I'm sorry Crazy Sexy is so rude. there's prolly not a lot you can do. you can't make someone like you, they have to like you for YOU, WHO YOU ARE, not who you pretend to be so that they will like you. There will be plently of guys who will like you, especially if you are that pretty. i wish you luck.

If you mean.. you would tell him you would commit suicide to keep him.. I do not see how that would work. I have never seen that work and instead turns the guys off because most chicks like that are mental cases. I suggest you look to yourself for more love before you try and give/receive it in a relationship. You are totally letting another dictate your self worth and that is not cool. Too co-dependent emotionally. Learn yourself.. love yourself and do not let a man or anyone make you so crazy you forget self respect.

I say this in all sincerity, so please take it that way: This is not a healthy situation. This sounds like infatuation. First of all, if he is a "jerk", you can't change him. When we are young, many of us want to be *the one* that changes him, that makes him see the error of his ways. It is like roping and breaking a wild horse. But that is not how humans work - you can't change him. Real feelings of love do not come through "trick to seriously attract him" - love is developed between two people who have a mutual attraction AND a mutual respect for one another. ANY attraction or affection in which you feel you need to include that "his love will be that which can take a suicide attempt" is DANGEROUS. Suicide NEVER goes hand in hand with a loving relationship. What it seems you are experiecing is the heartwrenching situation of a crush burgeoning on infatuation. To attract him, or any guy really worth having, you need to worry more about yourself than him. Take good care of yourself. Forget about catering to him. Focus on your health, your emotional well-being, your friends and family etc and he (or a better guy) will see that you are worth having. Maybe get some distance and try to gain some perspective. It sounds you are too close and so wrapped up in the feelings you have that you have lost some balance. I know that feeling of wanting someone so much that it makes your head spin, but that will fade. And it should - because that is not how real love is formed. I know this isn't what you wanted to hear, but I think it is important.

You can't change people, no matter how hard you try. Another thing: Don't manipulate people. You're already thinking about playing mind games before you're even in a relationship with the guy. If you start dating him, you're just asking for a disaster that's waiting to happen. My advice to you is: Back off and move on.

If you have to convince someone to notice you or be with you then they are just not that into you.