannot be an official couple if it's not in person. it just doesn't work that way. i couple involves two people who like eachother, trust eachother, spend time together. it would be different if you did know eachother in pers but were seperated by distance, but you've never met? you can't truly know a person until you know them in person.and it sounds like you love the idea of him but you cannot love him for him if you do not know the real him...

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