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by Anonymous on December 13th, 2006
Selected by the asker, Amare Veritas. (What's this?)
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Haven´t yet. I´m almost 19 years old. Not having lost my virginity has been worrying me for some time now.. and I´ve never even had a boyfriend.. I´ve been approached by guys many times, but whenever I really start liking a guy, I take too great a step back. Well, out of my close friends about 50% have lost their virginit(ies) by the age of 18, and the other 50% haven´t dated yet (myself included). I guess my point here is that I would really want to date a guy for some time before I would lose my virginity to him.
This site has helped me realize I´m not alone in this, and that lots of people are waiting until marriage. Thank you!
by Anonymous on October 5th, 2006
Age 32, on 13 April 1995, not very many hours after this picture was taken.
thats cute!
by Thomas_Edison .. oh so sexy on December 13th, 2006
Beautiful!
by Paper_Doll on December 14th, 2006
Cool!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
Nice =)
by DavidDouwens on December 26th, 2006
LMGDAO a 32 year old virgin.
by ----------- on December 27th, 2006
You are mean, you should be nicer.
by guess who on December 29th, 2006
Excellent! I heard it was a very short service.
by tomsims on January 20th, 2007
Bigboss> Some people like him saved themselves specifically for their spouse. Because he did this he has not shared his body with anyone but his wife.
by Valparaiso on January 21st, 2007
tomsims, actually, all told, it took several hours.
by Glenn Blaylock on January 21st, 2007
Several hours is OK - You are probably still on your honeymoon.
by tomsims on January 22nd, 2007
The date of the wedding is back in 1995 if you look at the answer.
by Valparaiso on January 22nd, 2007
I have to agree with the comment against BigBossSNK, you were very rude, and it does not seem, that you are mature enough to care what you think about a 32 year old virgin anyway. I am proud of you Bob!!
by turbowray on January 22nd, 2007
Sweet Glenns brother!
by turbowray on February 9th, 2007
good job man
by kuyakev on February 11th, 2007
AWESOME!
by lavander_luv on February 13th, 2007
nice! atleast you're man enough to admit it!
by Anonymous on February 14th, 2007
well done there is no way i could have waited that long!!
by McMacca on February 14th, 2007
Oh you could, you just didn't want to. I'm 24 and a virgin and in some ways I havn't wanted to wait til this long but you know if I didn't wait until I was married I'd hate myself every day when I got up in the morning.
by Valparaiso on February 14th, 2007
I would have loved to have found a guy who hadn't yet.... Unfortunatley, in this area, I would almost have to be a pedophile to find one!**ugh** .... In my area we have 11 and 12 year old moms!!!! Guys start at this time or earlier here too. I don't get it, but it is the truth!
by Zandalee.Lonely.Lunatic.3yrs-here on February 25th, 2007
Zandalee> Where do you live at and how old are you?
by Valparaiso on February 25th, 2007
I'm a virgin. I'm only 19, but I've been with my man for three and a half years. We are VERY close and we both like to communicate and show love through touch. It has been VERRRRYY difficult. I'm proud of you! (And yes, my guy is a virgin too.)
by broken on February 25th, 2007
Val- I am 23. I am one of the few to hold out here... I was 19. I live in the most horrible county in NC.
by Zandalee.Lonely.Lunatic.3yrs-here on February 27th, 2007
What happened when you where 19. I congradulate you on making it this far. Broken, thats good but I encourage you to wait til you are married. Trust me its been tough for me too.
by Valparaiso on February 27th, 2007
Of course we plan to wait! You think we would have waited this freakin long just to decide to do it one day for no reason? Haha. :)
by broken on February 27th, 2007
I wouldn't be surprised hon. Lots of people do give up on it after a while. I've made it to 24 but I'm not putting it past myself. Thats personally why I'm so adament that I find someone who intends on waiting like I do. Because I know personally that if she's open to it then I don't know how long I could defeat the temptation. On top of that if she's open to it then it means that she's probably already done it. And that for me is the most difficult thing because I feel like having waited for as long as I have almost entitled to someone who is also waiting. To the point where any girl who isn't a virgin would almost feel like I was sharing her with someone else. I mean I guess its not right in a way but if she's not a virgin its going to take a lot out of me because I'll just feel a massive let down like nothing about the whole thing is special to her you know?
by Valparaiso on February 27th, 2007
It is not a bad thing, it is a right you have been waiting for, just like a female virgin would be waiting for. Jessica Simpson was a virgin until she got married, now THAT had to be hard lol!
by turbowray on February 28th, 2007
Are you sure she was? Either way I have difficulty with this because I belive in the power of forgivness and I really really don't want to be someone who lives in the past and worries about what my partner has done in the past. Especially since virginity is a one time deal and once you lose it you can't get it back again and almost everyone anymore does it before marriage. But its just the thing that I just don't feel like I would be special to her in any way if she isn't a virgin. And that bothers me a lot. On top of that I'm afraid I'm in her mind going to be constantly compaired to the other men. I know its not a physical thing at all because I would marry a rape victim and I'd consider her a virgin and it would totally be fine to me because obviously if her first time was a rape then the first consentual time would be special. But I just don't know what to think of a person who may belive in abstience now but has done it in the past.
by Valparaiso on February 28th, 2007
Of course I am not sure she was tee hee. I hear where you are coming from Valparaiso.
by turbowray on February 28th, 2007
good job
by kuyakev on February 28th, 2007
Val... if you were asking what happened when I was 19..... I got married!(it's over now though)
by Zandalee.Lonely.Lunatic.3yrs-here on March 4th, 2007
Well done to you, you lead by example
by Miss Cookie Monster on March 19th, 2007
wow, that's so nice! I love it when people wait until after they are married! God bless you:=
by marianne on April 2nd, 2007
It's nice to see when people wait like they are supposed to!
by Anonymous on July 4th, 2007
Way to wait for the right person, you inspire me!
by Tobi-chan on July 29th, 2007
amen.
by The Wade on August 20th, 2007
Cool. Reading your post inspired me. Now I don’t feel so bad about being a 25 year old, male virgin. I could get laid if I wanted to, but I prefer to wait until marriage or, at least, until I’ve found someone I plan to marry.
by TheLucidEnigma on August 21st, 2007
OH MY GOD... how romantic!! I think that is so sweet and i wish you many many happy years together.
by close account on September 17th, 2007
thats very sweet
by radiantradha on September 19th, 2007
Simply inspiring! Good for you!!! Good Luck!
by Da One and Only on October 4th, 2007
Wow! Great for you!
by QueenHaze on October 15th, 2007
That is so inspiring, wonderful and congratulations!
by RaininSpain on November 2nd, 2007
Wow. Not many people have been waiting until after they get married so I have to say way to go and that's great.
by Jessie on November 7th, 2007
Thank you for sharing! It gives this 26-yr-old virgin hope that not *everyone* is doing it before marriage... and just because marriage is coming a little later than planned doesn't mean it's too late and I should just give up.
I think it'll be that much more special to wait. And I'm hoping the one I marry someday will have had the courage to wait as well.
by Jazzergrl on January 27th, 2008
The couple makes all virginity inspring. you are wonderful.and congratuations to you.I think you are a good and respected madam.you still keep yourself as a virginity untill you are 32 years old.
I hope the 26-year old girl could insist on being a virginity before you get married.,
I think it is not proper to have sex action wit a boy who is not your future husband.
by liangceo on April 4th, 2008
omg how did you manage that?.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on May 11th, 2008
Thank you so much for sharing this! I'm trying my best to keep myself for my future husband and, although I'm only 19, it's still really hard. I'm glad to know that someone out there has managed to do it!!! Thanks again!
by Anon on May 11th, 2008
Very commendable!
by CandiSuzanne on June 23rd, 2008
Bob, I'd have to say that you're one awesome man!
by AnonymousGirl on July 11th, 2008
That is amazing, and veryyy special. Seriously, that is really really great (:
by onethingisclearo9 on July 17th, 2008
I turned 2 on that day!!! sry i just had to say it!
by undecided on July 29th, 2008
i turned 5 on that day! aazing stuff isnt it!
by littlegreycells on August 23rd, 2008
i was 5!!!
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on August 24th, 2008
since we are all doing it i was 6 lol
by HelloRe is anxious on August 27th, 2008
I was 5, not that anyone cares.
by AnonymousGirl on August 27th, 2008
true but it's a fun game
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on August 28th, 2008
it is isnt it! arent we all so cool sharing the same birthday lol
by littlegreycells on August 28th, 2008
lol i think it's random that we were all very young then
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on August 31st, 2008
You silly christians!
by Cmunky on September 13th, 2008
there crazy but it's there choice,more for the rest of us lol
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 14th, 2008
what's christians got to do with us writing that it was our birthdays? or do you mean about the christians for not having sex?
by littlegreycells on September 15th, 2008
i think he was referring to the original question,but i think cmunky should join in and tell us how old he was in 1995 when that pic was taken.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 15th, 2008
haha yeah, but it wouldnt be the same if it wasnt actually his birthday on the 13th of april. i think we should start up a 13th of april club lol.
by littlegreycells on September 16th, 2008
my birthday isn't the 13th of april either
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 16th, 2008
:o but you said you were 5!oh, you meant you were 5, not that you turned 5 on that day, like i said. ok....
by littlegreycells on September 16th, 2008
hang on, it says on your profile that you are 21...so you cant have been 5 in 1995??
by littlegreycells on September 16th, 2008
sos that was my mistake i ment 8,i failed maths lol
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 17th, 2008
I would have been 4
by Cirque-Sara on June 11th, 2009
lol sorry i never checked this comment thread booze hound, its been months!
by littlegreycells on June 11th, 2009
yeah i'd forgot lol
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on June 11th, 2009
haha.important obviously lol.
by littlegreycells on June 11th, 2009
yeah you forget about that theres loads off huge dead threads round the place
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on June 12th, 2009
it notified me before when youd written back, and it is now, but hadnt for a while . weird.
by littlegreycells on June 12th, 2009
very weird it weird reading these threads when you not seen them in ages
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on June 12th, 2009
Hey anonymous, congrats on being a descent man and keeping your purity until you got married. That's something not many can do, male or female. You are truly a good man.
by Vaporeongirl on September 17th, 2009
i bet they were at it for days after waiting for that long lol.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 18th, 2009
ooohhhh ... amzing, lose virginity at age 32? .... tell me how you resist the temptation???....
by msuzuki on September 18th, 2009
i think he was in a coma
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 20th, 2009
aww thats adorable =]
by Marisaaaaa on October 5th, 2009
Your amazing! :D Please tell me how you resisted so I can too!
by Anonymous on October 16th, 2009
BloodLolita, you should know that this user is no longer active. He left AB for good quite sometime ago.
by Glenn Blaylock on October 17th, 2009
How would I know that? I don't look at peoples profiles.
by Anonymous on October 18th, 2009
glenn blaylock was only TELLING you lolita.
by littlegreycells on October 18th, 2009
Sorry if you misunderstood, but I was simply trying to inform you. I did not mean my last omment as critcism.
by Glenn Blaylock on October 18th, 2009
yeah i didnt see it as criticism. i didnt realise his profile was inactive anymore either.
by littlegreycells on October 18th, 2009
Lol its okay.
by Anonymous on October 18th, 2009
really
it is your photo
kiss
my god
really very good
by roshnibeautyful on November 18th, 2009
:) I'm 23, going on 24. I'm not only a virgin, but also have never given away my first kiss, despite previously having had 2 serious boyfriends. I have another serious boyfriend now & am still planning to wait until I'm married to give away both my first kiss & my virginity. I know I'm really an odd ball, but I choose to save both of these for that time.
by Katriel on November 22nd, 2009
That's great to hear Katriel. Good for you!
by kitkat on December 1st, 2009
I was 5 months old......Im 15 and although I was 2 seconds away from gettin it on, I didnt do it. So Im still a virgin....WOOO HOOO!
by Chemically Involved on January 28th, 2010
wow you're conservative. but may u two live happily together!
by rebellious angel on October 22nd, 2010
Awesome! I hope your wife was also a virgin.
My wife & I were both 23, and wedding night virgins when we married. Still together more than 35 years later.
by daletom on November 3rd, 2011
This post was left by my brother. He has since left AB. So, he will not see you post. However, he and his wife are still married. It has now been 16 years.
by Glenn Blaylock on November 3rd, 2011
That is pretty cool, Glenn!
by AnonymousGirl on November 23rd, 2011
by AntigoneRising on December 9th, 2006
I never "lost" it. I very deliberately discarded it over a decade ago, as it seemed rather useless.
HA! Me too - and when is just not important :)
by Anonymous on December 9th, 2006
I lost my virginity. Where'd it go? I can't find it.
by Amare Veritas on December 10th, 2006
Have you looked down the back of the sofa? I lose everything down there...
by lady fuschia on December 11th, 2006
Could be under a car seat. Always look around the last place you had it.
by AntigoneRising on December 11th, 2006
ROFL
by teknimage on December 18th, 2006
Ugh..This humor is sickening to me..The old "lost" my virginity joke eh? I hate those kind of jokes, and people still laugh at them..Don't you people find that they get old? The last time i laughed at a joke like that, I was probably 10..
by Castrate on December 20th, 2006
You were telling and laughing at virginity jokes at 10? Wow. That must have been SOME bus you rode to school!
by teknimage on December 20th, 2006
Well, people of his superior intelligence and maturity obviously progress through their development stages at a more rapid rate than the rest of us. This is, of course, demonstrated by the use of sophisticated verbage such as, "Ugh", and the highly mature screenname, "Castrate."
by AntigoneRising on December 21st, 2006
Ha ha ha ha!!!
by Anonymous on December 21st, 2006
Are you people offended that I don't like your sense of humor? I'm sure a lot of you wouldn't like mine either. It's nothing to get upset about. Also, why do you think "ugh", is an immature usage? It's an expressive one, that says everything I'm feeling. Kind of like the word "sigh". Have you ever used the word "sigh", when trying to express how you're feeling at the moment? Does that make you immature? Oh, and as far as my "nickname" goes, I just so happen to like the word. If I were to judge your maturity level from your icon, I probably wouldn't even be close..(or at least I hope not)
by Castrate on December 21st, 2006
I'm not offended - and I think you're hilarious! I also like to use the word, "ugh" and I am immature in many ways **sigh**... lol. Peace...
by Anonymous on December 21st, 2006
Ok then, just making sure. Have a nice day.
by Castrate on December 21st, 2006
LOL! Well-put.
by astarte59 on May 3rd, 2007
I love your answer!
by Me Myself and I on June 8th, 2007
Hehe.
by Miss Priceless Princess fancies RUSirius on August 5th, 2007
lol love it! great answer!
by Gemzibobz on November 25th, 2007
great answer,i felt so much better once i'd got rid of mine.like most things sex gets better with age.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on May 11th, 2008
Brilliant answer, love it!
by WriterWeasel on September 7th, 2008
i love a good virginity joke
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 9th, 2008
No you don't, stop lying.
by Castrate on September 9th, 2008
i've never understood the term losing virginity i put quite a lot of effort into getting rid of mine lol,it's like your appendix it does'nt do you any good it's just excess baggage.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 9th, 2008
i love a good virgin joke and i also love jokes about nuns.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 9th, 2008
THAT is exactly what I am thinking. I don't believe in virginity and I'm ready to try it out.
by Anonymous on December 23rd, 2008
i regret not saving mine. I had the same attitude my entire adolescence. when I finally lost my virginity at age 17, i didnt think it was a big deal. but now, its one of the very few things i regret not keeping sacred. theres nothing anyone can say to change your mind on that, but I can guarantee you will know exactly what im talking about eventually..that is, if you dont die of an std first..
by MissGnosisxx on May 16th, 2009
if you got to 17 you were older than most of the girls i know lol
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on May 16th, 2009
thats really sad.
