ANSWERS: 19
  • You need to sit down and discuss this with her. You don't need to tell her you heard it from her best friend, but that you do need to know how she's feeling. Discussing this would be the mature thing. If she is, then you two need to break up and let her explore her feelings. The only way to know is to ask.
  • You can't really confront your girl or else it could cause a lot more trouble than what it's worth. No one really get's over or "turns off" feelings they have had for some one special. The only thing you can do is ask her for her honest feelings for you, if you trust her you'll belive what she tells you and you can work from there, good luck :)
  • You can't remain quiet over it, if you don't want to tell her who told you don't, by telling her that you feel it. Don't be afraid of loosing her maybe don't worth it. Things happens always for a reason, there's probably something else better coming soon. Let go.
  • Just ask her about it. Her best friend might have lied to you because she's trying to break the two of you up. Just a thought.
  • dump her.
  • Truthfully, nothing. Everything you have heard is hearsay or gossip. If your bf has chosen you, it doesn't matter who else likes him. This sounds like the type drama young girls thrive on. If there isn't any drama going on, they need to create some. I got calls from ex-girl friends even after I was married. I chose my wife. Ex girl friends are just that....EX
  • dont break up with her.. just wait, her feeling would go! :)
  • ask her why she broke up with ex-bf then she'll remember all the problems
  • Ask her if she is still in love with her ex. If she is...well then, you have the answer. It would be fair to you to stay with someone who is in love with someone else.
  • Smack the heck out of that so called best friend of hers. That was no way to be a friend. That was likely told in confidence. We all have doubts, and just keep doing what you're doing and if it eats at you too much, get together with both of them, your GF and her best friend, when you mention it to her the first time. Yes, throw her best friend under the bus. Kinda sucks but its the only way to not look like a total dick.
  • You can't possibly go on dating your girlfriend knowing this. Ask yourself, do you really like her? Is she for keeps? If you don't think so, I think it is time to break down your relationship. If the answers are a Yes, you must win your girlfriend over. If it is true she is still in love with her ex, then you must be missing something. Go for it. However, if you think it is wrong and weak of her to still like her ex, and you think this is a big character flaw - go over your emotions. Eventually, you will need to broach the topic of your ex to her. She also needs to know that her "best friend" isn't so much.
  • This is information coming from a friend that is probably jealous of her. Maybe she wants you and she is trying to get you to break up. When and where did he SO CALLED friend tell you this. Friends dont do that. It wasnt hurting you not knowing about it and those feelings that she might have will probably go away. I would ask your GF about it and yes throw her friend under the bus. Hopefully it will backfire in her friends face. Dont break up with her, just realize that at some point in all our lives we think about a past love, it is only natural. How does her friend act around you?
  • Sit her down and explain what happened calmly. Dont lose your temper and just say you just want to know the truth. If this is the truth maybe its not your time to be together yet... If its a lie perhaps she should have a talk with her best mate... It sounds like a classic line to try and break a perfectly happy couple up. Good luck!
  • First of all her friend should have not told you anything. It could of have got twisted who knows. But what you need to do now is talk to your girl and she need a new friend.
  • Take it with a grain of salt until you hear it from her. What motive did her best friend have for telling you? Maybe she wants her best friend to herself? Maybe she'd hoping to catch you on the rebound? Maybe she's a busybody who likes stirring up trouble. Anyway you look at it, she's not much of a friend. And I say her info is suspect because of that.
  • try an find out if it is ture because people can lie for many reason like because tthey are julous and they want u for them self or there relly not there find so investigate but with cution
  • ask her about it . she might deny it or she might be fully open about sill being in love with her ex. dont just ignore this situation it might mean breaking up with her .. or your trust for each other might get stronger. just love her very much while you have her. hope this helps xx
  • Simple answer: ask her upfront and watch her body language. Also, what kind of "best friend" does that? Good luck.
  • tell your g'friend's friend to take a hike...they've got no right to police her for you.....unless you are also stupid to allow that to happen in which case you must accept the consequences of possible lies....

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