Yes, so what's the matter?

My best friend works with a girl and she flirts with him a lot, she kids that they are gonna one day be married and that they are b/f and g/f. He said that sometimes when certain songs come on the work radio she looks at him a certain way as if implying the song lyrics mean something and he says it's always about wanting him, or something. BUT she never makes a move, he asks her seriously if she likes him through text and myspace and she always avoids the question. She told him she almost always makes the move on guys because they are chicken but she never does with him so I told him she is probably just flirting with him because she knows he likes her and now he is going to go for it (ask her out) but I keep telling him that if he does and she turns him down that things might be weird at work and hard for him to deal with, especially since he is her boss..what do you guys think he should do?! I don't want to see my friend get hurt, he is kind of shy and take rejection really hard.

pretty much you warned him, if he goes for it and she was just playing with him then she should be ashamed about playing with someone's feelings especially when she knew he liked her...

This is pretty obvious. Still, let's bring out some points here... There's a lot of speculation in this post, and I'm not sure if she's actually corroborated any of it. Yet, one major bad move is constantly catching my eye: Him asking her whether or not she likes him. Now, guys, just in case you didn't know, you don't do that. If you really need to ask something like that, you make it into a very clever, funny joke - even I can't think of one, honestly - and do not expect an answer. If you really want an answer, you weigh her actions. In the end, that's what really lets you in on the truth. Of course she is avoiding the question, 99% of the girls avoid that question 99% of the time, but what you could notice here is that she told you that she always makes the moves on guys, because "guys are chicken". Well, I don't know if she's ever met a real guy, or if she always does the moves before any of the guys get a chance to, or if she's simply only interested in guys who don't have the slightest amount of interest in her, but your best bet here would be to ask her out. Personally I wouldn't, though, it is a work environment and for me, that'd already be a reason good enough to skip it; there are plenty of great girls out there who you don't work with, especially if you're the superior in the workplace.

thanks guys, unfortunately my friend made the call last night and she shot him down. I feel bad for him but it is for the better. I just hope he is ok, its been a rough year for him, he had an accident and had 200 stitches in his face and his girlfriend broke up with him and he had to have plastic surgery, and he's a good guy. No offense to ladies but I hate to see women that use their looks or a crush to get by or make their lives easier.