by MissGnosisxx on May 16th, 2009
it's the world we live in i dont think it's a big deal.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on May 17th, 2009
Brilliant. (:
by Anonymous on June 1st, 2009
Your virginity is never useless! It is the gift you give your spouse on your wedding night. It should never be discarded like something worthless. I pity you.
by Feathertail on September 17th, 2009
Hell no Feathertail! Virginity isn't that big a deal and love isn't based on it.
by Vaporeongirl on September 17th, 2009
i think your liveing i a time warp feathertail love has nothing to do with virginity i dont see the point in waiting untill you get married to have sex.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 18th, 2009
Virginity is a construct of the male mind to keep women docile and subservient to men.
by SofiaNRage on September 21st, 2009
I agree 100%!
by Vaporeongirl on September 21st, 2009
So now what?
by Hotchik on September 24th, 2009
Hotchik, I'm afraid I'm not understanding your comment. Can you please clarify?
by AntigoneRising on September 24th, 2009
The way i see it, whether your first is special or not doesn't have so much to do with whether your married or not, as with how you feel about the person, whether you are ready pr not, etcetera etcetera
by Anonymous on September 27th, 2009
well said anonymous
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 28th, 2009
BOOZE HOUND and Anonymous and SofiaNRage....YOU ALL ROCK! I love your responses! Down with oppressive sociological structure and our prudish, outdated, puritan ways! I'm not saying go fuck everyone...but honestly, getting married before you have sex is like buying a car without test driving it.
by rebellious angel on October 25th, 2010
by Kgsult on March 18th, 2007
I was 8, It was a cabbage patch doll, she was sitting in my sisters room.... staring at me. I ask her if she want a piece of "This" she didn't reply, just looked intently almost teasing me. I took her upstairs to my bedroom and slowly undressed her, she was still quiet and blank. I gave her lovin like never before..... We haven't talked since
hahahahaha +2
by Anonymous on March 18th, 2007
Creepy!
by jamesremmington on March 18th, 2007
Funny though! 2+
by jamesremmington on March 18th, 2007
And It's true.. You never forget your first. I still love her
by Kgsult on March 18th, 2007
That's... interesting
by anonymous on March 18th, 2007
ok well maybe love is a strong word. I didn't see her eyes. I was behind her ....
by Kgsult on March 18th, 2007
Ya Barbie was my High School sweet heart
by Kgsult on March 18th, 2007
WTF!!! She told me i was her first!
by bahaminb on June 23rd, 2007
THAT DOLL GAVE ME WARTS!!!!!!
by cheesemonkey on August 12th, 2007
Hahahahahaha i can't stop laughing.......lol :) 2 funny
by Tweety on September 9th, 2007
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA....
by radiantradha on September 19th, 2007
FUNNIEST THING I'VE EVER SEEN. AHAHAHA I CAN'T STOP LAUGHING.
by iiNSANE on October 31st, 2007
WTH????
by c.m.b.g.4.e on November 21st, 2007
I was 15 when i lost mine i wish i had thought bout it more. I didnt even love the boy that i was with at the time.I wish i had saved it un-till i met my boyfeind who i am with now because i know that i love him.
by kk cole on November 29th, 2007
That was soooo funny. It was very descriptive.. you are a good writer because the mental picture of her staring at you blankly when you asked her if she wanted a piece of you was probably one of the funniest statements I have ever heard in my life!!!!!
by Rachael on January 26th, 2008
OMG
roflmao!!!!!!!
by Tespot was told she looks like a koala on February 6th, 2008
that is hysterical and you give a very good description
by mrmcdermott21043 on March 24th, 2008
That's awesome.
by BitterSweet on April 30th, 2008
I'll never look at cabbage patch kids in the same way again lol.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on May 11th, 2008
@ Booze Hound - omg i know, same.
by iiNSANE on May 11th, 2008
you have a serious problem but you make me laugh lol.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on May 12th, 2008
Can i have her digits?
by Shadows Fall on May 19th, 2008
lol
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on May 20th, 2008
ahahahaha brilliant
by secondratebitch on May 30th, 2008
8 year old maniac...;D
Great job!
by Asiile on June 3rd, 2008
LMAO
by Liev4life38 on June 21st, 2008
hahahahahaha.
by onethingisclearo9 on July 17th, 2008
ROFLMAO
by Rainman1515 on July 25th, 2008
Man you are scary....
by Anonymous on August 3rd, 2008
Wonder if she ever sprouted any children!
by DwarfClown on August 6th, 2008
Best looking one yet I'LL BET!
by wthing8 on August 7th, 2008
I hope you cheked her tag to see her birthday.
by Major Look at yerself on October 11th, 2008
OMFG that cheating slut! never trust a cabbage patch doll she was my first to
by Surplus on January 18th, 2009
What a great story.
by Anonymous on June 1st, 2009
she may show up one day with some little sprouts!
by johnson7877 on June 30th, 2009
that's real disturbing. honestly, fucking a cabbage patch kids doll? were u dropped on ur head b4 than? than again it reminds me of a movie called mannequin,it's where this dude finds a mannequin and believes a princess is possessing it and he fucks it every opportunity he gets. thats what it kinda reminds me of.
by krizalid on August 2nd, 2009
It was a joke krizalid - that story was very erotic lol ..fucking a cabbage patch doll lol
by Icognegro on November 5th, 2009
That was funny lol!
by Tahuti on November 15th, 2009
by Glenn Blaylock on October 4th, 2006
39 and I am saving myself for marriage.
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"bignose: --baloney---"
"Anonymous: I dont think he was serious. LOL"
I am completely serious? I am waiting until I get married and, as Darryl61 pointed out, this is entirely consistent with other answers I have given.
http://tinyurl.com/kysc2
http://tinyurl.com/hdmxb
http://tinyurl.com/e59u5
http://tinyurl.com/jlor4
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41 and I lost my virginity on my wedding night (last night).
You are to be commended for your adherence to your beliefs. Some people only talk the talk.
by Darryl61 on October 4th, 2006
I dont think he was serious. LOL
by JUSTNORMAL on October 4th, 2006
--baloney---
by bignose on October 4th, 2006
He is serious, it is not baloney, you two have obviously never read any of his other answers, and to rate him not useful for this answer is pure B.S.
by Darryl61 on October 4th, 2006
LMFAO. Some people never grow up.
by Sunblynd 5.0 on October 4th, 2006
why would someone LIE that they were a virgin at 39?
by lady fuschia on October 6th, 2006
thats awesome!!!! i commend you, don't give in its worth the wait big time!!!
by my_litch91 on November 21st, 2006
The soon-to-be-40 year old virgin, right here with us the whole time. Can we get an autograph? Love your work.
by Stableboy on November 21st, 2006
Suit yourself. Although I have heard that if you leave it too long you get a resurgence of wet dreams in your forties, so watch out.
by Halskiisaklink on November 23rd, 2006
That's truly awesome. I have so much admiraiton for that and wish all guys were mature enough to have that kind of respect. So, thank you.
by Geekette on December 10th, 2006
Wow good job man. Celibacy til marriage is the way to go.
by Valparaiso on December 11th, 2006
wtf mate? get married.
by 4theyeblind on December 11th, 2006
"Suit yourself. Although I have heard that if you leave it too long you get a resurgence of wet dreams in your forties, so watch out." Umm..That's what masterbating is for.
by Castrate on December 20th, 2006
Master-what?!? Holy cow, my friend! Haven't you seen Monty Python's "The Life Of Brian"? Every sperm is sacred! Every sperm's a life! Bate ye no masters, else be smote! LOL
by teknimage on December 20th, 2006
Do you have a girlfriend?
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
no comment lol.
by turbowray on December 21st, 2006
Lay off him, all of you, and especially Stableboy. I am 38 and I am still a virgin. Why do you nitwits always think people like us are some sort of freaks?
by McKennaGirl on December 21st, 2006
I'm impressed, I only hope that I could maintain the faith that long if I have to. Of course I'm hoping that I don't have to.
by Valparaiso on December 21st, 2006
Sweetie, I was not giving him a bad time, promise, I just wanted to know if he was involved with someone, who might just end up being Mrs.Right.
by turbowray on December 21st, 2006
McKennaGirl: Who's "people like us"? If you're talking about self-righteous, holier than thou, egotistically arrogant and narrow-minded people, well, I guess you may have it right. Other than that, I don't think many people here were picking on Glenn. But good for you to jump to his rescue. I just wish I knew what you think you were defending. :)
by teknimage on December 21st, 2006
I always love how people who arn't ultra liberal atheists are always the closed minded ones. Isn't that interesting?
by Valparaiso on December 21st, 2006
First off, I'm hardly ultra anything, let alone liberal. I don't think you know me THAT well. LOL Aside from our different religious views, I actually think we share quite a few common ideas on things. The comments I made were directed at Glenn, because we've had our rows before, and at McKennaGirl, because she seemed to be blowing something out of proportion. That's it.
by teknimage on December 21st, 2006
I wasn't making a comment towards anyone in particular actually. The closed minded comment just got me on my soapbox about how for some reason a liberal atheist can't be closed minded about anything. At least according to them.
by Valparaiso on December 21st, 2006
LOL I agree! That particular affliction seems to affect people from all walks of life. Sorry to think you were talking directly to me there. :)
by teknimage on December 21st, 2006
Why do you ask RedScare? What is it that you truely do not get?
by turbowray on January 8th, 2007
Everyone meet the 40 year old virgin! Seriously though bravo on your tenacity!
by larrymcjon on February 1st, 2007
I'll never look at men with moustaches the same way again.
by Halskiisaklink on February 1st, 2007
Don't make fun of this guy you bunch of hypocrites. You are the same people who say don't condemn something as gay marraige. Believing there is no God, even believing in Gay marraige are considered "acceptable", but believing in being celabate til' marriage is not? What the hell ever happened to "everyone is entitled to their own opinion"? This is a free country now stop judging people based on stereotypes. What the hell is wrong with you people? grow up! It is this man's opinion. why single him out, would you stand up for what you believe in?
by needhelpbadly on February 8th, 2007
Ah lighten up needhelpbadly, we're just razzing glenn, he knows that.
Your a newb and not even out of your AB diapers yet and obviously don't
have a clue of what's going on.
by Sunblynd 5.0 on February 9th, 2007
chill both of you. need> I'm glad your willing to defend him but I didn't read anything of them attacking him or being closed minded about it because I'd be all over them. Sun> This isn't counter-strike we don't make fun of people for being "newbs"
by Valparaiso on February 9th, 2007
Was I making fun? I thought I was just being sarchastic. No worries.
by Sunblynd 5.0 on February 9th, 2007
Glenn, you never answered me. Is there someone in your life, that may end up being Mrs.Right? I hope so!:)~
by turbowray on February 9th, 2007
Let me just put it to you this way. I am looking forward to the day when I can change my answer to this question to be a near duplicate of my brother's. Hopefully that day is not too much further away.
by Glenn Blaylock on February 9th, 2007
Well I admire your committment because while I'm 24 and still waiting til marriage, I don't think I could make it to 39 if I had to. Good luck.
by Valparaiso on February 9th, 2007
I hope that day is very near Glenn!! Who is your brother?
by turbowray on February 9th, 2007
turbo> Thats Bob Baylock LOL
by Valparaiso on February 9th, 2007
Good for you! Me too.
by broken on February 25th, 2007
You got my good rating Glenn!
by Fisherofman on March 27th, 2007
Why the question mark? Does your voice go involutarily up at the end of each sentence?
by Halskiisaklink on April 30th, 2007
So you have never even given a chick a ride on your mustache?
by Ridiculous on April 30th, 2007
*involuntarily
by Halskiisaklink on April 30th, 2007
I was asking Mr. Blaylock
by Ridiculous on April 30th, 2007
No, Ridiculous, I have not.
by Glenn Blaylock on April 30th, 2007
damn shame, with a mustache, you can savor the flavor for hours.
by Ridiculous on April 30th, 2007
That's disgusting.
by Halskiisaklink on April 30th, 2007
amen.
by The Wade on August 20th, 2007
Good for you Glenn. Self control is rare these days.
by Anonymous on August 22nd, 2007
*masturbates*
by Halskiisaklink on August 22nd, 2007
Sakhalinskii - that was rude.
Good for you Glenn!
by Not Here Anymore on September 25th, 2007
*Masturbates in public*
by Halskiisaklink on September 25th, 2007
Note that Sakhalinskii and I have had some rather spirited debates. Now rather than dealing with our disagreements on an intellectual level he simply stoops to personal insults and character assassination. I don't recall ever doing this to him. So, this shows how bankrupt his ideas are and how lacking in maturity he is. So, I will just consider the source and let it go at that.
by Glenn Blaylock on September 25th, 2007
I don't know why you would call me immature. *Rolls eyes* And I hardly see how masturbating in public is an insult. But hey, I don't really care (and I know that's an awful cop-out).
by Halskiisaklink on September 25th, 2007
Understood, Glenn. I'll just leave it at that. My comment stands. I think your choice is admirable. No amount of pettiness here is going to change that. :-)
by Not Here Anymore on September 26th, 2007
I admire you very much Glen for waiting, Glen. I did too, though I was much younger than you, but still have to go through knowing my guy for 4 years during those heated up hormone teen years. I couldn't help thinking of something humorous when I read your answer today. I was thinking, if you wait much longer you may say you are preserving yourself for marriage lol! But I'm sure it will be worth it for both you and her. I hope there is someone just over the rise for you:-)
by Galeanda on April 8th, 2008
If you look anything like that drawing Glen, you might get a little closer to marriage if you loose the mustache. Mustaches are so gay cowboy.
by Ridiculous on April 25th, 2008
Can you say shallow, boys and girls?
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For you information, I keep the mustache for reasons that have nothing to do with fashion or looks. I have a moll on my upper lip that likes to bleed quite profusely when it gets nicked. I did this one too many times when I was shaving my upper lip. So, I grew the mustache rather so that I wouldn't have to deal with that any more. So, trying being a little less judgmental over such superficial things.
by Glenn Blaylock on April 25th, 2008
Glenn is one of few people I know who can cut himself shaving with an electric razor.
by Anonymous on April 26th, 2008
Do you have an identifiable patch of extreme black mole/pubic-hair where the mole is located under your moustache's stylish canopy?
by Halskiisaklink on April 26th, 2008
your jokeing right,does it still work lol.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on May 11th, 2008
Booze hound ttly agree! no way it still works
by undecided on July 29th, 2008
lol,you know what they say "use it or lose it"
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on July 30th, 2008
I bet it does still work since the most important sex organ is between the ears not the legs lmao! Good going Glenn!!! It's worth the wait.
by Meleggles on July 30th, 2008
I think you need a basic biology lesson lol,nothing is worth waiting that long for.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on July 30th, 2008
Well, maybe after you finish your physiology course you can teach me a few things. Many things in life are worth the wait. It only makes things sweeter. But if you've never expereinced patience and anticipation, you wouldn't know that.
by Meleggles on July 30th, 2008
I think that someone who is a virgin at 39 probably has serious issues and needs psychological counseling. Sex is a human NEED, if you aren't getting it, it can seriously screw you up mentally. Look at Catholic priests.
by Ridiculous on July 30th, 2008
LOL! Priests? If they are screwed up it's because they ARE having sex with kids. If you don't make sex a big priority in your life it doesn't have to be such a big issue. Millions of normal people throughout all history have lived without constant sex. Get busy doing something with your life and make a difference, then your mind won't always be in your nether regions. If you have a loved one, then go for it. But if you have better things to do, it doesn't make you a mental case LOL!!! What do they teach you in school nowadays or did you learn from your friends?
by Meleggles on July 30th, 2008
I think the point ridiculous is trying to make is that if a 39 year man has chosen to be a virgin he may have intermisey issues.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on August 3rd, 2008
and priest are creepy
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on August 3rd, 2008
I think the point all of you idiots are missing is that there is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin at age 39. It takes more courage and conviction to hold true to what you believe in than it takes to cave in to physical desires. Most of the people who have commented here have completely missed the point.
by Darryl61 on August 3rd, 2008
Um, YES THERE IS!
by Ridiculous on August 3rd, 2008
And now we know that there isn't anything wrong with 'it' or how 'it' works because 'it' apparently got a workout this weekend. I bet it was worth the wait and no regrets for waiting this long.
by Meleggles on August 3rd, 2008
How wonderful, Glenn. Congratulations!!!!!! I wish you all the best, both of you:-) It's great to find a person of high morals:-)
by Galeanda on August 3rd, 2008
good for him,my he sow his oats far and wide lol
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on August 8th, 2008
No, I will only so my wild oats with one woman, she who is now my wife.
by Glenn Blaylock on August 9th, 2008
Good going, Glenn. I'm so happy to hear there are loving, moral men out there:-)
by Galeanda on August 9th, 2008
good luck anyway mate
was it as good as you expected?
