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by dee676767 on September 20th, 2006

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My guy wants to have a threesome with another girl. I'm open to the idea, but he's done it before and this would be my first time. What exactly goes on in a threesome?

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  • by Red_Smartie on April 6th, 2007

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    I have had a threesome, it was with a married couple and the woman wanted to engage in it. It was originally supposed to be a 4some, but the other man who was supposed to participate (I am a woman) came off as very eager, not that I can blame him but he was very rude, and we decided to continue without him. We became friends and continuously emailed each other all hours of the day.

    We finally picked a date and I came over to their house, at first it was incredibly awkward because we were all so nervous but once we got through that it became very arousing and very very fun! We all orgasmed many times, and it was better than I thought I would be considering I am very shy.

    We plan on doing it again as soon as our scheduals clear up. I can hardly wait!

    If you are comfortable with the idea of a threesome or more some lol and you would like to experiment, I say go for it, as long as it is safe, you are with people you trust, and all in good fun.

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  • by dblitzen on October 13th, 2006

    dblitzen

    With all due respect to lady fuschia (and I mean that sincerely), I tried this once and I was not disappointed. I described it to a friend by IM in the following way:

    "You know how when you build something up in your mind and then when you actually experience it, it's a little disappointing? Well this was nothing like that."

    Here are what I believe were the contributing factors to our mutual enjoyment:

    First, both women were truly bisexual. They both had previous experiences with other women and enjoyed sex with women as much as they enjoyed sex with men.

    Second, they both had voracious sexual appetites (unusual for women in my experience). They both thought about sex constantly.

    Third, I introduced them and I put a LOT of efffort into helping them feel comfortable. One of them was my girlfriend, and the other was a former girlfriend who wanted to remain friends with me after our breakup. We had several threeway conversations beforehand by IM and I tried very hard to be sensitive to the fact that situation could have easily become uncomfortable for everyone. I didn't pressure either of them to do anything.

    When they met, they were nervous, but it was clear they were attracted to each other. I put a lot of effort into gently coaxing them both to touch each other, physically taking the hand of my former girlfriend, at one point, and placing it on the shoulder of my girlfriend.

    They each had more orgasms than I could count, and when the two of them were touching me together, the sight of the them combined with the sensation of their hands on my body was undescribable.

    It might not be for you, but I can tell you that nobody left unsatisfied. What surprised me was that the two of them spent a lot of time carresing afterward. Go figure.

    Whatever you decide, I hope it works out well for you.

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  • by Anonymous on September 22nd, 2006

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    To be honest- whatever you want. You'd be best off talking to him about what exactly he wants to happen during this threesome. SOme couples incolve another person in sex but neither of them actually engage in penetrative sex with that person. Some have sex but don't allow kissing. Some guys just like to watch their girlfriend getting it on with another woman but don't necessarily want to join in. Some might want to do it with both girls in turn, others just wantto be massaged and pleasured by two women- just basking in the attention. You really need to ask him what kind of thing he expects to happen.
    You also ought to give some thought to where you're going to find this other girl- he may have someone in mind and you'd better check you're comfortable with that choice. (Your taste in women and your boyfriend's may be quite different!) It can be a bad idea to pick anyone you know too well (such as a best friend) as this can cause jealousies and awkwardness later on.
    And be aware that he may actually end up a little bit disappointed. I know a lot of guys who've "lived the dream" so to speak on this one and have come out a little disillusioned that it wasn't quite the mind-blowing experience they expected (its basically just sex, but with an extra body, once the initial excitement wears off- it ends up a bit "is this it?") Others have ended up with serious complexes, not realising how jealous it would make them to see their girl getting it on with someone else (you might want to think about this yourself, too!)
    So by all means go for it, but talk it through first- make sure you know what you're letting yourself in for.

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  • by Gun-Metal on September 21st, 2006

    Gun-Metal

    lol well you might wanna think about it more. having a 3 some may make or break your relationship. as a guy having a 3 some is awsome but most men is just in it for the sex and then they'll most likely move on and leave you. but then thres the other types of men who is satisfied with what they're girlfriend or wife as to offer and love them no matter what sex is like. remember sex is like air for men,its really important when youre not getting anything...lol..does that sound okay?lol well if you're in doubt dont do it. but if you think that its good for your relationship then do it. BUT a real man will love you for you and is willing to love you no matter what sex is like. if he's asking for new experiences that your not ready for tellem to go find a chick who likes that type of stuff. theres lots of men out there to choose from....so take your pick...

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  • by AVS426 on September 21st, 2006

    AVS426

    Anything goes on.. any possible thing can happen.. where everyone is being stimulated or just one of you at a time.. one of you can even be missed out on lol..

    but before you do dive into something like this.. will you feel that the relationship is fulfilling?.. in a sense of security and love.. you can have fun when your young.. but will you regret? will you feel used?

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  • by Stronghart on September 20th, 2006

    Stronghart

    what goes on is what you wan to go on. Imagination is all.

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  • by good2know on January 7th, 2010

    good2know

    you can sent the ground rules for what you want to happen and what your not ok with

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  • by anothergrl on August 18th, 2009

    anothergrl

    Your b/f wants to have a 3some with me??????

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  • by saint nist on June 3rd, 2007

    saint nist

    I suggest first off... make sure you all get naked together... take a warm shower & clean your privates good... Learn to give another girl oral... both of your girls give him oral... and then go from there...

    look up www.askjolene.com for group sex storys to get more ideas...

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  • by AnnaMichelle on May 20th, 2007

    AnnaMichelle

    wait, "your guy"? And wat goes on, you kiss, have sex, try sexy positions, and other random stuff.

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  • by sportajedi on April 6th, 2007

    sportajedi

    3 people have sex

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  • by Glenn Blaylock on September 20th, 2006

    Glenn Blaylock

    This sounds like a question that would be more appropriate for the AB4Adults section. The link is down at the bottom of the page.

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  • by Shawn_B7341 on October 15th, 2010

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    fun and play its a blast

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  • by good2know on March 9th, 2010

    good2know

    you can put limits on what happens and what don't,normally it's a free for all,if you don't want someone tuching u in a certain spot say so u really have to make your first time count and be relaxed with what your doing or you'll never try it again,your best bet would be to sit down with your s/o and see what he/she expects and if your ok with that.

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  • by joebud on November 19th, 2007

    joebud

    For the guy.... He has to think a LOT about baseball and politics. If he actually starts thinking too much about what's going on......

    Well, let's just say he's out of the game in the bottom of the 2nd inning and gets to watch re-runs of M.A.S.H. while the girls enjoy themselves.... :)

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  • by dgardner on July 11th, 2009

    dgardner

    You get 2 women telling you you are crap

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  • by sunshine on August 18th, 2009

    sunshine

    fucking and sucking just like when it is a twosome only more of it. If you like to eat pussy you are in for a real treat.

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  • by voyeurist_wife on November 10th, 2009

    voyeurist_wife

    Do enjoy the best sex ever...Have not tried with a girl, try now.. then the next would be mfm, best sex ever would be two guys same time...

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