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  • If you guys are happy together, then I don't know... it could be okay. But not many people are going to think so. It's a fucked up world, whatever makes you happy.
  • I think you're giving up the best years of your life to a 27 year old man who would date an underage teenager. Think about what your life will be like when the romance dies down. Are you prepared to be a stepmother? Set up house with someone? How will you finance your education? Will you be able to get an education? Think very carefully about what you're doing. These are years you'll never be able to get back.
  • unfortunatley i do think he's too old for you. or should i say you are too young to be tied down to some one of that age with such adult commitments. you only have one youth and you should be with your friends and going out on dates etc. theres plently more time for settling down. i also question a man of his age wanting a relationship with a 16 year old girl. sorry. xx
  • Jonesy, please read this with the kind tone it is meant in. Not meant to be condescending at all. This man is breking the law by having a relationship with you. That law is there to PROTECT YOU. If his ex-wife or mother of his daughter found out, it could be used against him in court to take away custody or limit visitation. As a father, his priority should be his child, bettering his life to care for his child etc. Not dating you. The two of you are at different stages in life. Eleven years is not a big difference when you are 30 and he is 41, but right now, it is HUGE. Ask yourself what a man his age would want with a girl your age? Why isn't he dating women his own age? Why does his daughter live with his parents and not him? I suspect you have already gleaned a glimpse that he may be a bit of a loser by your question. Your instincts to even ask this question are good. Question this, question him. You have sooooo many things ahead of you - BE 16!!! Date guys closer to your age who are experiencing the same thinsg you are. Allow yourself the freedom to be a teenager. You deserve that.
  • An 11 year gap is huge. You do know that legally he'd be considered a pedifile right. Besides that i think you really should get yourself a b/f closer to your age. It seems more fun that way to me. Personally, I'd like to be able to relate to my b/f.
  • You are much too young to be dating a 27 year old - and he has no business becoming involved with you at your age. Get out of it.
  • Hun.. his mind capacity is wayyyyyy different than yours. You're probably in highschool.. and have your mind on other things.... and he being 27 has his mind on OTHER things that don't involve a 16 year old attitude. You should seriously re-think if this guy isn't with you to just ride you. Honestly it's really.. just creepy to even think this guy is a pedophile
  • ummm srry to tell u but u r so dating a looser and it is too bug of an age gap
  • Think of it this way: He had a kid when you were 8, and that kid is literally 1/2 of your age. There is an issue there. If he works at the same place you do, unless he is the manager, he is probably making a very similar hourly wage that you do, and this is when most people are starting to look at buying a place to live - do you really want to waste some of the best years of your life with someone who, lets be honest, doesn't have very much of a future and is already well past any semblance of the 'best days of his life'? be young, make mistakes, have fun, but don't get involved with this guy.
  • I think you are most definitely dating a loser. No offense sweety, but no matter how gorgeous you can be he is 27!!!! You two are at totally different places in your life, so obviously this guy has maturity issues. Plus, you don't wanna be a step momma =). Also this guy could be facing 5-10 year in PRISON if your parents or anyone else finds out about this.
  • you and his daughter are close enough to be siblings. Thats just weird. Think of it this way while you were 8 he was having sex with people. I think thats a little messed up. I think your dating a loser. You should really step back and look at things with different views. I mean ughh
  • I'm not saying that you're dating a loser, not at all. That's a criminal.

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