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on August 11th, 2008
A gentleman doesn't discuss such things, especially in public.
by Glenn Blaylock on August 12th, 2008
See, I knew you were a good moral man. Thanks, Glenn for demonstrating what a man who respects women, and especially his wife, acts like:-)
by Galeanda on August 12th, 2008
Your welcome.
by Glenn Blaylock on August 12th, 2008
Congrats Glenn.
by Darryl61 on August 12th, 2008
*Discusses such things, in public*
by Halskiisaklink on August 12th, 2008
come on glenn give us some juicy details lol.galeanda i would'nt consider myself to be "a moral man" but i do have great respect for women.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on August 16th, 2008
Unlike you I am a gentleman. So, you will never get the detail out of me. Therefore, you might as well drop it.
by Glenn Blaylock on August 16th, 2008
ok,well have fun you've got a lot of catching up to do lol.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on August 16th, 2008
wow.. congrats man
by El Fabrizio on December 21st, 2008
Bravo! It's good to hear something like that with the world as perverse as it has become.
by Feathertail on September 17th, 2009
Congrats to you too for being a descent guy, Glenn Blaylock! Not many out there like you; we need more.
by Vaporeongirl on September 17th, 2009
i have'nt seen glen on hear recently so i think he's been makeing up for lost time lol
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 18th, 2009
Tell me you at least masterbated for 41 years.(Hope she saved it for you)
by Lovin Life on September 18th, 2009
i think he must of done or his balls would explode.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 20th, 2009
Yah, that's amazing self control if he didn't. I think 41 minutes is my record.
by Lovin Life on September 20th, 2009
after all those years i bet he did'nt last very long lol.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 20th, 2009
I honestly don't know how the male body would react after that long without sex. They say you have to use it or lose it, but I guess that's not true. A guy would have to have wet dreams regularly. The sperm's gotta go somewhere.
by Lovin Life on September 20th, 2009
true but he'd only have wet dreams if he did'nt wank.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 20th, 2009
Well, I guess glenn only knows what happened to all that sperm. It shall forever remain a mystery to us. Any doctors out there? Does the body quit producing sperm until necessary?
by Lovin Life on September 20th, 2009
it is indeed a mystery
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 20th, 2009
Biblical times was where waiting until marriage comes from.
The average life expectancy if you made it out of childhood was about 40 in biblical times. Plus a girl got married when she was about 13.So people were getting their freak on a lot younger those days, and waiting until marriage only really meant waiting until your teens. You probably weren't making past 40 in those days.
So a grown ass man who is a virgin at 39 in this day and age? Definite mental issues.
by Ridiculous on September 21st, 2009
Lulz.
by Halskiisaklink on September 21st, 2009
i agree,it's a bit creepy
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 22nd, 2009
Ridiculous, you are living up to your UID. Just because someone actually chooses to live according to their beliefs does not mean that they have mental issues. I would say that it is the one that doesn't understand this that has the problem.
by Glenn Blaylock on September 24th, 2009
Not meaning to offend you, but what exactly do you believe?
by Lovin Life on September 24th, 2009
I believe that sexual activity should be restricted the marital relationship and that any such activity outside of that relationship is not just wrong, but also very irresponsible. There are so many dangers associated with the promiscuous lifestyle that it just isn't worth it. So, in keeping with this belief, I did not engage in such behavior until after I got married. The only sexual partner that I have had and will ever have is my wife.
by Glenn Blaylock on September 24th, 2009
It is dangerous, but there are condoms. how did you resist temptation for all those years? I think about sex allot & women are so attractive. I would have lost my mind.
by Lovin Life on September 24th, 2009
I agree, I really should stop masturbating until I marry.
by Halskiisaklink on September 25th, 2009
lol,i'm horny and it's only been a mounth.and i'm not looking to get married any time soon.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 25th, 2009
Condom don't protect against everything and they are not a sure protection against even those things against which they do protect.
by Glenn Blaylock on September 25th, 2009
if used correctly they protect against pregnancy and most s.t.d's which is good enough for me.
im not trying to insult you,i think the point Ridiculous was makeing is that you may have 'intimicy issues' but you'd need to get a profesional opion on that.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 25th, 2009
I'm not trying to be insulting here, but isn't it funny how those that lack morals always assume that those that do have something wrong with them.
by Glenn Blaylock on September 25th, 2009
i'm not assumeing i'm just 'thinking aloud',you are quite a unusual case.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 26th, 2009
I see prostate problems in the future for you, GB.
by DudeLer 2 on September 26th, 2009
I'm thinking of something more along the lines of a twisted ovary.
by Halskiisaklink on September 26th, 2009
a question to glenn:now you've had a few months practice is your aim improveing lol.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 27th, 2009
As I wrote above, a gentleman does not discuss the details of his love life with others.
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Personally, I am getting tired of the juvenile nature of this discussion. So, I am going to let you two discuss my love life in private. Unsubscribed.
by Glenn Blaylock on September 27th, 2009
i'll take that as a no.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 27th, 2009
OMG pwned.
by Halskiisaklink on September 27th, 2009
i salute you...that's the way!
by Anonymous on November 18th, 2009
by Miss Priceless Princess fancies RUSirius on November 21st, 2006
I'm 15, and I will wait until marriage. In my culture, it's not considered proper to have sex before you marry.
What culture are you in?
by AntigoneRising on December 11th, 2006
Sikhism
by Miss Priceless Princess fancies RUSirius on December 11th, 2006
Oh, cool. I have an aquaintance (used to work together) who is Sikh.
by AntigoneRising on December 11th, 2006
sikh is a community of people who are basically from india,they r good people.they can be easily be recogniced
by jigish on December 16th, 2006
Way to go, I look up to you for waiting!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
Yeah dude. I'm 15 too and I totaly agree with you!!
by Hazard on August 3rd, 2007
Dudette*, and wowww I'm actually 16 now, as of today! xD
by Miss Priceless Princess fancies RUSirius on August 4th, 2007
Your a girl?
by Hazard on August 4th, 2007
Obviously she is a girl, but Sikhism doesn't really have a double standard in that regard. I have a male Sikh friend who was a virgin until he was 25.
by AntigoneRising on August 5th, 2007
O.K. but just don't lose your virginity until your married!!
by Hazard on August 5th, 2007
seems u r very boring..who would wait till that long??
by New Delhi_India on January 12th, 2008
A smart person who knows more then you.
by Hazard on January 12th, 2008
so i guess you're filipino too? (im filipino btw)
by gianngianngiann on April 1st, 2008
you are right ,and you are too younger, you should keep your virginity position until you get married. you should keep your promise.
by liangceo on April 4th, 2008
He is right.
by Hazard on April 5th, 2008
Thank goodness!
by UneFille on April 26th, 2008
good luck your going to need it.seriosly you dont know what your missing,i've gone 5 months without and it's killing me lol.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on May 11th, 2008
Wonderful
by CandiSuzanne on June 23rd, 2008
your obviously still alive so its not killing you BOOZE HOUND
unless you caught some debilitating disease the last time you had sex, my advise, see a doctor
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on July 7th, 2008
i hate to admit that the seemingly boneheaded booze hound is right but, he might be. not about the killing you part but that it's going to be hard, not to stay a virgin but to have a relationship and stay one. I'm 16 and am a proud virgin but i also know that any of my boyfriends had we gone out long enough would have dumped me because i don't put out. I've had friends tell me they wouldn't break up with their someone if they weren't having sex, but my point is they were and that changes things.
by finsxfangs on August 17th, 2008
it's up to you but whats "boneheaded" about the natural desire to have sex,i dont need a doctor i allways use protection.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on August 24th, 2008
well I'm sure a worm would say its boneheaded
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on August 25th, 2008
why are you dragging worms into this?
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on August 27th, 2008
why should i leave them out? they have feelings to you know
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on August 28th, 2008
you know what TG.. I honestly, tried to wait.. I wanted to big wedding. Me and my ex were together for 6 years.. sure he was 6 years older than me.. but, i lost it when i was 17. Not by choice...And I dont regret it.. I think things happen for reasons that we just dont understand why.. or what for..
But, I give congrats to you cuz, ur waiting till marriage..
Thats respectable.. To yourself...
:)
by Adee on August 28th, 2008
GOOD LUCK!
HA!
by notthemessiah on July 16th, 2009
i give you 6 mounths it's to big a temptation to wait lol.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on July 16th, 2009
It's been almost 3 years since I gave this answer Boozehound. 18 in August and guess what? Still a virgin. ;)
by Miss Priceless Princess fancies RUSirius on July 17th, 2009
i'm impressed,i dont know how you've done it.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on July 18th, 2009
Oui, je sais! My mother would be very proud haha..
by Miss Priceless Princess fancies RUSirius on July 18th, 2009
Good for you! I'm 18 too, and I haven't had sex yet either... :)
by Anonymous on July 18th, 2009
wow you guys have way more self control than anyone i know
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on July 19th, 2009
4 real
by Left hand of SATAN Right hand of God on September 28th, 2009
same with mine. thank the lord I'm not the only one... on this site. that's how it feel.
by Marisaaaaa on October 5th, 2009
by my_litch91 on November 21st, 2006
haven't yet, i'm fifteeen. saving it for marriage, have a chastity ring.
I commend your decision. As a mother of a teenager, I applaud you. My daughter, too, wears a chasitity ring. Our church had a banquet for the whole youth group, 7th grade and up, for the kids, boys and girls alike to promise to themselves, their parents, and God to wait until marriage. Stand firm in your belief!! Way to go!!
by kyannie72 on December 11th, 2006
I second that, way to go!!!!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
Well. First thing I notice (which rocks) is that the word tity (boobs) is in chastity
by Raunchy_yet_hot_dude on December 24th, 2006
wow, Raunchy. Uncalled for, maybe?
by Tinkabelle on January 10th, 2007
Keep on doing the right thing..
by Singingismystyle on January 19th, 2007
Keep up the good work, save it for the right person
by Robbie708 on January 26th, 2007
Sheesh Raunchy, I can see that you will have soooo much to offer this site. Oh, did you happen to notice the sarcasm there!!! Oh, I see he has not returned lol, since he was here for one day in December.
by turbowray on January 27th, 2007
Good for you. I warn you that it is hard, but I garauntee you will be thankful every day you decide to keep your promise. Well, maybe not the day of, but at least the next day. And when you get married, you'll be SO happy you waited.
by broken on February 25th, 2007
Its gonna hurt honey
by Miss Cookie Monster on March 19th, 2007
what the f**k is a chasity ring? but its nice that ur waiting.
by violet182nemo on May 9th, 2007
a chastity ring is like a promise ring that u'll wait till your marriage im guesing :)
by sammy87 on August 6th, 2007
In my opinion the whole idea of a chastity ring is just a way for jewellerys to make money out of people who want to wait that long. no offence to you!
by Gemzibobz on November 25th, 2007
And a chastity ring doesn't prove anything. What ever happened to chastity belts? I miss those.
by Dedao Capoeira-seed on November 27th, 2007
I have a chastity belt.
by rosebudmelissa on December 4th, 2007
OMG you have a chastity belt??? I've always wanted to know what those things looked like.
by Tespot was told she looks like a koala on February 6th, 2008
Good!
by UneFille on April 26th, 2008
My_litch91, you are one awesome girl!
HUZZA!
KUDOS!
PRAISE HER WITH GREAT PRAISE.
If there are a few more like you, I might decide not to destroy the human species.
by Sandman on August 9th, 2008
Because they're unprepared... makes sense. Yeah hormones at that age are hard to fight.
by Dedao Capoeira-seed on September 16th, 2008
Awesome! If you can help your friends follow the same path (if they are not already) that would be even better.
by capstone on January 1st, 2009
Good for you. I encourage you to stick to your guns. I hope you make it.
by Anonymous on February 26th, 2009
Honey, you just made my day. Just when I thought decency was a thing of the past.
by Sandman on February 27th, 2009
I didn't know they made rings that big.. wow.. I bet you'll need a lot of KY jelly to get that sucker off. You'll have to go to a tire shop to get it taken off.
by Legend In Your Own Mind on March 1st, 2009
That's gonna be romantic losing virginity in a tire shop. LOL I bet they get a lot of laughs the next day at work there. ;)
by Legend In Your Own Mind on March 1st, 2009
ohh shyt, a chastity ring>? lol thats crazy! :0
by Army_Don on March 30th, 2009
Does the ring have powers to eletricute you whenever your about to make a sexual move or something? :O hahaha
by Elvira on May 26th, 2009
My daughter, who also had a ring and took the pledge now has two kids and has never been married.
The dirt ball who convinced her he was "Mr Right" turned out to be a slime ball who thinks its his right to sew his oats wherever and whenever he wants.
I say if they're going to pass out rings give them to the young "men" who's ideas of responsibility is limited to eating a meal before they starve to death and little else. The rings shouldn't go on fingers either. Fingers don't make unwanted babies and mean very little anyway. You're better off just tying a string around your finger or better yet, writing it on paper and tacking it on a wall: "Don't F**K till I can afford to pay the consequences." Do chastity rings say that? I kind of doubt it. ;)
My grandmother had a better idea. Hold two aspirin between your knees and make sure they never drop. Sure fire solution.
Good luck anyway. ;)
by Legend In Your Own Mind on May 26th, 2009
yet again... GOOD LUCK
by notthemessiah on July 16th, 2009
No luck needed. Common sense goes a LONG way. But what the hell...Good luck anyway.
by Legend In Your Own Mind on July 16th, 2009
Right, I always heard that the best birth control pill was an aspirin, held tightly between a girls knees.
by Hotchik on July 21st, 2009
wow thats awesome
by keith89 on October 31st, 2009
I respect your decision but here's my opinion: If girls get chastity rings, guys should too! Otherwise, chastity rings are nothing but a means of patriarchal, Judeo-Christian control of female sexuality. I'm Jewish but I'm not devout and I have agnostic ideals. I highly disagree with female controlling ways. The only thing I like about Judaism is the Kabbalah. I favor complete equality but I gotta admit I love how the Kabbalah says that women are naturally spiritual creatures and how the Talmud says to the man reading it that he should put his wife's pleasure first. I wonder if Christianity has anything like that. In any case, you have a basic human right to submit to your natural urges. Nothing is more pure than nature. Religion is a human construction and is as corrupt as politics. Don't be offended or cuss me out. I'm venting.
by rebellious angel on October 22nd, 2010
Good on you, girl. My hat is off to you.
HUZZAH!
PRAISE HER WITH GREAT PRAISE!
Your virginity is the most precious gift you can give to your husband on your wedding night.
by Sandman on October 25th, 2010
Thank you :) But I hope you realize I believe in premarital sex.
by rebellious angel on October 25th, 2010
by jt007m on November 21st, 2006
I first had sex with a man when I was 13 and a woman when I was 14. I'm 28 years old now.
