I am a lesbian. My partner doesn't want sex-hardly ever. I am in-love and I want it regularly. What i'd like to know is-(I especially want to hear from other lesbians) have you had a partner that just never wanted sex?
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Yes, I used to have an older partner that went through menopause and just lost interest. And then I have a partner who is on meds that just kill her libido.
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There are some women that just, after a while, don't want sex. My viewpoint is that of an ftm individual, pre-everything and in a relationship with a woman. I've discovered that after a year of living with her, she's rather snuggle than have sex-- it's a bit off putting, to be honest. But everyone will want sex sometime (unless they're asexual, in which case, you'd have to either seek a different relationship or settle for no sex). My partner has the desire to do it very rarely-- at least that she voices. You might want to just ask your partner about her lack of sex. Maybe there's a reason for it; shyness, worry, medication, stress-- it could be anything, really. I suggest talking to her, finding out what's going on and then taking it slowly from there. Best of luck, Luke
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