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by john188 on September 21st, 2006

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Im a guy and my best friend is a girl who is bi-sexual. we do everything together and have been friends for 4 yrs.I have fallen in love with this girl bad, but she likes girls. Should i chance losing the friendship? I love this girl soo much!

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  • by Barbara on October 30th, 2009

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    bi sexuals bend both ways you know. if you like her, go for it! doesnt matter if she likes girls, that would actually make her kinda sexier in my opinion. just follow your heart, and get sex at the end of it ;)

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  • by Ullyses on September 21st, 2006

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    If she's bi-sexual then she likes girls as well. You already have a great relationship with her. I think you just want to move it to another level. If you are really that close then you should be able to talk with her. Let her know you feel more than friendship for her, but (if it's true) that your friendship is so important that you are scared of losing her by changing the relationship. One thing you will have to accept is that her bi-sexuality may mean she feels the need for female relationships as well. I am not going to preach about hygeine, but you need to ask yourself if your ego and your love could cope with her loving another as well.

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  • by ALLY on November 18th, 2009

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    it kinda sounds like wat happened between me and my best friend now boyfriend

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  • by Anonymous on April 11th, 2009

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    Well ask her cause she does like guys. And so she might like you. Just because shes bi doesnt mean she doesnt like you.

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  • by bagkhan on March 28th, 2009

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    try to be a bi-couple and both be happy.

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  • by Miss sexy on May 7th, 2007

    Miss sexy

    if shes bisexual then she likes guys and girls therefore theres a chance she would date u but please think before u act because if u dates her then if it dosnt work out then the friendship might never be the same againor u and her might not even be friends any more.

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  • by Hainclopse on February 2nd, 2009

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    Most of the time (Not always, by any means) bi-sexuality is something women use to get more attention from men. Also, most women realize it wouldn't be too bad, but actually probably more physically successful to be sexually involved with a women. They take it to mean they're bi-sexual, but I don't think that's it at all. To be perfectly honest, I think women would be the best sexual partners because they would know exactly what to do, but I know I'm not bi-sexual because I could never maintain a relationship with a woman. There's something about the metaphysical make up of a man that I couldn't live without in a relation. That being said, she may not even by truly bi-sexual. Also, I think you should go for it. Best friends make awesome couples. To validate that last sentence, I would like to say for the record that I've been with my best friend exclusively for three years now...

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  • by LoveLess on February 12th, 2009

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    I think you should try it.Remember,she's bi,so she also likes guys,and you've been friends with her for four years.After all that,you won't lose your friendship if you ask her out.

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  • by unihorn on February 21st, 2011

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    tell her how you feel, but first tell her its ok if she doesnt feel the same way and that you still want to be friends no matter what. then just see what happens from there, take a chance.

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