Are you bisexual then?
by queenellen on December 10th, 2006
I consider myself a Kinsey 4... Mostly because I believe that attraction occurs between people and not genitalia...
by jt007m on December 10th, 2006
ehh.
by 4theyeblind on December 11th, 2006
good answer
by tigueron on December 14th, 2006
how come with both the sex . r u a third one or what
by jigish on December 16th, 2006
I'm a 28yo man. I have a penis... not a vagina... a penis... I also have had relationships with women AND men. I've never had a preference. It's not because I'm greedy or perverted or crazy. I believe in relationships occuring between people. I don't think or feel with my genitals, so why should I limit who I'm attracted to because of theirs?
by jt007m on December 16th, 2006
Why is this a good answer? Because he had sex with both women and men, that makes this a good answer? Wow..
by Castrate on December 20th, 2006
No, because it was an honest answer I imagine.
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
I believe in following my heart as well. Kudos jt.
by Anonymous on December 20th, 2006
Don't listen to castrate, jt007m. Props for your honesty. Also, I think it's cool that you use Kinsey's scale. It gives a view of sexuality outside of the labels gay, straight, and bi. It's a very cool idea...that love and attraction aren't restricted by gender.
by Anonymous on December 23rd, 2006
Don't listen to me? I was simply asking why this was a good answer..If I answered saying, "hey, I murdered my children, in a slow and painful way, but I kind of liked it", would that be a good answer if I was being honest? I know I know..don't compare apples to oranges..Listen, in my opinion, just because somebody is honest about something, doesn't mean they gave a good answer..At the same time, I'm not saying it was a bad one..I am curious though, if I had made a post saying, "I'm straight", would you say I gave a good answer too? Simply because I was honest? That's just silly in my book.
by Castrate on December 23rd, 2006
Castrate- answering "I'm straight" doesn't answer this question. It's asking for what age you first had sex and for your current age. My answer is neither good nor bad... just an answer. People might rate it up or down because it sparks a conversation and I'm totally open for that. If you take a look at my answers and comments on this site, you'll see that I'm generally a frank person and will answer with the knowledge from my extensive education and colorful life experiences. I'm in the entertainment industry, modesty and pretense is lost on me.
by jt007m on December 23rd, 2006
Yes I know that saying, "I'm straight", wouldn't answer the question. But I felt that it was you being honest about having sex with both a man, and a woman at an early age, that made some people say this was a good answer. Other people have said what age they lost their virginity at, and those people didn't say they gave a good answer..Probably because there wasn't anything different about that answer, than any of the other answers. So, I was assuming they said this was a good answer because of you mentioning that you would basically have sex with anyone, of any sex. And I have already showed the hypocrisy in that, so need I say more?
by Castrate on December 23rd, 2006
I never said I would have sex with anyone of any sex... Where did you get that? And I don't see how you've enlightened anyone on the hypocrisy of anything. People rate for different reasons and often, if an answer has en around for a while it might accumulated points that newer answers may not be able to catch up to...
by jt007m on December 23rd, 2006
1.)"I first had sex with a man when I was 13 and a woman when I was 14. I'm 28 years old now."
2.) "I'm a 28yo man. I have a penis... not a vagina... a penis... I also have had relationships with women AND men. I've never had a preference. It's not because I'm greedy or perverted or crazy. I believe in relationships occuring between people. I don't think or feel with my genitals, so why should I limit who I'm attracted to because of theirs?" That's where I got the idea that you would pretty much have sex with anyone, no matter what the sex..Also, I showed how hypocritical it is to rate this a good answer, because you were honest about something, but when somebody else is honest, they don't get the same response..Why not? Because you admitted something, that most people would either find disgusting, or weird..And I'm just saying, there is nothing special about your answer in my book..
by Castrate on December 23rd, 2006
My lack of preference between the sexes doesn't mean that I'll have intercourse with anyone that comes my way. I do have preferences when it come to physical attributes and to personalities. I agree with you that there is nothing special about my answer, but others might... and for their own reasons. Momma_bear and ErikaJ gave theirs, others might not have the words to elaborate their thoughts or emotions on the subject - nothing hypocritical about that...
by jt007m on December 23rd, 2006
Well, the way you talked, made it sound, like looks had nothing to do with it. And I assumed that meant you only cared about personality..After all, you don't feel wit your genitals, right? Anyways, I still feel they're hypocrites for saying this a special answer, but not considering another answer that didn't have anything to do with being bi..I think people take the whole, "this is the new age, we need to be open to new things" too far. They start acting like people who actually do those things, are special, and that somehow they're better..Or at least that's how it seems a lot of people act like. By the way, I have stayed up all night, and can barely open my eyes..So, I may regret typing this later..So, if I wake up in the morning, and feel completely different about the subject, then that's why..
by Castrate on December 23rd, 2006
Castrate, in my defense, I never actually used the phrase "good answer." I just said "props for your honesty" because, as you've so eloquently and so aggressively helped demonstrate, it takes courage to be honest about something that is societally unconventional. I also said it's cool that he chose to use the Kinsey scale to express his sexuality. He mentioned it in one of his comments rather than in his answer.
Finally, if it were hypocritical to give one person high ratings for an honest answer without uprating ALL honest answers, none of us would ever have time to do anything but be on answerbag uprating honest answers! I'm sorry but I'm not going to spend my entire life reading every answer to every question ever posted just so that I can avoid your tenuous accusation of hypocrisy.
by Anonymous on December 23rd, 2006
One more thing. I don't judge you, jt007m. I just try to live and let live.
by Anonymous on December 23rd, 2006
erika, first off, I know it wasn't you that said, "good answer".Second, I didn't say there was anything wrong with giving this a good rating, and not another. But as I pointed out earlier, being honest does not mean that your answer is good. It depends on what they're honest about, right? Because I'm sure if he admitted to killing somebody, you wouldn't be praising him for his honesty. (or at least I hope not) And I was just wondering why being honest about being attracted to both sexes, is such a great answer, is all..By the way, I don't know why you say,"our society"..how do you know where he lives? He may live in the most open minded area ever. Also, almost every time, when somebody posts something saying that they're gay, or bi, they almost always get good responses. So, at least on the internet, it's not a rare thing to see somebody talking about how gay they are. And it's not hard to admit on the internet either. Hell, it's even easy to admit to being ugly on the internet..
by Castrate on December 23rd, 2006
Your point well taken, Castrate. Also, in retrospect, I wish I hadn't said "Don't listen to Castrate." Every answerbagger deserves to have their say. Sorry bout that...it's easy to get carried away.
by Anonymous on December 23rd, 2006
It's ok, and thank you for not being incredibly arrogant, like most people on here..Including myself by the way.
by Castrate on December 23rd, 2006
points for your courage to say that.
by O_hare on January 4th, 2007
Castrate is easily one of my favorite people right now :)
by Tinkabelle on January 10th, 2007
i'm sorry it's kind of gross in my opinion... you're most likely athiest and athiests believe in evolution. so... technically it's against nature to be homosexual in my opinion... weird
by needhelpbadly on February 8th, 2007
needhelp, I find it rude for you to label jt007m by any means that you find satisfactory. For you to claim that he's an atheist simply for answering this question honestly is the only thing that's "weird" here. Your stereotypes aren't needed in commenting on this, nor is it required. Please think before you place your own thoughts on someone else without fully understanding the situation and the angle from which they're coming. I say this with all due respect.
by Tinkabelle on February 8th, 2007
wow, i said most likely i didn't say he was lol. and why do you say athiest is a bad term... i was just pointing out that it contradicted. I am sorry, but I could just never be attracted to another man... It's just strange to me, and i was stating my OPINION, isn't that what comments are for? Now please don't condone me for my opinion.
by needhelpbadly on February 8th, 2007
The last thing I want from anyone is to have them believe that their opinion is worth nothing. I love to hear people's opinions- which explains why I'm a member at Answerbag in the first place- and by saying that, I simply meant that there's a way to say everything, because it's not WHAT you say but how you say it. "Most likely," says that there's a high percentage rate that jt007m is an atheist, but nothing that he's said suggests it. I don't even understand where this becomes relevant in answering this question. The fact that YOU couldn't be attracted to a man has absolutely nothing to do with jt, and probably won't affect his outlook on the whole subject. Everyone is different and thinks differently. This is the way of the world.
by Tinkabelle on February 8th, 2007
p.s. I didn't say "atheist" was a bad term. To each his own. I'm not judgemental at all, and I have no desire to judge anyone's beliefs nor do I want to.
by Tinkabelle on February 8th, 2007
I don't take offense to much but I'm not sure if I should take offense to this or not... "technically" means something is fact. So are you saying your opinion is fact? By the way, I consider myself a Pantheist...
by jt007m on February 9th, 2007
To: CASTRATE. i was just passing by and couldnt help noticing your annoying comments. Just thought I'd tell you to SIT DOWN and SHUT UP. Someone needs to tell you and give you a virtual slap round the face before you hurt yourself and others. You're not as clever as you think you are. But you'll learn. I hope you manage to find peace within your angry soul. Its not impossible. I was like you once.
by benoit_gemise on February 16th, 2007
wow.
by Tinkabelle on February 16th, 2007
To Little Pugnacious benoit:..Haha, I doubt you were ever like me...You're much too stupid...Care to tell me what I said that bugged you so much? For somebody as "new" as yourself, you certainly have a BIG mouth...Now, be quiet little girl, for your opinion isn't wanted here. Do you really think telling me to sit down in all caps, is going to make YOU look intelligent at all? Just, don't say anything else, before you make yourself look any more stupid.
by Castrate on February 16th, 2007
Also, these comments have been long forgotten, as far as I knew anyway. So, congratulations for bringing up a dead subject, that nobody cared about anymore.
by Castrate on February 16th, 2007
lmao, Castrate :D That's the way to do it ;)
by Tinkabelle on February 16th, 2007
Haha, thank you Tinkabelle.
by Castrate on February 16th, 2007
Ah Castrate. You are so darn predictable. I thank you :) But anyways, apologies for "bringing up a dead subject" and upsetting you. I will leave you and your sad internet life alone now.
by benoit_gemise on February 17th, 2007
Predictable? Obviously...The most likely things I would do, after you said that, are the following: 1.)Insult you back. 2.)Agree with you, and be friends. 3.)Not do anything. And as you can see...I chose the first option. Doesn't take a lot of intelligence to "predict" that, now does it? I did what most people would have done, because it's the best response to such arrogance, I think. If you were actually trying to say your opinion, then that would be different. But you just wanted to annoy me. So, you got an appropriate response.
by Castrate on February 17th, 2007
I think the "good answer", was a response to the answer from the question of "are you bisexual." I think it was a good answer because it was indepth, it didn't just have an age and that is all. Lost manly virginity at a certain age, and virginity as it is known at another. It is two different kinds of virginity, in my opinion only. I can see where you are coming from though on the defense of no one telling someone else good answer, on what would have been expected with a question like this.
by turbowray on February 22nd, 2007
This off-topic word mincing was bitter to start with and has gone completely stale... can't we all just get along?
by Anonymous on February 22nd, 2007
Thats a lotta commewnts
by Lukezor on March 14th, 2007
well i dont think its possible to have sex with a man if your a man or a woman if your a woman the defenition of sex is either of the two major forms of individuals that occur in many species and that are distinguished respectively as female or male especially on the basis of their reproductive organs and structures
by strongARM on March 15th, 2007
Well...jt007m rules, so I win.
by Fisherofman on March 27th, 2007
That depends on if it's consensual. I mean, if you were forced it doesn't count, but if it was 'statutory rape,' it does.
by Vashtar on April 30th, 2007
strongARM makes no sense are you against teh gay comunity or sumthing since when has sex been something that only a man and woman can do together?
by Black_Squirrel on May 28th, 2007
kudos!
by Gemzibobz on November 25th, 2007
this comment strand has been dead for a while, so i want to say that i applaude you jt in your answer. It takes a strong confidence in mind an a powerful knowledge of who you are to find attraction in someone and have sexuality emerge from that as a result. :)
by Tespot was told she looks like a koala on February 6th, 2008
good answer i've allways said dont nock something until you've tried it,some people need to try both in order to find out if there straight,gay or bi.And castrate your an idiot SHUT UP.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on May 11th, 2008
I hate it when morons like yourself come on here, misunderstand what I said, and assume that I'm some kind of homophobic bastard. Leave me the hell alone. You know nothing about my intelligence, nor did you understand what I was trying to say with my comments (as your stupid comment to me suggests). Now leave me be you repugnant left-winged fascist!
by Castrate on May 11th, 2008
GO FASCISTS!!!
Ill be entirely truthfull I'm confused :P
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on July 7th, 2008
sorry im bored
Castrate quick question, why did you argue with benoit? You seem to actually base your opinions with knowledge, so why argue?
and the comments by needhelp are very wrong, if it was against nature to be homosexual then why would animals not just people interect sexually within their own gender?
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on July 7th, 2008
"Castrate quick question, why did you argue with benoit?" Benoit: "CASTRATE. i was just passing by and couldnt help noticing your annoying comments. Just thought I'd tell you to SIT DOWN and SHUT UP. Someone needs to tell you and give you a virtual slap round the face before you hurt yourself and others. You're not as clever as you think you are. But you'll learn. I hope you manage to find peace within your angry soul. Its not impossible. I was like you once." Does that answer your question?
by Castrate on July 7th, 2008
Yes but why not ignore?
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on July 8th, 2008
For the same reason that you're asking me these questions. Simple human interaction. I had no reason to ignore a direct attack on my person, so I attacked back. I see no harm in what I did.
by Castrate on July 8th, 2008
castrate you should really read some of other answers,i'm far from left wing
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on July 12th, 2008
umm...if you dont mind me askin how did that work for you? are u bisexual or straight or gay? i ask kuz my best guy friend did the same and he is REALLLY REALLY confused. offer sume help or advice? plz? thanks!
by HelloRe is anxious on August 27th, 2008
Well, I've always considered myself just sexual... even before those times. I find beauty in both sexes and my attraction isn't limit to their genitals. I would say "bisexual" but the term has gotten a negative connotation in recent years. Some people can't understand the idea. But that's how I've lived happily these 30 years.
by jt007m on August 27th, 2008
I don't mean any offense by this, but being that young, isn't that called child abuse? And does that mean all the 'pro' people who've commented are condoning child abuse? Again, I mean no offense, but having sex at such a young age with a man and woman (both adults, I'm assuming. Correct me if I'm wrong though.) seems to be very wrong, no matter what society you live in.
by Frank on August 28th, 2008
i think you've got the wrong idea i assume he was haveing sex with othere teenagers but you'll have to wait for him to confirm it.(i'm sure he would'nt have posted the info if he was abused)
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on August 28th, 2008
"I first had sex with a 'MAN' when I was 13 and a 'WOMAN' when I was 14." That does indeed sound like they were adults... And if they weren't, then I think we can agree that calling another teenage kid a man/woman, is taking it a bit too far.
by Castrate on August 28th, 2008
They were both older than me. He was 19 and she was 17, I think. I used "man/woman" just as a gender thing - not to indicate age.
by jt007m on August 29th, 2008
If he was 19, then that is still illegal. He was a legal adult, while you were still an adolescent. In other words, you were sexually abused, whether you knew it or not. I do believe your sexual activity at such a young age has effected you greatly, and not for the good in my opinion.
by Castrate on August 30th, 2008
You don't even know me! How do you know how something had affected me? I pursued him and made all the moves... It's not a black and white world. No one should make assumptions or judgments.
by jt007m on August 30th, 2008
Well then something else happened in your life to convince you that having sex with an adult male at that age, was a good idea. I'm sorry, but I don't believe you had the healthiest childhood experience if you went around doing things like that. I'm also sorry if it offends you that I believe your perverted sexual past has effected you, but I stand firm by that notion.
by Castrate on August 30th, 2008
it sounds to me like your not getting any castrate and that's why you've got a problem with jt007m.although you may not like the idea of people under 16 haveing sex if he agreed to it it then it was'nt abuse and calling it abuse insults all the kids in the world who have been.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on August 31st, 2008
Am I to understand that you support underage sex, and that your only argument against me is that "I'm not getting any"? You sir, have no idea about my sex life, and will never know, because that is not only none of your business, but it's irrelevant as well. I think you'll find that even most of the leftists on this site are against minors having sex with legal adults... I believe it takes a emotionally unstable person, to try to have sex with an adult male at that age, and you seem to have a problem with that. That's fine if you disagree, but try and use a real argument, rather than just accusing me of "not getting any", and somehow hurling my anger and frustration at this man...
by Castrate on August 31st, 2008
have i hit a nerve lol,i dont care if underage people have sex as long as there carefull frankly there are bigger problems in the world,my point was there's a very big difference between a underage person agreeing to sex with a adult and an adult forceing them selves on a underage person.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on August 31st, 2008
What did I say that makes you think that you 'hit a nerve'? If you saw any bit of frustration in my argument, it was only because of your childish response of "haha you don't get any" kind of attitude, based on nothing more than a guess. And then to top it all off, you accused me of disagreeing with perverted sexual practices, because I am basically just jealous. You sir, have poor debating skills, and are indeed talking like one of those young teens that I was referring to. I'm being 100% honest when I say this, but I really would have assumed that you were a younger teen based on your childish assumptions, and your overall attitude towards irresponsible sexual intercourse between a teenage boy and an adult male. In your profile, you claim to be 21, and if that's true, then it would appear that you still have much growing up to do...
by Castrate on August 31st, 2008
Sorry Castrate, your profile says your 19, yes? Thats still fairly young, and even if he is 21 that doesnt mean that he's any more mature than his 14 yr old counterpart. And as for sexual abuse, it doesnt have severe negative effects on everyone. Yes, there are some people who sit indoors all day for their entire lives hating themselves, or there are those who dont drown themselves in self pity and actually do something with themselves.
