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by dingguo on May 31st, 2008

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My bf of 1 yr is nice n attractive.He's with me even knowing i'm HIV pos.I'm grateful but always wonder if i'm good enough for him.I know some girls want him.I can't help feeling insecure(i'd snoop around) worrying about losing him, this drives me crazy:(

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  • by fluffylucy on June 25th, 2010

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    Your BF has a mind of his own and obviously likes you for who you are. nothing is guaranteed to last forever but you've told us of no reason why he should change his mind. don't be jealous or possessive or paranoid - these are ugly traits and can only cause resentment. Enjoy who you are and what you have and let him enjoy it too.

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  • by Kimberly on May 31st, 2008

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    I've worked with Hiv patients for several years and I can tell you that I have met some of the most wonderful people that just got delt a crappy hand in life. Sounds like you have a great guy with a caring heart don't mess it up with your insecurities. I know it's hard because sounds like you think he deserves better but honey give yourself more credit than that ok. He's with you obviously because he cares for you and accepts the hand that you've been delt...MAJOR points in my book! If he hasn't given you reason to snoop then stop snooping! Just enjoy the ride for how ever long you are with him, which I hope will be forever:) Love yourself and be kind to yourself you are a beautiful spark of light in this sometimes dark and crazy world. Take care:)

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  • by dingguo on May 31st, 2008

    dingguo

    kimbley, you are so kind :) thanks for your answer, it really helps! i feel insecure because there are some women who have huge crush on him and want him so badly. I appreciate him so much that's why i am so afraid of losing him :) He discussed the possibilities of having children, i was thrilled. I dont know if i should call myself fortune or something. I feel guilty from time to time too. once again, thank you so much!!!

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