by rock on June 24th, 2008

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My PAST bestfriend did a nasty thing, called my fiance & told him about my past relationships cuz actually she knew almost everythin about me.. even though my past relationships doesnt worth talkin about, they were silly & childish! how can I take revenge

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by little sprout on June 24th, 2008
I think the best revenge is not saying a damn thing. What did you fiance say about it. If he is cool and you guys are ok then i would just leave it be. If something happend where it ruined your relationship i would kick her ass, j/k. Seriously. Be the bigger person. She is not your friend anymore, be the bigger person and dont stoop to her level. obviously she is jealous and her life is missing something. You ended the friend ship, maybe you might want to tell her to mind her business you ended the friendship she should just leave it alone
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- yeah she was jealous and missing everything in her life.. omg I can't believe she was my friend.. I ended the friendship at the same second I heard about it all..
  my man was cool about it but we had some fights in the beginning and I think now he wouldn't believe me more often, thats the negative that happend in my life now because of her crap..
  I'll do my best to try stopping myself from commiting a crime! ..
  
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  by rock on June 24th, 2008
- Your past is your past. Are you still with him. You cant get down on somebody because of the stuff they did in there past. He has a past to, do you care to know. Probably not. WHAT A BITCH she is
  
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by Aphrodite loves Mentos on June 24th, 2008
The best revenge would be to ignore what she did, and act like it didn't effect your relationship. She clearly wanted a reaction out of you, and I would not give her the satisfaction.
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- I agree 100%
  
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  by bigd012904 on June 24th, 2008
- I know that's what everyone told me to do.. but my anger is not that easy to stop and I can't forgive her or ignore what she did cuz it's heart killing and I've been feeling like s**t since I knew about it..
  I don't know if she was waiting for this reaction but I guess I'd give anything whatever it costed to make me feel better and to make her regret what she did to her best friend.. it's shame when I say she was my best friend
  
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  by rock on June 24th, 2008
- You anger is that easy to stop, you just have to stop it. I know I have been there. The best thing is to ignore her and just go on and have a wonderful life with the man you love. Get comfort knowing that she will always be a miserable person and you are great.
  
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  by bigd012904 on June 24th, 2008
- yeah you're actually right.. my man told me the same, and that you'll get to hear her news soon enough and all about her miserable life.. and told me to let it go, but is that it? I mean she WAS my best and it hurts even more, I wouldn't care if she was a normal friend.
  thx for the advices
  
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  by rock on June 24th, 2008
- Yes that is it. She was never your best friend, she probably messes up any good relationship she ever has. And you have to keep remembering that. Also with people like that bad attention is better then no attention, so don't give it to her.
  
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by Jane on June 24th, 2008
Get married and have a wonderful life. It really is the best revenge.

She will squirm everytime she sees the two of you happy together.
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by HuskyLove on June 24th, 2008
I would of killed her!!! Thats the nastiest thing she could have done! I would stop being her friend for a while, or just keep your distance from her if shes a real friend she will miss you. But on the real she is not a best friend. One thing i learned a long time ago was... keep one eye on your enimies one on your friends cause the closest ones be the ones who pretend. thats real right there.
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- Yeah I agree.. I would've killed her If I had the chance but it's not the answer for sure..
  I will never see her face EVER again..She was about to attend my Wedding but never now and I won't even invite her or talk to her as long as I'm living I promised my living soul..
  I'm so hurt for this and so clueless what to do about it..
  
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  by rock on June 24th, 2008
- Dont even regret it! Thats one of the best decisions you could of made! I dont know you, but im proud of you! I wish you and your man a lot of happiness =)))) dont feel hurt just look at your man, hes your bestfriend and a lot more! you lost a lot loss then u gained!
  
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  by HuskyLove on June 24th, 2008
- truely right.. my man is my best friend.. :)
  thanks a lot for your sweet wish, I'll be praying to forget about what happend..
  lucky your man is :)
  have a great day
  
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by stunada on June 24th, 2008
Just blow it off the past is the past just keep moving on I am pretty sure youre fiance has some bones in his closet also so forgetabout it
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- I just can't..plz help me even if it wasn't revenge just what can I do to make her regret.. kinds of people alike her should learn their lessons
  
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  by rock on June 24th, 2008
- well in spec ops we were toold to keep the bad guys close to us find out any and everything you can use against her and then when you finish the recon attack her where it will hurt her the most you sound like you are still in school mu suggestion is to get all the dirt on her and when school starts launch the attack and her life will be in the shitter on the first day and prob for the first week try that
  
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  by stunada on June 24th, 2008
- thanks for the advice! I'll be trying this out :)
  
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  by rock on June 24th, 2008
- what no points ??? gave ya the best advice I know without physicaly hurting the other person
  
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  by stunada on June 24th, 2008
- be carefull do not blow youre cover put that fake smile on and do not blow youre integrity
  
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  by stunada on June 24th, 2008
- I gave you my share :)
  
  I'll work like a smart wolf
  
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  by rock on June 24th, 2008
- thats my girl just don't get stupid or drink with her
  
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by party starter on June 24th, 2008
ugh! thats stupid bitch. you have to get her back for that. if she has a bf, you could do the same to her. or embaras her infront of a large group of people hehe she deserves it. did it wreck your relationship with your fiance?
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- no my fiance was wise enough to understand girls' bullsh*ts...
  I'm proud to have a man like him..
  she doesnt have a boyfriend cuz she's a bitch.. and I'm willing to do something and still not sure, but the embarassing thing is kinda great idea!.. but still not enough
  thx alot
  
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by QueenR eats the Terminator for breakfast on June 24th, 2008
Egg + your hand + her face = revenge.
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- that's just on the beginning..the rest for me would be:
  Gun + my hand + her face = revenge!
  
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  by rock on June 24th, 2008
- So your saying you would throw the gun at her? :p
  
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  by QueenR eats the Terminator for breakfast on June 24th, 2008
- gosh!
  
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  by rock on June 24th, 2008
- i think she meant she would shoot her hand and put it on her face :|
  
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  by LuckyLefty on July 2nd, 2008
- Ah! Then smear all the blood all over her face! Gotcha!
  Still, a large price to pay for revenge. I'd stick with the egg.
  
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  by QueenR eats the Terminator for breakfast on July 2nd, 2008
- hhahahaa
  
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by AnonymousGirl on November 15th, 2010
How is revenge going to help? She did you a favour in a way. If the person you're engaged to be married to can accept what she said to him, then perfect! Maybe he really is the guy for you. A girl an ex-boyfriend of mine cheated with actually asked me to tell a guy she was interested in my side of the story. I rejected because I thought it would be mean and it seemed pointless anyway if she really did learn from her mistakes and wanted to be honest about them, but there are people who actually want their current interests to know all of the sides of the story.
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