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on September 1st, 2008
wow i didn't realise your were 19 castrate i would never have expected such a prudish attitude from someone of your age.if you believe that every one who has sex before the age of consent has been abuse then you clearly dont understand the meaning of the word so i will explain it.when a adult FORCES them self on a minor then that is child abuse and it disgusts me but as jtoo7 has said he actively pursued and agreed to have sex with them,if you beleif this is morally wrong that is your opinion but dont call it abuse.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 1st, 2008
"Sorry Castrate, your profile says your 19, yes? Thats still fairly young, and even if he is 21 that doesnt mean that he's any more mature than his 14 yr old counterpart." And your point is? "And as for sexual abuse, it doesnt have severe negative effects on everyone." I never said it was severe. If I had thought that, I probably would have recommend he get therapy.
by Castrate on September 1st, 2008
"if you believe that every one who has sex before the age of consent has been abuse..." I never said that. But it USUALLY does effect the child negatively. The fact of the matter is, a lot of kids his age think they're smart enough, or mature enough to handle such things. It's dangerous to think like that, and I will not stop pointing that out. It's more dangerous with the male than the female, because men are generally more prone to abusing the weaker in a relationship. The mere fact that you are making something that has been proven to be mentally unhealthy, seem like no big deal, shows your true maturity level. Even jtoo7 may not be aware of how acting in such a manner has effected him. Like I said before, something convinced him that it was OK to pursue an older male, and whatever that is could have effected him negatively. There is no way in hell you can convince me that what he did was any more wise than talking to strangers alone at age 3...
by Castrate on September 1st, 2008
your starting to sound like a shrink,i dont know anyone who has been mentally effected by haveing sex before the age of consent,and considering he's 28 now then i think he'd know if it had a negative effect.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 1st, 2008
First of all, 13 is really young to be having sex with a 19 year old. He was probably JUST starting to go through puberty for crap's sake! Granted, it would probably not be AS dangerous for a 16 year old with a 19 year old, but then again, it's still not the smartest thing to be doing, because it's still statutory rape, whether he was willing at the time or not. You're going down a slippery slope once you start justifying the breaking of child sex laws in my opinion... (by the way, in his profile he says he's a former heroin user, which indicates that he at least used to have emotional problems.)
by Castrate on September 1st, 2008
i'm only going to say this once i'm not condoning it but if he agreed to it then it wasn't rape or abuse,also the fact that he was a heroin addict has nothing to do with his sex life.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 4th, 2008
Just like losing my virginity, my drug use had nothing to do with anything from my childhood. I've never had emotional problems. Even the professionals I have spoken to never thought I need to do therapy or anything. Psychology was one of my studies in college. I'll be 30 in a couple months and have done my time and my studies to understand myself and human nature in order to become a true artist. Don't try to analyze me because you can't. Until we meet and you see how I live my life, you wouldn't even have the slightest clue to my psyche.
by jt007m on September 5th, 2008
All I can go on, is what you have provided to me. You claim to have been involved with statutory rape at 13, and heroin later on, so I put two and two together. I also never said that it was a fact. I simply said that it was a possibility from my view point. I don't believe what you did was very healthy at so young an age. I've never talked to a 13 year old that was emotionally stable enough to be doing such things. Regardless of whether or not you were actually negatively affected, you still didn't do the wisest thing, and I don't have to know you for that to be true.
by Castrate on September 5th, 2008
Go ahead and make judgments, assumptions, and elementary psychological/legal conclusions. Though you do not say "it was a fact", you push such ideas as truth. I'm too busy living a very wonderful and full life to care about your comments. I'm building on dreams I've had since I was a child... and they're all coming to fruition. I live in today and not in the past... and definitely in someone else's past. You can keep your ignorance, misconceptions, and your black and white world.
by jt007m on September 5th, 2008
"Though you do not say "it was a fact", you push such ideas as truth." All I did was mention that your heroin addiction and your childhood could be connected. I hardly call that pushing it in anyway. "I'm too busy living a very wonderful and full life to care about your comments." If you truly didn't care about my comments, you wouldn't have said anything. Again, I'm not trying to be offensive at all. I'm sorry if this offends you, but if you were to ask any child psychologist, they would tell you that what you did was not wise. Too often a younger person is abused sexually by older adult males. You can continue to deny that all you want, perhaps your delusion is all apart of how you have been negatively influenced.
by Castrate on September 5th, 2008
i think were both wasting our breath jt007m people like castrate are only happy when there judging others.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 5th, 2008
"wow i didn't realise your were 19 castrate i would never have expected such a prudish attitude from someone of your age." And what do you call that? If I'm not mistaken, that too is considered judging someone.
by Castrate on September 5th, 2008
i think you'll find that i made an assumption which is a lot differant to judging someone.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 5th, 2008
No, I think you'll find that telling me that I'm prudish, and relating it to my age, IS judging.
by Castrate on September 6th, 2008
as you've gone to all this effort i can only assume that i've hit a nerve and you dont like people pointing out you negative judgmental attitude so i will leave with a final thought,chill out and dont judge someone until you've been though a similar experience,also quit it with the psychology bs you sound like a shrink.the world is not black and white and there are many paths and there are all of equal merit.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 9th, 2008
Ok, so you tell me to stop analyzing people like a "shrink", and then turn around and assert your observation on the behavior of humans. Good job. I never once said that everybody reacts the same to every situation. I did say, however, that there are some things that are just not wise to do. Anyone who is willing to have sex with another person of the same sex, at that age, and with such a huge age difference, probably went through a "strange" childhood. I'm not saying strange is always bad, but I do think in this case, that he did not grow up with the best influences. "i can only assume that i've hit a nerve" You always seem to think you 'hit a nerve'... You make it seem like your main goal is to irritate me. Really, you can accuse me of judging people all you want, but expect me to counter your accusation if I feel it is unwarranted. On a side note, if you had actually hit a nerve, I probably would have been far more hostile than that.
by Castrate on September 9th, 2008
as i said before those were my final thoughts i'm sure we will meet again,good luck.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 9th, 2008
I Believe that luck is not a actual force, and has no bearing on my life whatsoever. Thanks anyway though. (yes, I would argue with a wall if I could)
by Castrate on September 9th, 2008
i must admit your very persistent,i do beleive in luck but i dont believe in the supernatural.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 9th, 2008
What does the supernatural have to do with luck?...
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on September 9th, 2008
If you believe in luck in the traditional sense of the word, then yes, you do believe in the supernatural. Luck: "the force that seems to operate for good or ill in a person's life, as in shaping circumstances, events, or opportunities" Supernatural: "of, pertaining to, or being above or beyond what is natural; unexplainable by natural law or phenomena".
by Castrate on September 9th, 2008
Yea... thanks but still havent made the connection... so tired
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on September 10th, 2008
Well, let me put it this way... Would you call somebody who is afraid to walk under a ladder for fear of getting bad luck, a superstitious individual? They are afraid of unseen forces controlling/effecting their lives. It is unexplainable by natural law, and therefor falls under the supernatural category.
by Castrate on September 10th, 2008
i quess but what i mearnt was i dont beleive in ghosts etc.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 10th, 2008
Well I've walked under ladders and had people drop stuff on me, :P. I'm not superstitious though.
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on September 10th, 2008
jt, I've always considered you a friend. I'm sorry that you went through all this bullshit. But in the end, I feel smarter for having read it. And that is what a free speech forum is all about. Damned appreciative that you've put yourself out there like an open book. I do so a lot here. Leaves room for being hurt, but also makes room for a whole lot of knowing the human race better than you knew it before! Thanks again. I too have put myself on the Kinsey. I think we are all bi-sexual. And if Bi were the admitted norm (back to ancient times) then we would all be more willing to accept it in ourselves and in others.
by zazzy_one on September 20th, 2008
Bisexuality may have been somewhat common in certain areas in the world at one time, but it was NEVER the norm. Besides, jt obviously doesn't like being called a bi-sexual, as he went to an effort to not call himself that, and even stated that the word has a negative connotation to it. He claims to not care what people think of him because he's happy, but then he says something like that. I'm sorry, but he just seems like a confused individual to me. If that offends you people, then so be it. I could care less, mainly because you people are extremely biased towards strange and perverted sexual practices (if you find this last statement to be offensive, perhaps you should read a dictionary). If somebody admits to being gay or something similar, you people get all warm and fuzzy inside, and get extremely touchy, as if the person is constantly under attack. When if anything, it's the person that objects to certain lifestyles that get attacked on here.
by Castrate on September 20th, 2008
You are too young to have these power and control issues. Everyone has heard your point of view, dude. How many times are you going to say it? Like all languages, English is alive. If you, like Hitler, and Klansmen think that perverts have that definition, then that's what it means in YOUR house. And I feel more sorry for you than for jt a successful artist.
by zazzy_one on September 20th, 2008
"You are too young to have these power and control issues." What do you mean? What power and control issues are you referring to? "Everyone has heard your point of view" Yes, and I have heard yours too. That doesn't stop you from adding to your thoughts though, does it? "How many times are you going to say it?" As many times as it takes to balance out answerbag. And no, I am in no way condoning attacks on homosexuals, or anyone for that matter. I simply want people to be able to object to a certain lifestyle, whether it be underage sex, gay sex, etc... without being attacked by the left-winged majority on here. "If you, like Hitler... think that perverts have that definition, then that's what it means in YOUR house." How clever of you to compare me to Hitler, when the definition of "perverted" has absolutely nothing to do with fascism. Perverted: "showing or appealing to bizarre or deviant tastes", "Deviating from what is considered normal or correct". That's not just MY definition.
by Castrate on September 20th, 2008
This is the first time I have stated my opinion. You keep stating yours over and over. And obviously you apparently mean "bizarre" according to your definition. So then in YOUR house we know what bizarre means. It does not have the same definition in my house.
by zazzy_one on September 20th, 2008
Most people do not have sex with both men and women, therefore it is abnormal, and the definition I used fits. Surely you know by now, that majority almost always rules, right? The majority of society considers murder to be an immoral, or wrong act, therefore it stays illegal. The majority of people used to believe that homosexuality was wrong, and now that's changing along with the laws. In this case, the majority of people are not gay, nor have they had sex with both men and women, therefore bisexuality is by definition perverted, strange, bizarre, abnormal, etc... If you don't like that, then that's too bad. Take it up with the dictionary. Those words are not supposed to be insults. People use those words to describe themselves all the time. I too am a strange individual, and I do not take offense to that notion.
by Castrate on September 20th, 2008
"This is the first time I have stated my opinion." Ha, hardly... Perhaps in this thread, but not on answerbag. Before reading your first comment, I knew that it would be in support of jt, because I have read your comments on other threads. For the same reason that you continue to "defend" homosexual behavior, I repeat myself on certain threads. Also, please note that this thread was about dead, before you brought it back up again.
by Castrate on September 20th, 2008
Most people are not divorce lawyers. Is divorce lawyering "abnormal"?
by zazzy_one on September 20th, 2008
And this is a free speech forum. It is never dead. Old questions are brought back to life as each AB'er twiddles through and does their own thing. If you think questions "die" here, you really don't know very much about this site.
by zazzy_one on September 20th, 2008
"Most people are not divorce lawyers. Is divorce lawyering "abnormal"?" In comparison to other jobs, yes. Being a divorce lawyer is not the norm, therefore it is abnormal. The act of having a job however, is not abnormal. "And this is a free speech forum. It is never dead." What I meant by that, is that the argument was pretty much over, and you started up again, and when I responded, you proceeded to complain about me being redundant.
by Castrate on September 20th, 2008
If this is the level of your logic, youg man, I guess I don't have anything further to say to you! Divorce lawyers are not abnormal. But...good luck trying to get through life with that brain!
by zazzy_one on September 20th, 2008
Once again, you fail to grasp the meaning of the word "abnormal". It simply means "not the norm". Abnormal: "not normal, average, typical, or usual; deviating from a standard" The standard for sex being heterosexual, because that's what most people do, and what most people think of when talking about sex. That is the norm. Gay sex is not the norm, nor is having sex with both men and women. Therefore it is abnormal behavior, simple as that. The mere fact that YOU fail to see that simple and logical synopses, tells me that you are the one with flawed logic, not I. You're not just arguing with me, but the dictionary as well, and are fighting a losing battle as a result. But... Good luck trying to get through life with that burlap sack of nuts (that can't even grasp simple dictionary definitions) you call a brain.
by Castrate on September 20th, 2008
Sir, the dictionary is not the only locale of definitions. I assume you know that words have connotations and denotations. The denotation of "abnormal," is so over-shadowed by the connotations that no one would (and no one probably ever HAS) used the word abnormal in relation to a professional job except for you, here, trying to make a lame point. And by the way, I will concede that divorce lawyering is abnormal by the dictionary definition. (Which makes me abnormal--SWEET!) However that is a mathmateical argument and it there is no reason that you would bring this up in this forum. That dictionary definition is NOT important to you line of thought.
by zazzy_one on September 21st, 2008
There is in fact no reason to say it. We all know the math. You are assuming everyone on this thread to be an idiot. By throwing up hotly connotated words and saying that you really just mean the dictionary definition. "I'm just saying there are less of them!" It is a child's game. No you don't. If you did, that goes without saying. We already know that.
by zazzy_one on September 21st, 2008
"there is no reason that you would bring this up in this forum" I brought it up, because you didn't like my use of the word to describe homosexual activity. You argued with me. I don't really care how you would normally use the word abnormal. The fact of the matter is, it is defined in that way, and I used it correctly. "You are assuming everyone on this thread to be an idiot." No, just the ones that attempt to argue with a dictionary. I only brought the dictionary into it, because you didn't like my use of the word abnormal, even though I clearly used it correctly. If you had not objected to my use of the word, I wouldn't have even gone this far with it. I have noticed that a lot of you left-wingers get offended when homosexuality is referred to as 'abnormal', which is why I was already expecting you to dislike my use of the word. If I could only get through your heads, that simply being abnormal or strange is not in and of itself a bad thing.
by Castrate on September 21st, 2008
Castrate: I would just like to thank you for standing your ground and being the only one with COMMON SENSE in this thread. I've read the whole thing and noticed everyone continually contradicting themselves, except for you.
