Im 15 and my parents dont want me i cut myself and im suicidal the only thing i ask for if that my parents love me everything i do is wrong i want a foster home but they wont sign me over i'm thinkin bout just killin myself so they can be happy, should i?

Of course not. If you kill yourself, they may be sad for awhile, but YOU will be dead for a LONG time. Life will get better ... trust me on this.

I'm thinking about cutting it off too. But I made a pact with my mom that i will help her through a very rough divorce if she helps me through recovering from chronic depression and severe anorexia. I'm 16, email me! glossygraphics@hotmail.com

No oh no. God loves you. I feel the same way, i don't even feel that they want me or appreciate me, and it hurts allot.I i am scared to get helped, because my parents are very, very, abusive. I just leave it to God and trust Him. Don't kill yourself, you are very valuble.Do you have someone close you can talk to?...if you would like to talk my email address is...krystal_9210@hotmail.com

No, suicide isnt the answer. I know it feels that way alot...hell i good 80% of the time i want to off myself. But Its not the answer. If u want a foster parent, y not play the CPS game? If they are so horrible to you, why would you kill yourself to allow their happiness? I say live it out and make their life hell! Im sure on some level, they do love you. Please, I know its sometimes hard to stop, but dotn cut too deep. Seriously, the trip to the hospital isn't something you want, speaking from expierence. Life is always worth living, and death is so final. One you go there you cant come back. What if there is nothing after it? If you ever need to talk, im here to listen...

Your parents don't have to sign you over for a foster home. You can call the family court yourself and ask for a legal aid advocate. Use the internet to find out how to apply for emancipation in your state.

You can also call children's protective services and ask for your own advocate.

you will leave them victims... not happy... i am sure you are mistaking tough love for lack of love. respect is mutual if you show them that you are loving them... even if they are ass holes they will love you back!

OH honey, no. You are a person that deserves to be loved just as much as the next. But just because you don't get that love, it doesn't mean you're worth any less. I believe we're given our trials for a reason. And while that's hard to see when we're down and depressed, it's true. If you go through with it, you will never see that plan worked out. You will never be there to help someone else work through the same situation. Be strong. And love yourself. And if I may throw in something a little religious, pick up a Bible or do a google search for an online concordance. Find some words of comfort. It's good for the soul.
Love in Christ

Goodness, I sense your pain. Definitely no, you shouldn't even consider killing yourself. If you don't feel loved by your parents, the first step is to start loving yourself. You are worthy of living...living a good life. It may be rough now, but it can and will get better. Seek out people who will support you, go to a school counselor and tell her your thoughts and feelings. Hospitalization may be necessary to get you on the right path from self-mutilation and suicidal ideation. I wish you a LONG and happier life.

Do they really not want you? If so, then why try and win their love? Go about your life, get a job, go to school, live how you want. Don't worry about what others think of you. It's not your job to please everyone. Blood ties don't make people family, family are people who care about you. Hang out with your friends and spend less time at "home". Get yourself a place where you can call home. Because two people happened to have conceived you doesn't mean you owe them anything. My father didn't contact me until I was older, but I have no kinship with him. People don't deserve something just because they are related by blood. Stop worrying about what your parents think, someone in the world loves you, or will love you.

are you mental why kill your self that is just stupid i mean you should just forget about every thing and just stay alive

talk to social services .talk to a psycologist anyone call the suicide hotline now.

Please remember: Doing away with yourself will never make them 'happy'. In most cities there are child advocates - people who will help you and be your voice when no one else will listen. Concentrate on YOU being happy. Remember too that you won't always be living under their rules. Make something of yourself. Prove them wrong.

May I ask as to why you think your parents don't want you? I know that in my family the phrase "I love you" was never used and I didn't think my parents cared for me eather. I was extreamly depressed and suicidal myself as a teenager because of this. If your parents are hurting you in someway you need to tell someone. If however it's just a lack of comunication you may want to be the one to open up the line. Go to them talk to them about how you are feeling. There may be a hormonal inbalance that needs to be looked into. Killing yourself is never the answer. I will keep you in my thoughts good luck.

I disagree with binary. A foster home may be much better. Having been in a family with many foster kids, I know firsthand. You're parents don't need to sign you over if there's enough of an issue that you need to get out, and being suicidal probably would be one. Seek treatment or go to a youth shelter or something. That would help. Or tell a school counselor or something and they can help you out. It also can't hurt to call a crisis line or police station just to find out about your options and stuff.

As for killing yourself so that your parents can be happy? What kind of nonsense is that? Why the hell would you want them to be so "happy" when they obviously haven't cared enough about you to sacrifice anything for you to be happy, let alone your life. I don't see why you care so much about their lives. There's absolutely NO REASON to end yours for their pathetic sake. That's a horrible idea. Besides, everything you're going through will be over soon. And if not REAL soon, then at least by the time you're 18 and don't have to deal with parents at all if you don't want to. Suicide is something you can never undo. You're only 15. You have 70 or 80 more YEARS to see how good you're life could be. That is an entire lifetime you're missing out on thinking that 15 should be the end.

well in all honesty, a foster home is probably not going to be much better..I know a lot of people from foster homes and many of them aren't that great for many different reasons, and realistically I don't think the state would take you out of your home and put you in a foster home because of the need for foster homes and you already have one home, as well as the waiting lists for kids to get foster homes, until then they are in state facilities and you definitely dont want to be there.

Suicide is not the answer, a lot of people your age feel unloved and suicidal, I know I did when I was that age too. There's not a lot I could say to make you feel better than things change, you will get older and out on your own and your life holds all kinds of unexpected surprises..stick around and see what they are.

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At least wait until you're like 30 and then decide.

Maybee I foster famiky is not dat bad if dey don't like yu I cut myselff to ndd no matter wat anyone sayss it better to cut yurself den to kilL yurself ;; but yu shouldn't kilL yurself just like report dat yur parentss treat yu bad maybe den wilL put yu in a home it wilL be better ;; trust mee

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I'm 15 too
I have tried Suicide 4 times
the 4th time was almost successful
I understand your pain
My dad is a serious alcoholic and when he his drunk he abuses me and my mom
mostly verbally sometimes physically.
I am sure your parents love you
maybe they have a problem showing it
And if you commit suicide, think about other people
Just think about things that make you happy and don't say there is nothing
because there is always something to make you smile
A hobby? friends? a person who is always there?
how about people on answerbag who are willing to help you
and give you GOOD advice!
Killing yourself won't solve anything
If you think your life is hell
think about where you are going to go if you kill yourself
THE REAL HELL
I'm a christian, I'm sorry if you are not
Just think positive
try anyway
and Find some people who you can vent to
who you can go to for comfort
there is always someone to help! :)

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