ANSWERS: 8
  • I'm sorry but that is dishonest and very selfish of you to bring a child into the world that isn't wanted by both parents deliberately. What? Do you think this will instantly make your bf become a great father? It just may drive him far away from you and out of your life forever. You aren't even married. What kind of home life will the baby have, do you have funds fro your pregnancy, for his upbringing, his education. Are you ready to take care of a baby by yourself if you have to? What if there are problems, health or financial? Still ready? It doesn't sound like you are ready for it, never mind your boyfriend. Wait until you are both ready and mature enough to raise up a child and deal with everything that can come up.
  • what a dishonest, selfish and deceptive thing to do.. if he isnt ready so be it.. wait and be patient.. if you cant wait then leave.. dont force him to father a kid he isnt ready for.. and by the sounds of it you are not mature enough to mother a child.. you wont get any help from me.. If you force him to have a child he will walk away.. and so he should.. plus think about the life the child will have.. its father will hate you
  • how old are you? and i really hope you aren't serious with that question
  • Please learn to correctly spell and punctuate everything you wrote. Then, develop the critical thinking skills to understand the, oh, at least three things majorly wrong with what you said *beyond* the grammar and spelling. The gene pool has enough of the fucking stupid gene already.
  • It is obvious that you are very young and immature. A more mature and experienced person would never propose such a selfish and underhanded thing. Your question makes it so clear that you aren't ready to be a parent. Please do yourself, your boyfriend and your future children a favor and grow up before you consider having babies. And next time you consider it, make sure the father to be wants to be a dad. If I were your boyfriend and you got pregnant despite my telling you that I wasn't ready, I'd hate you.
  • This has got to be one of the most ridiculous things I’ve heard in a long time. Having a baby isn’t about forcing a man to be a father; it’s about creating a human being and giving that human being the best possible life you can. I can’t even believe someone could be as selfish as to even consider this. </rant>
  • Your question only confirms that you are far too immature and selfish to even remotely think about having a child. If there is any justice on earth, the good Lord will prevent you from a pregnancy. This is a child. A real human being and not a toy. Why on earth or anywhere else would you even consider using an innocent human being for your own selfish ends? I can only pray that no one here will even hint at how to decieve this young man. I am totally dumb-founded as to why you would use a child like this. Who raised you and what unhealthy ideals did they instill in you. This will come as a huge news flash to you - If you lie to him and decieve him HE WILL NEVER TRUST YOU, NOR WILL HE SUDDENLY WANT A 'KID' (by the way; it's a child not a kid). The best way to send him packing and hating you until the end of time is to continue to believe what you believe. Lord, let us all hope that this unhealthy and dishonest behavior ends with you.
  • Please do us a favor, and keep your legs together until you are in a mutual relationship, both have educations and are financially able to care for a child (remember, you breed them, you feed them, I am tired of funding daycare in high schools because of selfish brats like you). Why don't you worry about getting an ice cream and pay attention in class. If he isn't (not ain't) ready, you are setting up a future of failure and anger for both of you. You are really a selfish brat to even think this.

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