To Everyone Else: I think you all have lost sight or are in denial of the real subject here - a 13 year-old boy having sex with a 19 year-old man.
Also, if free speech is what you all believe in, why is it so wrong for someone to have a difference in opinion?
by Frank on September 29th, 2008
B.S.
by zazzy_one on September 29th, 2008
there nothing wrong with a difference of opinion and this discussion stop being about under age sex a long time ago.and if we have all contradicted ourselves then it's because we all have a slightly differant opinion.also this whole thing was stared by castrate having a problem with jt and his honest and open sexuality and tigueron complementing him on it.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 29th, 2008
I agree. I was not "b.s.'ing" what Frank said. I actually agree with the general idea. I am b.s.'ing that that's what this whole thread is about. It became about much, MUCH more than that. If Castrate had said what Frank said, no problem. The actual problem is that Castrate in the meantime let us know EVERYthing in the world that he thinks is "abnormal," including lawyering.
by zazzy_one on September 29th, 2008
Thank you Frank. It's wonderful to know that there are still other people on here that use common sense on issues like these. "this discussion stop being about under age sex a long time ago." You can thank zazzy's complaint on my use of the word "abnormal" for that. "also this whole thing was stared by castrate having a problem with jt and his honest and open sexuality" Ha, I never said I have a problem with that. Go back and read the whole thread from the beginning if you want to see what I was actually having a problem with. Besides, this thread was started over a YEAR ago, and people still bring it back up. So I am not to blame for the argument. Again, I don't have a problem with people being open on here. I have a problem with people treating answers like this better than others, just because they're biased towards homosexuality and other perverted acts that they seem to be fascinated with. This answer is no better or worse than the others in my opinion.
by Castrate on September 29th, 2008
"I am b.s.'ing that that's what this whole thread is about" Frank never said that every single argument in this thread, was related to underage sex... That's obviously just the part of the thread he was not only focused on, but pointed out in his last comment. If you can show me where he claimed that this whole thread was about underage sex, then you have a point, but if you can't, then perhaps you ought to think before you B.S. something. What Frank obviously meant by saying "the real subject here", is that he thinks that's the most important subject that was discussed. "The actual problem is that Castrate in the meantime let us know EVERYthing in the world that he thinks is "abnormal," including lawyering." Excuse me, but you started arguing with me after I disagreed with your claim that there was a time when most people were bisexual. That then led to me describing bisexuality as abnormal, to which you started on your own mini tirade about my word usage.
by Castrate on September 29th, 2008
im happy to have this argument castrate but please stop quoting everyone in the thread it's very annoying.And for the record i'm not fascinated with homosexuality i'm happily straight but i do beleive that there is nothing perverted about being gay.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 29th, 2008
I will not stop quoting people. That lets me address a particular statement that is being made, and leaves no doubt in people's mind as to what I'm talking about exactly. "for the record i'm not fascinated with homosexuality i'm happily straight but i do beleive that there is nothing perverted about being gay." I didn't mean everyone. Back when I first made my comment on this thread, you weren't even a member of this website. Also, gay sex is as perverted as any other type of sex that is considered anything but the norm, or the proper way of having sex, which is heterosexual in this case. Perverted: "changed to or being of an unnatural or abnormal kind", "showing or appealing to bizarre or deviant tastes", "Deviating from what is considered normal or correct.", "Of, relating to, or practicing sexual perversion." Are those enough definitions of the word perverted to see that homosexuality indeed qualifies?
by Castrate on September 29th, 2008
You made up (very republican) an argument, and are arguing against your own invented argument, Castrate. I never said at any point that there was a time when most people are bisexual. You just made it up. That is what I mean about your poor logic, son. Only on the internet could we be held by a young fellow, with poor logic who is holding up an orange yet insists it is an apple, over and over. It is the ill-logic I take exception to, not your right to free speech. We all now know what you THINK the definition of perversion is. Yet that doesn't make it true. No matter how many times you say it. It only makes it what your unfortunate family likely taught you.
by zazzy_one on September 29th, 2008
"You made up (very republican) an argument" Republican?! What statistics do you have that shows that republicans make up arguments more than other politicians? Also, even if that ridiculous statement was true, I'm not a republican anyway. "And if Bi were the admitted norm (back to ancient times) then we would all be more willing to accept it in ourselves and in others." I interpreted that as you saying that if it were like it was back in ancient times when bisexuality was the norm. If that's not what you meant, then perhaps you ought to word your sentences better rather than spewing out that last arrogant comment you made. I find it very telling that you not only make false generalizations about republicans, but you then repeatedly in front of EVERYONE deny MULTIPLE dictionary definitions of a word, simply because you don't like the sound of it. You also failed to address some points where I showed your failed logic, and understanding of what Frank said. You madam, fail.
by Castrate on September 29th, 2008
IF does not mean that it WAS! I assume that you know that. Your quote: "excuse me, but you started arguing with me after I disagreed with your claim that there was a time when most people were bisexual. " Damn boy! Read if you want to be the great orator. IF bisexuality WERE the admitted norm back to ancient times WHICH IT ISN'T/ WASN'T. Dude. I now know that...arguing you is silly. Lol. However, I will continue to clarify where need be. And yes, republicans do make things up with shocking disregard of logical consistency. I did not say that you were one. You are passionate about these perverts your concerned with. I can't take that away from you.
by zazzy_one on September 29th, 2008
To argue logically, you have to be able to read my friend. You will be a good idealogue with more experience.
by zazzy_one on September 29th, 2008
"IF does not mean that it WAS!" If, as in relation to current times, not ancient times. Ancient times was in parenthesis. I thought you were saying that if it was now, as it was then, etc... It also didn't help when you said, "I think we are all bi-sexual" right before it. You made it sound like it was normal to accept it back then. I may have read into what you were trying to say a bit, but again, you could have worded it better. Also, at best, there was a miscommunication here. The fact that you failed to respond to me the first time I mentioned it, lead me to believe further that I was correct in my assessment. "I now know that...arguing you is silly." Ha, that's a laugh. You continue to call multiple definitions from a dictionary, MY definition, as if it doesn't have to apply to you, even though you have a problem with MY use of the word. Get over yourself woman. You don't have the power to change the meaning of a word to suit you and how you feel.
by Castrate on September 30th, 2008
"republicans do make things up with shocking disregard of logical consistency" That may be true, but I don't see why you think they seem to do it more than say... democrats. I have yet to see any concrete evidence that suggests that republicans do it more than any other political party. Perhaps that's just your blind bias talking? "You are passionate about these perverts your concerned with." I admit, I enjoy using the word when I know you're reading, because you just can't seem to handle it rationally, without letting your emotions and predetermined notions of the word get the better of you. Other than that though, I would hardly say my use of the word is passionate. I must say, for being a lawyer, you sure lack the ability to use word definitions to your advantage. I've been accused of being a lawyer several times, because of how I do just that.
by Castrate on September 30th, 2008
OMFG. EVERYONE STOP. This is soo freaking stupid. going back and forth over something so dumb as this. why cant you guys focous all of your opinions and time on something that matters. like the world. None of you have the right to fight each other over the internet its makes each and everyone of you look like pathetic fools who get off on feeling smart by fighting over Ab. Seriously. Im 14 and i know this stuff is crap. Sheesh you guys all need to go back to school and learn how to grow up most of you guys are acting like first graders. Take your mellow internet drama out of Ab. its pointless, its useless, and most people here who read this junk laugh at you guys. really. =)
by Shelbs on September 30th, 2008
"OMFG. EVERYONE STOP." Oh, real mature of you to start a sentence in all caps, and an order to boot. "why cant you guys focous all of your opinions and time on something that matters." How about you mind your own business, and stop ordering us to talk about something that YOU find important? "Seriously. Im 14" I can tell... If you want people to stop arguing over something, it might be better to not be freaking out like you are little girl. You need to calm down, and maybe mind your own business too. "Take your mellow internet drama out of Ab" I just think it's adorable that you would react to our argument the way you did, and then have the balls to turn around and call us overly dramatic. "its pointless, its useless" So is ordering people around, and forcing your opinion down their throats. "most people here who read this junk laugh at you guys." Well good for them... I'm glad that I could be of some entertainment. To be honest though, I laughed when I read your comment as well.
by Castrate on September 30th, 2008
Laughing is good. but at least my comment makes sense. And now to say you just aruged with a teenager wow you are now bad freaking ass now. woah. And i wasnt forcing my opinion down there throats thank you very much, and im forceful because being 14 known gives a crap in the world on what you have to say, no matter how high you IQ scores are. And yeah. I do have balls, more than you do. =D mmkay teenage moment is over.
by Shelbs on September 30th, 2008
"but at least my comment makes sense." That comment is highly subjective, but again, I never said that it didn't make sense. Things can seem to make sense, but still be dead wrong. Also, you could have worded it way better rather than making it look like an 8 year with a temper tantrum typed it. "And now to say you just aruged with a teenager wow you are now bad freaking ass now." I'm still technically a teen myself, being only 19. This however, is irrelevant. You were the first one to point out your age, so don't get upset at me for commenting on it. I love how you came in here attempting to stop an argument, only to get into a pointless argument yourself. It's not as easy as you think to stay out of pointless arguments, is it?
by Castrate on October 1st, 2008
btw it was more like a 5 year old throwing a fit. not 8. And also i didnt know you were 19 i thought you were more like an 80yo man lying on his death bed. Ooops. My bad. Getting and stoping an argument is alot easier when some prick doesnt keep on fighting back but oh well.
by Shelbs on October 1st, 2008
He must have the last word. His tantrum has lasted long enough. Let him bring down the gavel. Most people in the world are abnormal by his 19 year old man of the world standards. I too, like you keep trying to stop. But he's immensely irritating. But whatever. Peace out.
by zazzy_one on October 1st, 2008
Sorry Shel, but when making an argument make sure you grammer and spelling are up to snuff,"And i wasnt forcing my opinion down there throats thank you very much" instead you're talking about locations while your intention was to talk about a group of people.
Zazzy, you have also made this argument longer than it would have to be. Telling someone to "stop arguing!" isnt really effective when you yourselfs are in fact arguing, the only way for him to stop would be for everyone to stop putting up another argument with him.
Sorry Castrate, it is true, arguing with you is like getting in a fist fight with a grizzly bear, endless.
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on October 1st, 2008
Zazzy idk why he should get the last word. he didnt earn it.
Kitty as i have said many times before, grammer over comments over the internet isnt exactly important. I am an honors student at my high school and i fully understand how important grammer and spelling is, but sometimes i like a brake and prefer to chill out and not care about the rules of the english language for once in my life. And no one is going to stop this thing has gone on for what since 2007? He isnt anything like a grizzly bear. he is like a shrimp in the ocean with an ego, god he (castrate) hasnt gotten over high school yet. =)
by Shelbs on October 1st, 2008
Oh I wouldnt judge him because he can be argumentative. The fact that he has argued what he believes in shows that hes not stupid. And marks mean nothing there was no reason to drag that into the conversation. And if he were a shrimp why would you have bothered to comment? And speaking of not finishing high school, you shouldnt be one to point fingers should you?
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on October 1st, 2008
"Getting and stoping an argument is alot easier when some prick doesnt keep on fighting back but oh well." It takes two to tango missy, and if you hadn't responded with anything to my first response, this would have been over. I'm not generally the type that just accepts another persons criticism of me, without putting in my own two cents. So, next time perhaps you ought to consider that before putting in your own sack of fighting words into an argument.
by Castrate on October 2nd, 2008
"Most people in the world are abnormal by his 19 year old man of the world standards." You're still on about that? No, you misunderstood what I was saying. In comparison to other jobs, the job that YOU picked is abnormal in the sense that it's not the most common, or the norm. Normal: "conforming to the standard or the common type". Having a job is the standard, but having that particular job is not. While it may not be that rare of a job, in comparison to other jobs, it is abnormal. That is all I was saying. Again, the type of sexual interaction with other people that jt had, IS abnormal whether you like it or not.
by Castrate on October 2nd, 2008
"Sorry Castrate, it is true, arguing with you is like getting in a fist fight with a grizzly bear, endless." That's probably true, as I have never denied that to be the case. People just get upset when I don't give in. I really only truly give in, when I have been proven wrong, or convinced that I am wrong (which is rare). I must say though, this argument would have been over a long time ago if one of them had chosen to end it. I never keep going once the other person has stopped. Again, this argument was largely based on opinions, and these kind of arguments CAN last forever, especially when neither person is willing to give in. I will mention though, that I have gotten out of a few arguments that I can see isn't going anywhere for too long. I do have my breaking point, trust me.
by Castrate on October 2nd, 2008
"Zazzy idk why he should get the last word. he didnt earn it." I could care less if I get the last word. Though, If the last comment you left was for/about me, then I will most likely respond to it. "but sometimes i like a brake and prefer to chill" The word you're looking for is break (sorry, couldn't resist). "this thing has gone on for what since 2007?" 2006 actually... Notice though, that I had stopped a long time ago. I had even forgotten about this argument, but then somebody comes a long and reopens the argument. Blame the person that added the fuel and started the match, not the fire. "He isnt anything like a grizzly bear. he is like a shrimp in the ocean with an ego" Haha, that's actually quite funny kid. I've always just referred to myself as a bulldog.
by Castrate on October 2nd, 2008
I must say kitty, you seem like a pretty analytical individual. I agree with pretty much everything you said, even if you hadn't added in the compliments. What you said (as far as I'm concerned) was fair, and addressed everyone in the argument. Now, if everyone else is done arguing wit me, I'll be happy to stop. However, if you want to address anything I just said, expect me to most likely reply to it.
by Castrate on October 2nd, 2008
great what ever. and you know what the reason kitty that i said he acts as if he hasnt left high school is because im in it and i notice how GAY AND FREAKINE DUMB people are. duh. and Casttrate you can stick your freaking quotes up that stubborn butt of yours. im out.
by Shelbs on October 2nd, 2008
BTW YOU ARE NOTHING LIKE A BULLDOG. HAHAHA. and dont call me a kid you only 4 years older than i am. big freaking differance.
by Shelbs on October 2nd, 2008
Wow, I've really brought out the little kid in you, haven't I? Somebody has a bit of a temper. "dont call me a kid you only 4 years older than i am." Actually, I'm closer to 5 years older than you. Besides, not only am I a legal adult, but you are acting childish, so I'm treating you as such. You're obviously letting your anger get the best of you, so I would suggest a time out.
by Castrate on October 2nd, 2008
Castrate your getting close to a spankin :P. I may live in Canada but I have a valid passport and money.
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on October 2nd, 2008
ur right. i do have a temper. a huge one. being a legal means jack crap and you know it, you cant ever drink yet. giving my a time out? ahahahahahha who are you my father? mmmm i dont think sooo
by Shelbs on October 2nd, 2008
Oh right you guys have to wait past 18. AHAHAHAHAHA
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on October 2nd, 2008
hahaha 21 to purchase legally.
by Shelbs on October 2nd, 2008
Hahaha 18.
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on October 2nd, 2008
lucky! although i could always drive to mexico and get wasted 18!!! =)
by Shelbs on October 2nd, 2008
Yea but still your far too young to be drinking. I didnt actually drink at parties till I was 16, even then I didnt drink much.
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on October 2nd, 2008
yeah but people from california tend to grow up faster than everyone else.
by Shelbs on October 3rd, 2008
Haha your pretty funny, unless everyone living in California has maybe a tumour on their petuitary gland, then yes maybe I would agree with you. Everyone matures physically at the same rate.
