If you admit to yourself that this relationship will probably not last any longer than a year and will end in disappointment, maybe even temporary depression, depending on the magnitude of your attachment to her, then go ahead when you both are ready. Don't pressure her into it.

thirteen is a little young. but, when the moment arrives, you both will know it. Just don't tell her dad!

thirteen is a little young. but, when the moment arrives, you both will know it. Just don't tell her dad!

dont just go out and do it when your the only one thats ready, that seems like it would be a little overwhelming personally, so wait until she gets that look in her eyes and you will know. love is a crazy felling huh???

Hey bud, you sound just like me at 13! Here's how I kissed my girlfriend. We were at school dance, and we both were with friends. So what I did was I told her I wanted to talk to her (casually) outside, and it was cold, so I felt pretty stupid but hey, I didn't know what to do. We went outside and I told her "I know you love me and I wanted to make sure you know that I love you. I never want to have anyone other than you because you are the most beautiful and smart girl I know. I can talk to you about anything, and that is what makes me love you." Then I kissed her. You know, I'm gonna tell you that you don't know what love is, but you know what? I'm still with this girl :). After almost 4 years, we are still together. So you know what man, go for it! But be careful. DO NOT pressure her into doing it. Do it where you both agree to do it (you don't actually agree, you can just tell she's ok with it). Then go for it. There are actually a few ways to do it. You can just do a real quick kiss, either lips or cheek (I did lips in a different way, but you don't have to). You could do the famous 90/10 kiss, where you go 90 percent of the way to kiss her, and then you wait for her to come the rest of the way. There are a few other ways, but you can do it however you want to. Good luck! I hope it goes great!

Don't hesitate. If you do, it's an opportunity lost.

Keep alert about the body signals.You will find out the right time when the body chemistry is in action!