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  • take a lesbian to dinner and show her how open you are. or someone thought to be a lesbian.
  • Bye-bye girlfriend! If it's so innocent why didn't she ask you along as well?
  • Very wrong of her and disrespectful of your relationship. I would not stand for it and let her know before she goes. If she insists on going, she obviously could care-less about what and how you feel.
  • If you've told her that it's upsetting you, and she's still going to go out with him anyhow, she doesn't really seem to care about your feelings. I'd be uncomfortable if my bf went out on a date with another woman. I think most people in your situation would be bothered. You should tell her again that you think it's disrespectful and that it hurts you. Ask her if you can go along with them. If she says no, and still goes out with him, I'd seriously reconsider why you're dating someone that doesn't care about your feelings.
  • You should grow a pair and put your foot down! That's total bullshit, and if she goes through with it, against your wishes, that should tell you all you need to know about her right there, and you should dump her.
  • SOunds like your gf knows she can walk all over u.
  • WOW You have every right to be pissed off,but I would rather be pissed off than pissed on!~LOL Just a little humor here!~. Man I would drop her like a hot potato!. And well you can try this,tell her you are going out with your friends sister,or any other female,just tease to see what she would do!~. But she is using this as an excuse believe me,its probably over between you two!~. Good Luck!~.
  • start dating other women, turnabout is fair play
  • A true girlfriend would not go out with someone else without you, even if they were supposedly just a friend. If it's the opposite sex, it shouldn't happen. Anything van happen, it looks bad to other people and can cause rumors which isn't loving to you and it shows disregard for your feelings in that you are bothered by it. If she wanted to make you feel better, she would invite you along since it's just friends.
  • How bout you try and trust her, why is it that she would show no respect for you if you goes out and hangs out with friends. Do you hang ot with friends? I bet you do. you need to relax and just tust her. I mean you told her it bothers you, but that doesnt mean she should stop doing something that is fun for her, especially when it is just hanging out with a friend. chill out and respect her.
  • Looks to me she is doing what it is she wants to do - Now you should follow and do what it is you want to do. Me personally - I'd be looking for the door - I'm to selfish to share my boyfriend with anyone... even if it's just going to the movies.
  • Not to be rude, but try to consider it from her point of view. I'm a girl, i have a bf, and i go to movies with my friends all the time without him (fyi, most of my friends happen to be guys). Do you have any girls who are friends that you just like to hang out with? I do realize that you said that "she has 'no respect for you'" but try to trust her a little. if something happens with them, then a) blame me and b)you'll know not to trust her anymore. anyway, if she didn't love you, she wouldn't be with you, would she? good luck :)
  • I do understand how you feel, IF they do go your stomoch will be turning all night and you will no doubt have an argument when she gets in!! Jelousy is one of, if not the worst cause of relationship break ups and my advise to you would be chill out. If she seriously had "feelings" for this so called gay bloke do u honestly think she would tell you?? unless she wants to make u jelous for something..! I am no relationship expert by far but you need to let it go and accept this stuff will happen. Its not about dignity, you love her and want to make her happy yes? then let her be happy!! keeping her under lock and key will only cause problems.. by the way im a bloke..!
  • The same exact thing happened to me a few days ago, although he's not gay. He's an older guy she is friends with and he takes her out for extremely expensive meals and they get loaded together!! She even spent the night at his place in his spare room. What to do.....
  • Give that girl das boot!
  • Unless you were invited along, tell her that you plan to go out with your buds and maybe "hookup" with a gal..but she shouldn't worry..maybe the gal will be a Lesbian..see if she buys it as she expects you to buy what she told you! :)
  • I don't see why they wouldn't let you go as well. If they are just friends then wouldn't she want you to get to know her friends as well ?
  • i wouldnt be worried about your girlfriend, unless she appears to be doing this to intentionally piss you off. i'd be more worried about the boy, if he wants to spend all this time with her than he might be the one trying to break you up. but im a girl, and apparantly we dont see when girls like us the way boys do. so she may be oblivious to this. but possibly she has no respect for you when she says it because she doesnt feel she has to explain herself. ask her if you could go one time?
  • TRY TO ASK UR GIRL FRIEND THAT MAY I ALSO JOIN WITH U. IF THEY SAY YES THEN GO FOR IT AND ENJOY THE DATE TRY TO FULFIL URSELF BE A MAN. IF THEY SAY'S NO THEN DO ONE THING YOU ALSO OFFERED HER TO A WONDERFUL DATE OFFERED IT IN THE FULL OF FEELINGS FOR EG:- YOU R ONLY ONE FOR ME WHO CARES ME YOU ALWAYZZ CARES ME BUT, NOW THE TIME IS MINE SO PLZZ CUM WITH ME A CARING AND WORNDERFUL DATE N A SMALL DRIVE NEAR TO BEACH.EXPRESS URSELF MAN YOU WILL WIN MY WISHES IS ALWAYZZ WITH U MY FRIEND.
  • Go out with a couple of chicks who "are probably lezzos".
  • You should stop being angry and go with them.
  • You need to watch out for these guys like this,I had a friend of mine who was in a situation like yours he thought the guy was gay and he let his wife do everything with this guy and after about a year of this going on he caught them in bed together.They are now devorced and his wife lives with the guy that he thought was gay.
  • show her much you trust her by letting her go.. at the same time, keep yourself busy while she's out by going out with your buddies have a little boys night. when she gets back, ask her how her night went.. tell her that if its ok, you'd love to go out sometime with her and her friend, perhaps you'd become good friends too. if she accuses you that you only want to meet him just because you don't trust her and is jealous.. tell her that you trust her but ofcourse you're jealous. however, you're doing it because you're interested in her life and it's better than not being interested at all.. who would want a boyfriend that didn't care? all of you can hang out together, bring a few of your own friends, bring a few of her other friends.. it will be fun. you can see how the guy reacts to other people, not just yourself, and then you can decided for yourself what kind of guy this is. approach your friends, approach your girlfriends friends.. and ask them their opinions as well. don't look like a clingy guy though, just tell them you care for your girlfriend and you don't want to see her leave you for someone else. sometimes i go out with my guy friends that my boyfriend hasn't met yet and whenever i see him he'll always tease, "so how are your boyfriends doing?" it gets on my nerves, but its a light way of making me realize that things bother him. he told me later how it really bothered him and i said, ok don't worry, we'll hang out all together one day. so every other weekend all my guy friends (and girl friends) and his friends hung out together at the beach, had a bonfire, and ate some marshmallows while we all talked about random stuff.. we also just all hung out at my friends house and played video games all day and had dinner..eventually my boyfriends fears disappeared and he was no longer jealous of my male friends. he said they were cool and that he trusted them to protect me when he's not around.

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