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on October 3rd, 2008
uh i wasnt talking about physicaly. mentally.
by Shelbs on October 3rd, 2008
Thats proof right there that Californians dont mature any faster, show some reputible facts and I'll believe it.
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on October 3rd, 2008
I don't need to be 21 to drink, trust me. I have all the alcohol I want right here in my house. California matures faster you say? California is filled with hippies and tree humpers. I've talked to a 13 year old kid from there, that thought there has been millions of "innocent" civilians that got killed when we entered Iraq, which he was told at his school. I'll also note that California voted for Hillary Clinton in the primaries. Fail, fail, fail, FAIL... Also, according to this chart from 2006-2007, my state is rank 6 on the smart scale, whereas yours is way down at rank 47. http://www.morganquitno.com/edrank.htm If your state truly matured faster, they would have studied more and wouldn't be only 3 ranks away from last in in this Morgan Quitno’s fifth annual Smartest State Award. Great, now I find myself playing childish and competitive mind games... Oh well, sometimes I can't help myself.
by Castrate on October 3rd, 2008
Thank you Castrate. And there is nothing wrong with humping trees.
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on October 3rd, 2008
"there is nothing wrong with humping trees." Maybe not "wrong" per se, but it does reflect ones maturity level in my opinion.
by Castrate on October 3rd, 2008
Haha, that was clearly a joke, unless you hadent noticed.:P
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on October 3rd, 2008
uh i wasnt talking smarts either.
by Shelbs on October 3rd, 2008
Honestly I am terribly sorry but you have no idea what your talking about, so why dont you stop while your only slightly behind.
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on October 3rd, 2008
Kitty, I'm quite aware, but so was I (in case you hadn't noticed). I was only attempting to keep it on track, so that I didn't confuse Shelby any further than she probably already was.
by Castrate on October 4th, 2008
i am confused. like seriously. haha.
by Shelbs on October 4th, 2008
one to many drinks tonight.
by Shelbs on October 4th, 2008
Castrate, I completely lost my train of thought... Shit, that sucks.
by kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally on October 5th, 2008
ok, i know i'm going to sound hypocritical when i say this... but i cannot believe how judging you all are of each other, i mean seriously? you all argue over who has a right to say what, but apparently only those who are politically correct can say what they want. well some info for ya, you shouldn't condemn someone for speaking their mind. look: even i'll speak my mind. i really find it disgusting that anyone would have sex with someone of their own sex. its just not how we were made. but besides that, i also find it gross that you all are SO judging, you judge each other for judging even! its ridiculous, you tell people that they can't say something that might keep someone from saying something. i know i'm judging, but i'm only judging the fact that you all are so critical about something that shouldn't matter to. its not your business what thoughts they put on here, they're entitled to them. and those were my thoughts. you need to all just understand we're all different.
by Anonymous on September 24th, 2009
by Wendora on December 3rd, 2006
20, on my wedding night. Wait longer, my husband's head would have exploded if I said wait longer after marrying me. Ha Ha....
Way to go, was he celibate too?
by Valparaiso on December 11th, 2006
Yeah, he was a virgin too because during the year and half engagement I kept my legs closed. LOL
by Wendora on December 11th, 2006
I'll tell you what though for most people marriage is long enough to wait. If I got married and my wife was like "Oh I have a headache how about tomorrow morning" I think I'd pass out.
Its kind of like "You know I didn't marry you for sex but I'm human and I've waited a really really long time."
But I definatly agree with the way you guys handled it.
by Valparaiso on December 11th, 2006
I am very impressed!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
GOOD FOR YOU! WOOT! Haha, yeah, it's good you didn't wait any longer. That would have just been cruel.
by broken on February 25th, 2007
that's the kind of thing I'd want, get married early and wait until marriage to have sex, I'm 16 now hopefully i kind find a guy with the same ideals as me.
by finsxfangs on August 17th, 2008
by Anonymous on December 9th, 2006
I still have mine ^.^ But I'm young, saving it for marriage.
It's weird... at lunch [yes, I still go to SCHOOL], people were talking about it today. I told them I could go my whole life without losing my virginity. They called me weird @.@
haha Same with me...people say that shit to thier friends all the time...
by Knopper67 on December 9th, 2006
I use to think I would go my whole life w/o losing it. I think sex is for someone you love.
by Amare Veritas on December 10th, 2006
Its not really that far out an idea. I mean if you'd never had it you wouldn't know what you were missing anyway would you?
by lady fuschia on December 19th, 2006
I would say no I'm a SMART ass, and you better get used to it! :)~ Don't let anyone give you crap for being wise. Tell them, you will have fun babysitting for them, so they can sleep!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
I don't think so, you'll eventually desire companionship.
by Singingismystyle on January 19th, 2007
Awesome.. proud of ya! Your not weird. Youve made a choice and your standing by it. That is wonderful, not weird.
by lavander_luv on February 13th, 2007
I lost mine at 16. I'm turning 19 in a week and 2 days. I have done it since then, but to be honest, I could go the rest of my life without. I just don't get anything out of it. So trust me, your not weird!
by Brittney on April 3rd, 2007
"I lost mine at 16. I'm turning 19 in a week and 2 days. I have done it since then, but to be honest, I could go the rest of my life without. I just don't get anything out of it."
I didn't get much out of it either until the first time I had sex with a woman. All new worlds opened up!
by astarte59 on May 3rd, 2007
Ooooooooooooooookay...........
by Brittney on May 9th, 2007
They may call you weird, but since you've never had sex, you're right, you technically aren't "missing" anything! Of course, once you do, you'll always want it! Good luck and good for you on saving yourself!
by Nquizitiv1 on June 1st, 2007
well then you've never had it goood.... heh....
by skittlezdaklown on May 7th, 2009
........................yep, we will see how long that lasts
by Elvira on May 26th, 2009
I used to say the same thing when I was in high school. I'm now going on 22, engaged to be married in September. And proud to say we are both virgins waiting till marriage. Let me tell you, I never thought I'd have problems controlling myself over sex, but trust me it will happen to you one day too ^_~ be strong haha
by jjayzwall on June 15th, 2009
You don't quite understand how great an orgasm feels, given that you're with the right person. As soon as you do, you'll realize that you'll want sex quite often and realize what you've been missing out on. Good luck with that though.
by Geo on October 6th, 2009
by Michellek518 on December 14th, 2006
Have not. I am 23 now and am waiting until marriage. To me, and this is a personal reason, but I want to have something that I can give to my husband that I have not given to any other person before. It is a gift to HIM, a give of my self...take all religious reasons or whatnot out of it. I'm not saying there hasn't been that temptation OR the opportunity! But it's a battle over the will and the heart as well. If someone truely loves you they will respect your choice.
I hope your future husband is deserving of your love!!!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
Its messages like this that give me hope that I'm not the only person in the world doing it. And more hope that perhaps I can find a girl who's waited like I have.
And your right about the temptation. Every day is a temptation, some more then others.
by Valparaiso on December 20th, 2006
Thank you...I only hope that I can be a deserving wife as well. And Valparaiso...don't give up all hope. There ARE girls out there, and you don't know how nice it is to hear this same from you. I commend you for waiting. :)
by Michellek518 on December 20th, 2006
sweety u r great
by Anonymous AAA on December 21st, 2006
You go girl.
by Singingismystyle on January 19th, 2007
You are great, I wish I can have a wife like you
by gnadly on February 9th, 2007
good girl!
by Runaholism on April 18th, 2007
You're value is not in between your legs...times are changing. what if you wait until ur wedding night and our husband is terrible and too closed mided to learn about positions and all that good stuff. It can happen.
by tyrabanks on May 16th, 2007
You value is not in between your legs...times are changing. what if you wait until ur wedding night and our husband is terrible and too closed mided to learn about positions and all that good stuff. It can happen.
by tyrabanks on May 16th, 2007
That's beautiful! Good for you. People keep giving me a hard time about being a virgin at 20...but hey, I don't have AIDS or a kid....AND I still have a little self respect left.
by sugar and spice on July 7th, 2007
i like your answer...are a filipina?just stick to that...i salut you ...
by pheonix_04 on November 22nd, 2008
Awesome! Keep it up. And don't believe the lie that you have to "try out" your partner before marriage just to see if the sex will be good or not. If you and your husband have waited until marriage for sex, the two of you will have something so special that those who didn't wait do not have: exclusivity...and that can be a turn on! Sex is more than a physical thing. Kudos to all those who wait.
by capstone on January 1st, 2009
I was 22 when I lost my virginity to my husband - best decision I ever made! No regrets, and our relationship and sex life are as strong as ever. Waiting made it really special. Don't let anybody convince you that you'll "always wonder what it'd be like with someone else" - not true!
by dgirly on January 12th, 2009
capstone, dgirly, if I could downrate your comments, I would. A lot.
Why is it so hard for people to understand that experiences are not universal? That just because you waited, and it turned out okay, doesn't mean that's the case for everyone?
It's great that you don't wonder what it would be like, that that does not go for everyone. My best friend is going through a rough divorce right now because of this. It's a long story, but they waited to get married, and she so deeply regretted waiting that she had an affair that destroyed the marriage.
She DID wonder what it would be like, and the sex with her lover was much better than with her husband. Her and her husband weren't sexually compatible. They had different needs, sexually, that the other couldn't fulfill. A fact they would have found out, and spared themselves a lot of heart break and 5 years of marriage, had they NOT waited.
Just because something is true for you, doesn't mean it's true for everyone.
by QuartzKitty on March 4th, 2009
And don't assume that your own comment can apply to anyone either, QuartzKitty. Don't go and stop over others' ideals, won't you?
by kala on April 5th, 2009
I didn't assume one's experience is applicable to all. Quite the opposite.
capstone and dgirly DID. Read their comments. They clearly stated that, just because THEY had no regrets about waiting, that meant that EVERYONE would be the same. When it's not.
I quite clearly indicated that experiences are different for everyone.
Did you not see where I acknowledged that it worked for them, but then admonished them for assuming that it would work for everyone.
by QuartzKitty on April 5th, 2009
i agree with you quartzkitty. I come from an area where everyone believes you should save yourself for marriage and yet I also hear of marriages falling apart because they can't stay faithful. Some people make the decision to wait until marriage so quickly that they don't even make time to think about what that will do to them. And something that really bothers me is that people who save themselves act so self righteous about it. They act like they're making this huge sacrifice for their future spouse but if you don't know what you're really going without how is it a sacrifice or even very special at all? You can't know something is 'special' or 'sacred' without experiencing it first.
by ivote4deadpresidents on August 17th, 2009
awww
by _bRiTtAnY_ on December 9th, 2009
by TheShoemaker on November 22nd, 2006
17 or 19 I can't remember right now. however the first time that I breached a womans Genitalia?.......When I was born of course!!!
what's wrong with a genuine answer and a little humour also? surely i should get double points!
by TheShoemaker on November 23rd, 2006
17 or 19? Definetly not 18 then?!
by lady fuschia on December 19th, 2006
Ouch, bad joke, but I gave you points for honesty.
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
by Thomas_Edison .. oh so sexy on December 13th, 2006
I was raped at 6 and now im 15 so i dont know if that really counts or not...
Raped at 6? That's horrible I feel sorry for you even though that's probably not what you want.
by Amare Veritas on December 14th, 2006
I am so sorry that happened to you at such a young age.
by Snooch on December 14th, 2006
NO! It does not count, and I hope the person is still in jail for this! I am so so sorry!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
You are still a virgin, it can't be taken from you, it must be given up willingly.
by Valparaiso on December 21st, 2006
Oh queasiness... :-(( Did an ADULT do this to you???
by Running, Fall Up on December 27th, 2006
nah, he was a teen
by Thomas_Edison .. oh so sexy on December 28th, 2006
wow, that is terrible. i am sorry that happened to you. that person had no right to do that to you. you did nothing to deserve that.
by curiousKristy on January 4th, 2007
I'm sorry to hear that. He had no business doing that to you.
by Singingismystyle on January 19th, 2007
Define it for yourself. The thing I think of as my "loss of virginity" had nothing to do with penetration and everything to do with love and consent.
by Blar on February 3rd, 2007
Anon> Exactly, if I was going to marry a girl who had been raped previously but never had consentual sex then in my mind she's a virgin.
by Valparaiso on February 3rd, 2007
I would feel the same way to Valparaiso!! It just can not be put in the same catagory, as consentual sex, it is rape, and should not ruin your precious moment, of giving ones self to the one you love!
by turbowray on February 3rd, 2007
Rape is about power, not sex. Anyone who wouldn't consider you a virgin is totally without empathy and probably not very kind in other respects. I think if you are involved enough w/ someone to be confiding about the rape, his reaction will tell you a LOT about what kind of person he is.
by astarte59 on May 3rd, 2007
it totally doesn't count. you are still a virgin.
by dark_leota on August 27th, 2008
what an amazing experience. Not a good amazing a bad one.
by saffyanne on September 3rd, 2008
I wouldn't say it counts, if there was no passion involved.
by iLove on May 31st, 2009
by Positively Negative on December 9th, 2006
October 27, 2005 8:32 (ish) am. I was supposed to be in English class. Instead I was at my bfs house.
You remember the time?
by Amare Veritas on December 10th, 2006
How old were you?
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
I was 17, and yes I remember the time. You don't?
by Positively Negative on December 1st, 2007
nope
by sweetsox21 on August 18th, 2009
by EL1 2 on October 4th, 2006
17, not yet.
by queenellen on December 10th, 2006
I have not yet :]
Right now I'm 13.
I probably will lose it when I marry, because in my asian culture it is highly recommended to lose it then.
Good luck honey, I hope you last until marriage!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
lOL it's highly recommended you lose it after you marry? I would hope so.
by dark_leota on August 27th, 2008
by Im Alec has abandoned this account on November 22nd, 2006
22, I am 52 now.
by RFlagg on December 11th, 2006
I'm fourteen and have'nt yet.
Oh the things we homeschoolers are deprived of,
STDs, unplanned pregnancys, oh the injustice!
You're only 14?
by anonymous on December 11th, 2006
How exactly would you go about getting pregnant, planned or unplanned? :P
by AntigoneRising on December 11th, 2006
Yes, I am only fourteen, common mistake.
And I was'nt reffering to myself in particular, just making a point.
by RFlagg on December 12th, 2006
You could try planning a pregnancy. You could probably make a lot of money from some of the bad newspapers.
by lady fuschia on December 19th, 2006
I'm 17, and I'm homeschooled as well.
by Castrate on December 20th, 2006
Tee Hee, don't worry RFlagg! I got it and it was very very funny, and true!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
Your name scares me Castrate lol!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
I'm sorry..Try not to look at it..
by Castrate on December 22nd, 2006
by Psyonic on November 23rd, 2006
I was 23, not married, but I was engaged to her and we have now been married for over 9 years. I had the chance loads of times before then, but it never felt like the right time or person.
I hope you two have many more years together!!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
Wow.
by Singingismystyle on January 19th, 2007
by qwertyuiopqwertyuiop on October 15th, 2006
13. I am 13 now
I hope you know everything you need to know about safe sex. Good luck to you!!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
let me guess, your next nickname is going to be asdfghjkl?
by Runaholism on April 18th, 2007
by teknimage on December 3rd, 2006
16, no. It was a really great experience.
EDIT:
Well, the question changed so I guess I should change my answer? I don't know why people change questions after people have already answered instead of just posting a different question.
16. I'm 37 now.
I never changed the question.
by Amare Veritas on December 10th, 2006
I think you did. I see to recall it asking at what age you lost your virginity and did you wish you had waited longer or something like that.
by teknimage on December 10th, 2006
Yeah, you are right M. It was about regrets or wishing you waited. How in the world do people change their questions anyway? I should ask that one next.
by Wendora on December 10th, 2006
I never changed the question because I was the first to answer.
by Amare Veritas on December 14th, 2006
Look. The answer changed, whether you changed it or the staff at AB changed it. How else can you account for a number of answers that responded to the "do you regret it" portion that was there originally? But seriously, it ain't that important. Peace.
by teknimage on December 14th, 2006
That is weird. I don't even know how to change a question or if it's possible.
by Amare Veritas on December 14th, 2006
The staff does, and will lol!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
by Darkling on November 23rd, 2006
14 and I'm 27 now.
by JUSTNORMAL on October 4th, 2006
20 and now 45
by captain_dorko06 on December 10th, 2006
I was 17, I'm 19 now. Yes, I regret it. All the reasons why could be saved for many other questions.
