I like this guy at my church alot. I dont know if he likes me, but he says hi, and smiles at me alot, and does flirt with me. We are both really good christians, and go to the same church, what should I do?
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If he flirts with you, but takes no next step, he either doesn't want it to go farther or he is shy. Thankfully, I think more often the reason is simply shyness. Does your church have some social time after the service? If so, that's a perfect time, to be bold, walk up to him and say more than "hi". Say, "Hi, we sure seem to see each other here often." Then look for an opportunity to say something like, "perhaps we could get brunch together some time after the service?" leave it open ended. He can wiggle out if he doesn't want to, but he'll get the hint if he does want to pursue it.
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he's shy....i dont know what you should do. Talk to him more and more....if you can
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I would ask him out to a movie or something casual? why not?
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Just keep moving matters along as you are. Patience, my dear young lady, patience... Remember how well it served Job. Also, exactly how old are you both?? Are you 14 year-olds or what?? IF you believe in your faith, and try to follow the teachings of Jesus, you will believe that God will, in His own due time, lead you to the right man at the right time. This young man may, or may not, be the one for you. Que sera, sera.
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maybe ask him if he wants to hang out one day (even just as friends), and just see what happens, even if nothing happens you wont ever have the feeling of regret for not trying..
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