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deb
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Switch it up for another woman instead and he may be fair game. lol
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By offering him your suggestion and if he does not want to you cannot force him to.
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To try and make someone do something they do not want to is wrong. It will backfire on you and he will resent you doing that to him if he does not like what happened. When it comes to sex it has to be with totally consenting adults who know all the facts.
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For his anniversary??? Thats a terrible present.
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Meet him halfway, get a transsexual.
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Offer him a threesome with a woman first.
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My guess is it's never gonna happen, BUT, if it ever was going to happen, you should offer him a threesome with a woman first.
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If he does not want to have a threesome, you shouldn't try to force it on him. Even if he does go though with it, he is likely to resent you for it. It may also bring up trust issues and could go very poorly for your relationship.
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we are such simple creatures, you just need to make him think it's his idea first - then it will be a great idea
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G'day Deb, Thank you for your question. Start talking about your fantasies and what turns you both on. You might find that if you are open to his fantasies, he might be open to yours. After that, roleplay during sex can really help as well. Regards
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You might suggest (and carry through) that having a threesome with a woman would be something you would be willing to try in return. If he objects, don't continue pushing. If he finally would accept, and things don't go well or he doesn't like it, then you could put your marriage in jeopardy. You MIGHT want to simply broach the subject with him... Ask him if he's ever thought of a threesome, male OR female... If he says yes, ask with which sex. If he says female, you could ask if he is serious or is this JUST a fantasy of his. If he says it's serious, but he never knew how to broach the subject with YOU, then you might suggest the swap scenario. (Or you might try it with a couple - a complete swap). HOWEVER, you will BOTH want to make sure your marriage is strong enough for either of you to see their partner having sex with another... No matter WHICH sex it is. Not something I would consider, but... Good luck. ;-)
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Try some DVD's showing 3somes,.....both ways. If he gets upset. All bets are off. Leave it as a fantasy and move on. If you still have this "yearning" , try any assorted toys and marital aids available and see if that helps curb your appetite. If that don't work and you are still insatiable, and he says no,......let the poor guy go asap. He deserves it. Don't keep going along thinking everything is ok. He is obviously ok with things the way they are. Don't give him a size/performance/ugly/fat/romantic complex that a lot of cheaters have done in the past. I'm talking male and female. If it aint working and cant be fixed,.....move on before child support and alimony makes you both enemies. Part asap so you can both still be friends. JMHO
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Chances are he is already doing it with a guy, just ask him to bring his boyfriend home
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Honesty! Be truthfull and make sure he knows it is only for the sexual thrill and nothing more. She convinced me and I brought a old flame home to my wife and it was erotic as hell as soon as they both figuired out what was up!
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If you don't know yet if he'd want one, then sensually broaching the subject might bring forth a world of fantasies from both of you to begin with. Watching some porn with MMF and telling him how hot it is would be a good idea, and maybe talk to him about who the other man or woman might be. Don't be afraid to mention specifics, but don't use your friend's names to test him or trap him. Remember, this would be to enhance your sex life if possible, not wreck it.
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I would say get another girl first and say if you wanna do her you have to give me a threesome with another man involved and then bring the guy in the next night.....So he can't say he forgot
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Try to go for FFM first. Show that you care about him by giving him another one or two girls for him to play with. Same like offering candy to kids. Or you can opt to having lesbian scene with another gal while having him watching u.. or try to do soft swing with other couple first...
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You should start watching some threesomes videos together. Open communication about what each likes and dislikes is essential. Over some time watching these, you might mention how the fmf looks like fun, but you really get turned on by the mfm. Tell him how good you think it would feel to have two men for your pleasure at once. Maybe let him know that you masturbate while fantasizing about getting giving a blow job while he takes her from behind.
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why do you want a threesome with another man? i want to see my man suck another mans dick so he knows what it feels like. I think it would be so hot to watch him take a load in his mouth while wearing a teddy and panties. it is just a fantasy and i am going to talk to him about it.
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Just tell him how much you love sucking on him. Then tell him you just love to suck and how great it would be to have him bang you while you had another to suck on.
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If he not interested in having 3some with MMF, then you should offer him 3some with FFM first or try having him to fuck some other girls first while you assist him or watch him or perhaps you maturbate while watching him fuck the girl...
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Tell him what your plans are for him after words.
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You might want to start be exploring his sexual fantasies with him. Don't ask for anything you aren't prepared to reciprocate. You want an MFM, maybe he wants a FMF too. Be sure to talk it out thouroughly before you do it. Make sure all the ground rules and boundaries are well established before you do it.
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Blind fold him have the guy give him the best blowjob hes ever had and after he gets off take the blind folds off .Dont tell him who did it see if he knows first and maybe tell him you want to fuck him with a strap on. if he dont like that he wont like watching you fool around with another guy. or do you want to just get pounded by two guys and nothing else. if thats all just tell him the more the merrier.
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explain to him that your wanting a threesome is about you wanting two men. not about you wanting him with another man (unless of course thats what you want). me personally, it's about me getting the attention from two guys not about them getting together. it's about me dammit. my pussy has needs.
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My wife said she wants to watch me get head from another man. I'm not really sure if I would do it or not. But if it really turned her on, I guess I would.
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You have to get him to ask you! Make wild passionette love to him and want more and more. Get some dildos and incorporate them into your sexplay. He will see that you need more to satisfy your desires. If you make the suggestion, he might think that he isn't enough. You have to get him to want to make you happy by getting another man in bed with you.
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Just out of the blue bring a woman home and do a wmw first. sometimes it may take a few visits, he'll give in eventually. when he asks, what do you expect out of this, your answer should be no more than this," what ever your comfortable with giving me"
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