Thank you for your honest answer! I hope when you are really really ready, that you do not regret it, and enjoy it!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
i think if u regret it...this makes u a virgin inside...keep it from now on inside & out for your soulmate
by Anonymous AAA on December 21st, 2006
by princessemmabelle on December 9th, 2006
Was 18 now I am 25. It was on my wedding night but we aren't married anymore.
by timetogetserious on December 9th, 2006
Having two kids now with my wife i would like to think i have lost my virginity. I lost my virginity at the age of 16.
That made me laugh =)
by dreamtxhim sends love to the dance floor on December 31st, 2006
by AGM627 on December 9th, 2006
3 days after my 17th birthday...i am now 21
by summit433 on October 5th, 2006
at 17, am 20 now
by Darryl61 on October 4th, 2006
At age 21. I am now 45.
by AGM627 on October 4th, 2006
I was 17, now 21
by milkmaiden on October 4th, 2006
I was 16, now I'm 19
by McKennaGirl on December 21st, 2006
I am still a virgin. I am 38. I don't care for the idea of sex outside of marriage, and it's not an issue for me to not have sex unless I am married.
LMAO I love how someone had the gall to say that hahhaa.
by rebellious angel on October 25th, 2010
im sure u do lol. Its just funny how you said that after her staunch responses
by rebellious angel on November 3rd, 2010
Good for you for not going with the crowd or being influenced or not feeling "attractive" enough nor like you couldn't attract. Thanks for peoplle like you, but it IS a personal decision. i don't know why people care nor really want to know really. It's their life that's gonna change. No one else's. lol
by skysthelimet on January 30th, 2011
by SalientAlien on December 3rd, 2006
18. I am 25 now.
by Amare Veritas on October 4th, 2006
When I was 25. 26 now.
by Paper_Doll on December 14th, 2006
I was 17, I'm 32 now. I fell in love with & married my husband at age 28 - I wish I had waited for him. The sex I had prior to our relationship was good, but only he deserved to love me in that way.
What matters, is the love you put into the love making with the love of your life! Thats alot of love in one sentence lol!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
i like your post,it is very sweet. :)
by curiousKristy on January 4th, 2007
what matters is that you and him are faithful to each other and enjoy each other now. And hey, I'm sure its better that you didn't have to deal with naivety and blood and bla bla bla. Sometimes, a little experience is good.
by rebellious angel on October 25th, 2010
by Janeel on December 10th, 2006
First time with a guy: i was 13,he was almost 17.
First time with a girl: 16
I'm 16 now-
Which did you like better?
by science_geek on December 11th, 2006
Not to sound roud or anything, but with the guy, it pretty much suckd, (let's just say he didn't really know his way around,) next time i have sex with a guy, i hope he knows.
And the girl, she's my best friend, we're not in love or anything, but we love each other, as much as frinds can love each other.
So, i'm really not sure...
by Janeel on December 12th, 2006
17 year old guys generally don't know their way around that well.
by lady fuschia on December 19th, 2006
I kinda found that out.. heh(=..
he actually told tath he had sleept with pleny, but as it turns out now, some years later, i was his first, that explains a lot..hehe...
by Janeel on December 19th, 2006
Will you be sticking with girls, or go back to boys? My best friend wanted to try things with me, but I never did. I would though, kiss her at a bar, to keep the guys away, she was very pretty, and tired of them hitting on her all night lol! We are still friends 22 years later!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
Hey... i wan't both..hehe..
As long as the personlaity is great, i don't care if it is a boy or a girl.. (=
by Janeel on December 21st, 2006
by lazyme on December 10th, 2006
22, female, I'm 30 now.
by Mr. McClister on November 21st, 2006
My 17th bithday....I am currently 19
...no it wasn't a prostitute
is that you in your avatar?
by jupjup on December 9th, 2006
Hehehe! and jupjup it is indeed Mr McClister
by anonymous on December 10th, 2006
jupjup???? Sophs...explain
by Mr. McClister on December 10th, 2006
What am I explaining?
by anonymous on December 10th, 2006
oh....I didn't realize that was a members name..nevermind I am an idiot...hows it going?
by Mr. McClister on December 10th, 2006
I have one killer hangover, and it hurts pretty bad, and I just ate McDonalds, so feel even worse. you?
by anonymous on December 10th, 2006
ehh, not to bad..I have got Finals tomorrow so I am going to be studying all night...You really need to stopdrinking...not good for you
by Mr. McClister on December 10th, 2006
I'm not an alcoholic! It was a family thing, I had to drink, takes the edge off.
by anonymous on December 10th, 2006
hahahahaha....I understand...a little
by Mr. McClister on December 10th, 2006
Hehe eugh, I'm doing it all next week too, but I have to get twice as hammered because it will be twice as worse
by anonymous on December 10th, 2006
hahaha...you can't just drink your problems away...or you will become an alcoholic
by Mr. McClister on December 10th, 2006
Hehe I don't drink em away, its my problem pouring the alcohol down my neck! God next week is going to be so awkward. Maybe I will take a hip flask with me
by anonymous on December 10th, 2006
hahaha...why don't you take a lap top and get on AB
by Mr. McClister on December 10th, 2006
They cost a bomb James! I have enough money for the bus home tomorrow, that's it! Plus I think my mum gets a kick out of me looking like a freak, don't want to disapoint!
by anonymous on December 10th, 2006
hahaha...maybe you should...dasapoint her that is. Since when do you want to conform to the image that your mother gives you...?
by Mr. McClister on December 10th, 2006
lol never. She bought me a bloody cross yesterday (!). I put it on the furby
by anonymous on December 10th, 2006
hahaha...that furby. You need to burn it a little bit and put it on upside down
by Mr. McClister on December 10th, 2006
Hmm... I was thinking of making the furby a t-shirt that says f*ck Jesus on it, for a sort of ironic twist
by anonymous on December 10th, 2006
That would be A-M-A-Z-I-N-G
by Mr. McClister on December 10th, 2006
Hmm.... I might just do that. Oh, I am getting him more piercings too
by anonymous on December 10th, 2006
Is it a dude or a chick....
by Mr. McClister on December 10th, 2006
Its gotta be a dude (I have never, EVER said dude before)
by anonymous on December 10th, 2006
well...get him a tatoo and a prince albert...then he will be complete
by Mr. McClister on December 10th, 2006
you guys are crazy...
by mcclisteraf on December 11th, 2006
Haha that's pretty funny! I have to agree though!! LOL
by Brittney on April 3rd, 2007
by 89bravo on December 10th, 2006
Im waiting till marriage. Though ive been going out with my man for about 9 months. WE both agreed on it since our parents are religious freaks and approve on only that. it is tempting to lose it sometimes though.
I wish you two a long life together!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
& i am adding one more good girl to my statistics ...u r right & your dads are so good.... Good luck..God bless u
by Anonymous AAA on December 21st, 2006
Keep staying strong.
by Singingismystyle on January 19th, 2007
by jupjup on December 9th, 2006
16..and i'm 17 now
by mrs.ANONYMOUS on October 4th, 2006
by Galeanda on August 14th, 2007
18. Just got married to my husband. That was 34 years ago. Never regretted and very joyous that I have only enjoyed my husband and no one else. I have no one to compare him to and all exploring we do is just between the two of us. No one is between us.
What a beautiful thing that is:)
by gtravels loves her life penguin on August 14th, 2007
*applause* I totally agree - except with me, I was 23 instead of 18. But that was just college in the intervening time, and that was challenging enough without the added dimension of "romance".
by Eltinwe has a life Swan - DYOH on August 14th, 2007
That is great :):):)
And very unusual well done you :)
by pagan-babe on August 14th, 2007
The fact is, I don't think it's really all that unusual still. I know plenty of people who did that. It's just we're a LOT less vocal about it.
by Eltinwe has a life Swan - DYOH on August 14th, 2007
Then that's even more reason to smile!!:)
by gtravels loves her life penguin on August 14th, 2007
I think it happens more than people realize though perhpas not as often nowadays. I hope there are still some people who cherish the gift and joy of discovery with someone you truly love.
by Galeanda on August 14th, 2007
Amen!! When you know the beauty of it, you hate to see people make it into anything less.
by gtravels loves her life penguin on August 14th, 2007
You're very smart and strong. Good job.
by skysthelimet on January 30th, 2011
by lady fuschia on October 5th, 2006
When I was 16- I'll be 26 next month (and I'm British so it was legal!) It wasn't all that brilliant first time, but I don't see much point in regretting it. Didn't do me any harm and I've had a decent sex life since.
LOL. I was 15 and I didn't give a rat's butt if it were legal or not.
by AntigoneRising on December 11th, 2006
Neither did I really. Its not like bedrooms have policemen in them.
by lady fuschia on December 19th, 2006
Or at least, the bedrooms with policemen have complicit ones.
by Darkling on December 19th, 2006
Actually I'd kind of like to have a policeman in my bedroom come to think of it!
by lady fuschia on December 20th, 2006
LOL, I bet your a blast to hang out with! If you ever find yourself in Oregon, we should hit the town!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
by bignose on October 4th, 2006
---i am a male, lost it at 15 yrs old and should have waited until at least 18 yrs and was more mature----if i were to say i was seduced, who would believe me?----
I would!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
I would.
by Blar on February 3rd, 2007
See, we don't always judge tee hee!
by turbowray on February 3rd, 2007
Yes I would. I know several young guys that have had that happen well before they were really mature enough to handle it. Usually the "girl" is four or more years older than the boy they are seducing.
by lavander_luv on February 13th, 2007
by shy shy on August 9th, 2009
when i was 13 and im sixteen now
do you regret losing your virginity at such a young age?
by ....... on September 2nd, 2009
there's no need to rub it in lol
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 7th, 2009
uhh, I wasn't.
I was just asking a serious question.
by ....... on September 8th, 2009
i was talking to shy shy,the best thing about being a girl has got to be how easy it is to get laid.
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 8th, 2009
ohhh.
yeah, i guess.
by ....... on September 8th, 2009
I wonder many girls regret it at a young age. I think I respect girls decisions but there are a lot fork tongued boys out there
by angelsdragoon on September 9th, 2009
im not sure how i feel about young girls giving up their virginty.
by ....... on September 9th, 2009
i'm all for it lol
by BOOZE HOUND... nothing is nonsence on September 9th, 2009
Of course you would, your a guy, you don't have anything to lose. We, on the other hand, do.
by Hotchik on September 24th, 2009
Thank you Hotchik!!!
You make a perfectly CORRECT point...
guys don't realize it but girls get labels..
such as (sl*t,wh*re,h*e,)
condoms don't 100% prevent STDs or Pregnancy.
how would you like getting an STD or getting a girl prego when your a teen?
by ....... on September 24th, 2009
by TheKnife V2.1 - Grandiose and Obnoxious on December 31st, 2006
It was just before my 18th birthday, and the condom wouldn't flush down the toilet afterwards. I had to fish it out with a broken coathanger so my parents didn't find it in the morning.
I am now 26.
At least you were careful.
by jangobean on January 1st, 2007
I flagged your answer as "helpful" because you demonstrated a good example about using birth control even the very first time. Thanks for being so honest.
by Ankhorite on January 21st, 2007
interesting.
by skysthelimet on January 30th, 2011
by giggles777 on December 18th, 2006
I never lost my virginity. I am saving it for marriage, I'm 19 about to be 20 and I don't believe in sex before marriage. Yes you get tempted to do it sometimes, but I haven't yet, thank God for that. I never been in a relationship before, never had a boyfriend and I don't plan on having one until God sends me the man he has for me and then I want to lose it to him that way I will have ALL of me to give to him as a gift, I don't want anybody else to have me before my husband does!
Sweet! I am impressed!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
Not just moral or religious... it's soooooooo romantic.... lucky husband
by Anonymous AAA on December 21st, 2006
Thank you.
by giggles777 on December 23rd, 2006
wow. Keep it up.
by Singingismystyle on January 19th, 2007
Thanks. I plan to keep it up. That's for sho'.
by giggles777 on January 22nd, 2007
Um. You're not your hymen. I mean, no, save it for marriage because that's obviously what's right for you, but I hate this stuff about "giving myself entirely" - you are worth SO much more than your hymen.
by Blar on February 3rd, 2007
good job giggles, keep on keeping on!
by lavander_luv on February 13th, 2007
by jigish on December 16th, 2006
i m 17 now and since its teenage period its obvious with both genders.sometimes a spark comes to my mind regarding this but thinking that its all non sense i forget it.i will definitely not lose my virginity till my marriage
now i am counting the good girls...God bless you
by Anonymous AAA on December 21st, 2006
by Krjackson1982 on December 14th, 2006
I was 20 years old and in love (and I was SO wrong about that one).
Now I'm 24.
Allright sis, bubby wont tell. LMAO
by scotty2006 on December 23rd, 2006
You better NOT tell!!!
by Krjackson1982 on December 23rd, 2006
Lol that sounds familiar!!! Haha!
by Brittney on April 3rd, 2007
I am 45 and she is my littlest sister. she is pretty cool.
by scotty2006 on April 3rd, 2007
I'm nineteen. Also the youngest. My brother is 26 and extremely protective! To the point it's almost scary sometimes! Lol But I love him to death for it!!!!!!!!
by Brittney on April 9th, 2007
by DJ-Spikey on December 14th, 2006
12 bad story behide it tho meh lolol
Come back after you've learned to write.
by Anonymous on December 14th, 2006
That was harsh.
by Amare Veritas on December 14th, 2006
It was ignorant to even post such a negative comment b/c of another's grammar.
by Snooch on December 18th, 2006
I second that Auntie Em, this is the Answerbag, not the spelling be for gods sakes!!
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
come on Bob! be cool man....after all this isnt a spelling contest!
by lavander_luv on February 13th, 2007
In your opinion, how does sleeping naked undermine ones "sexual purity"?
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don't worry about it, read some of the other answers, they are older then you. i was 21. live life, and you will meet someone to date and love. don't rush, you are so young!
by munchkin_kids_downunder on December 13th, 2006
It seems like a big deal until it happens and then you realize it isn't very important. I lost my virginity to my first serious girlfriend at age 25.
by Amare Veritas on December 14th, 2006
Please read my answer below (Paper Doll).
by Paper_Doll on December 14th, 2006
Honey, when it is right, you will feel right about it, and not back away. No rush, thats all I can say about it. Look at the brain, who is in his late 30's, he also will when it is right.
by turbowray on December 20th, 2006
sweety u r right... & there is nothing to worry about & you missed nothing really.. you will know later.... i have read a lot of shit here....wait until u get married.ok........? there is nothing bad about being good !
by Anonymous AAA on December 21st, 2006
I'm 24 and a guy hon.
And I've never seen anyone make fun of a girl for being a virgin. I'm not saying it doesn't happen but guys often think other guy's are losers for being a virgin.
Don't be in too much of a hurry to have sex. I really recommend you wait til marriage.
by Valparaiso on December 21st, 2006
If you're not ready, then you're not ready, and that's what's normal for you.
by Blar on February 3rd, 2007
I am the same way somewhat. I've had crushes but not much of a relationship has ever developed...not enough for me to sleep with him anyway I'm 20 (turning 21 soon) and I felt like I was a loser or an outsider for being a virgin. I really do think the people that give people like us a hard time are just insecure.
by sugar and spice on July 7th, 2007