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What it comes down to, Thunda_kat, is that where one person allows that kind of power to another, then some of those people will abuse that power. If there are no attachments, then the guy might not feel the need to respond. It can be a power thing where he wants to be the one to make contact. Alternatively, of course, he may have other commitment to which he is more attached. Sleeping with someone without attachments is emotionally dangerous. One party always tends to put emotion into the equation, and then attachment forms. How can you really have sex without emotion? The point of it being an emotional experience is that the moment of orgasm is so much greater like that, clinging on and riding the waves of ecstacy. You make it sopund like it should be a business proposition, with both parties bound by a contract. Life ain't like that. If you are going to find someone, make a commitment and get a commitment.
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Because there are guys out there who won't even remember your name, they just keep score--and some even lose count. They're very convincing talkers, but they've already moved on to the next one.
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I hate to talk in cliches but maybe because they're "just not that into you"! Sometimes people (men and women, although men always seem to get the badmouthing about this) sleep with someone and just don't want to sleep with them again. Whilst honesty may be a laudable thing, not many people seem to think its such a good idea to say the morning after "hey, don't fancy doing that again much!". The polite thing is to exchange phone numbers and hope to god they don't feel like calling you either. If it bothers you that much, the best advice is to not sleep with someone until you know them well enough to be sure they'll answer your calls.
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I would suggest that if you are expecting a call, or you are posting about not getting a response to a call, then there WERE NOT no attachments. If there were truly "no attachments, understood by both parties" as stated in your question, why would you expect a call or a response afterwards? I'm not condoning this type of behavior (or admitting too it), but I would expect that two consenting adults could hook up for a sexual tryst without the expectation of any further contact.
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