I have the single best cunnilingus and blowjob descriptions saved in an email... I dont remember where the how-tos are originally from... but heres the cunnilingus one: >> >> >> Step one: Warm her up Set the mood: “You can’t just start out eating pussy,” says Diana Cage, author of Box Lunch: The Layperson’s Guide to Cunnilingus. “You want to warm your girl up, with making out and touching.” Step two: Work around it Move down slowly, and start by kissing between her thighs, on her lower belly and her pubic mound. According to Cage, “the most effective way to get her wanting oral is to tease her for a long time with your mouth, without ever actually touching her clit.” When she’s ready for you to go for it, she’ll probably buck her hips toward your face. Step three: Move in Start by running your tongue up the length of her vagina. Then, “lick in circles around her clit,” guides Cage. But don’t get stuck on that one spot. “Some people say, ‘If your eyelids aren’t sticky, you aren’t doing it right’—and that’s a good metaphor,” laughs Cage. With your lips and tongue, “move other parts of her around that don’t have to do with her clit.” This lets her know you’re enjoying yourself: “So many women are already uncomfortable with this act, so don’t be shy.” Step four: Hit the sweet spots “She’s gonna let you know where she wants the most stimulation. She’ll probably move her pelvis down when it feels too sensitive or buck it up when she wants more attention to the clit.” Cage advises, “Pay a lot of attention to body movements.” Step five: Maintain the pace “Most women react to repetitive stimulation,” explains Cage. “When you feel her tensing up (in the I’m-getting-closer kind of way), that’s when you stop teasing so much and focus in on rhythm and the clit.” You can lick up and down for a little, change to circles, and then go side to side. “But don’t switch it up too quickly—rhythm is really how women orgasm. You have to get a buildup happening.” You can drag your bottom lip over her clitoris or add a little bit of light sucking in between your steady rhythm, but don’t let up: “If your neck or jaw is getting cramped, suffer through it or change positions,” suggests Cage. Step six: Lend a hand Most women will get off from clitoral stimulation alone. But to push her over the edge, “slide your fingers into her pussy and feel for the G-spot—that ridgy, bumpy area at the top of vagina,” instructs Cage. “Some people will respond to hard stimulation, others a light touch: Start out with light caresses, moving around in a circular motion. If she seems to respond really well, you can increase the pressure.” All the while, keep a steady rhythm with your tongue on her clitoris. Step seven: Go for seconds Keep your mouth in contact with her clit as she orgasms: “Keep applying pressure,” instructs Cage. When her climax subsides, “either she’ll be really sensitive and pull away or she’ll be in this wonderful afterglow. If you keep a firm tongue moving slowly around her clit, you might get her to orgasm again.” >> >> >> What I would add, is to ask her what she wants, communicate before, during, and after. Some people like a little harder stimulation, some dont.

ok first what you do is start kissing her and making out with her. Breathe down her neck and suck her nipples. gently rub your teeth against her nipples. and breathe down her body and give her a kiss on the stomach and kiss her inner thighs and blow gently on her inner thighs and blow gently in her. make sure you blow cold air so she can feel chills and if you do it right she will be willing to put it in your face. (before you do that use your two fingers blow in between it and practice till you feel cold air in between)After that stick you tounge in her a little bit and gently lick her (dont hit the clit yet) this should relax her. Then tease her make your tounge move up and stay 1 or 2 inches below her clit and wiggle you tounge on the spot (maybe you'll find her g spot). after go up higher and lick around her clit and keep on doing that technigue to you hear her noise then you can do what you want. I hope this works for you. If it doesn't look more techniques up on the internet.