Does being a truely good person pay off in the end? I feel like I am unappreciated in my relationship, and I'm wondering if she'll ever realize what she has? I hope she does =\ and soon, because this is tough..
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Maybe she never will untill she loses it.You need to be respected and loved. I think you need to sit down and talk to her/him and explain your true feelings.She/he may be pushing you away subconciously.Good luck.
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i think being a good person pays off in the end because you feel good about yourself for being good? :] idk but keep being good because the world needs good people like you!
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There's a small difference in being a good person and letting someone walk all over you. If she doesn't appreciate you now - do you think she ever will? I think if it's been more than a year things won't change unless it's seriously talked about - Good Luck!
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I dont think so. I've noticed (im really sorry to say too, dont be mad at me just an observation) the asshole guys usually have the loyal girls. I've watched my buddy play nice guy for years and all he gets is screwed over. In fact, I can't even remember the last time he even HAD a girlfriend. My other buddy is a total dick and she hasn't left him for 4 yrs
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my bf didn't appreciate me until i broke up with him.. when he learned his lesson and straightened out his life we went back together and its been great since.
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Yeah It will. But I can understand how you feel. Just tell her then.. using example bla bla bla. Coz it sucks if it last forever. People needs to be apreciated and respected for all things they do. It's good for you both if you address this problem. Don't let time tell.
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ahem...are you dating my daughter...
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well yes it does cuz every one will like u but just be a little more assertive in your relation ship or else the girl will feel bored and move on :P
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I think that being a good person does not pay the rewards back to you that they should. In the end, the only pay back that you get is the peace of mind that you lived your life the best you could. Good People are very underappreciated.
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I know how you feel. The big question is, when do we give up hoping to be appreciated?
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