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your questions that past couple of days indicate that you are being heavily trolled. Can I suggest that you stop asking questions about it, that only eggs them on.
Do they have souls though? Yes.
Yes they have souls that feed from others' pain. You however don't have to feed them. Your best weapon is not to feed them with your emotion. If you are hungry and cant get food at the bank, will you go to the bank for food? NO...so here is my advice.
Everything anyone ever says to you is rarely ever really about you. Take nothing personally. If someone doesn't like what you have said or done, its more about how they are feeling and what they expect of you. You cannot be responsible for how people feel, just like I can't be responsible for your state despare. I grew up in a belief that you have to be aware and consider other peoples feelings, which I still believe. For instance, my wife is going through some difficult moments now, and her patience with me is limited. There is nothing I can do to change her feelings, however I can be aware of them and know that her feelings are not about me even though they are directed at me. And at first knee jerk reaction is to be offened... I can't do that...cause its not about me. People who get offended of what you say or do are only reacting to their experience in life and thats all they have to draw upon. Thats all we know. So your comments, no matter what it is will have thousands of different reactions because there are thousands of different experiences out there. Millions!!!! Just remember, its not really about you.
There's a great German term = schadenfreuder (sp?), meaning someone who gets off on the misfortune of others. This seems rather commonplace. I just view it as a disorder of character, understand that negative emotional reaction just fuels this dynamic, and simply ignore it.
Good luck and don't throw the baby out w/ the bathwater, e.g., there's plenty of cool folks too!
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I get off on the pain of others, it is a lifestyle... S&M ftw1
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I would love to stop the hate, could ya be more specific Faerie? I've just been sharing my pain.
by Terminatorex on June 3rd, 2008
Is it the old adage -don't wear your heart on your sleeve? Never let people know how ur really feeling?
by Terminatorex on June 3rd, 2008
I recall a couple questions yesterday regarding you being trolled. I thought though question indicated that it was continuing. I was just saying that you should just relax and let the trolls build up all their bad karma is all. you've been here long enough to turn your ratings off. Just relax about all the schmucks in the world and live your life the way you see fit.
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by FaerieWhings on June 3rd, 2008
I know they have souls--if you knew my story-ask-cop in hot pursuit-he has a glimpse too of where i come from, but to wish anothers death so easily and like a form of entertainment, is hard for me to fathom here in AB
by Terminatorex on June 3rd, 2008
i'm sorry-i know nothing about turning my ratings off?
by Terminatorex on June 3rd, 2008
Ok...go to the page that shows comments answers and ratings. Towards the top you will see Answer Comments and Ratings all with a box next to it and an 'x' mark. Just click on the box and you wont ever have to see ratings again.
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I really enjoy your contributions to this site and you have been so upset the past day or so.
by FaerieWhings on June 3rd, 2008
Someone wished you death on this site?
by FaerieWhings on June 3rd, 2008
so it's my fault, then that they are ignorant, cruel, sadistic and free to say -lets watch someone kill themselves, won'yt it be great fun-bring the chillun too mama-valuable lesson here about the "Weak" people.
by Terminatorex on June 8th, 2008
yes , Faerie, they did!
by Terminatorex on June 8th, 2008