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People only flock to the obvious. Like assuming a really tall guy plays basketball. If they aren't career driven themselves, or if they don't know anything about your career path, the only thing they can default to is, "How's your love life". There really isn't any way you can make them understand. You just have to be comfortable in your decisions and live with your choices. That said, be careful. Focus on your career - great! But don't purposely ignore dating opportunities - be open to meeting the right person when he/she crosses your path - ready or not!
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It's a conversation point which is pretty universal. Comes under the job/family/living place umbrella. Don't take it personally, unless you really DO want a love life thing going on and are denying it, in which case look at that - or ask AB!
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Nothing is wrong with you, in fact it seems like you have your priorities in order. It seems like you have a good head on your shoulders, forget what they say. Besides it's all about when you are ready. People are not going to be going through the ups and downs of your relationship... people aren't going to be there when you have heartaches....so don't worry about people. Your love life will happen when it's ready to happen.
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Who's doing the asking? Maybe they are the ones who want to date you.
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I think you're doing the exactly right thing. A lot of people are idealists about love and romance, but you're a realist, and because of that, you'll go far. Don't be peer pressured into what can be the most life-shattering drug of all: relationships. They'll rob you of your time, your mental clarity, your ability to make your own decisions without having to "consult" another person, and your mobility, not to mention leech away at your finances (and I mean that for men and women).
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