My friend is 14 and preggo and she cant tell her parents and she cant get an abortion its against her religon if her mom finds out shes in so much troble and she has no one else what would she do
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Emily and Alexis
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How can an abortion be against her religion but not premarital sex. Is this some sort of new religion I am not aware of?
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well, what's done is done..she should of made her b/f worn a condom...she has to face her mom sooner or later...and there always programs that help single mom's...where is the father of the baby?
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She IS in a whole lot of trouble, and her mom is the least of her worries: she's going to have a baby. Guess what? She wanted to act like a grownup and have sex... now she's going to have to BE a grownup. It's sad, but it's true. Tell her to talk to her mommy.
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In that case, I would say she's fucked, no pun intended.
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When she chose to spread her legs, she chose the consequences of such behavior. She should have known what was going to happen with her mom before she spread her legs.
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I agree with Galooly. Her religion isn't going to pay her bills or babysit or change diapers. She should have an abortion or put the child up for adoption.
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Speak to her doctor, who took an oath to keep what his patients tell him as confidential, asking for advice as to who she can go to for help or other people/organizations who can support her or help her in the way of funding somewhere for her to go when she starts showing, having the baby afterwards and support and benefits to enable her to live, get the child nursery care while she is at work etc. Should she get some form of help, she could ask the people/group helping her to support her to tell her parents if she chooses to do this. If she does have somewhere to go by the time she is 'showing', she could opt to simply leave a letter, explaining the situation simply and why she has chosen to keep the child. Either way, support her and help her to get some support.
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She needs to tell her parents. They will notice eventually, so it's better to tell them now. She also needs to find something like a planned parenthood or something similar. They will help her with her options. Even if she was okay with an abortion, at 14 she would often need her parents to okay it, unfortunately.
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