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I would say neither. Just let it go, focus on you, and if you meet up again and start hanging out you can say what you want to say then.
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Recently, I had a friendship ended two months ago because he said that I havent been there for him since my mom got a heartattack. He sent me a nasty email that I am not a friend and I am not compelled to help him out with his job search. I was hurt by his words but not surprised. He said that I always call him for nothing and that I monopolize his time with nothing. Look what the pot that turns the kettle black. He use to call me at midnight to talk about nothing. I have a lot of crap going in with my life mom ill with heart disease; I havent been working for most of this year. Another words if your friends don't understand why you are not around and you have to deal with your issues; move on don't explain yourself. YOU COME FIRST NOT YOUR FRIENDS!!! You can be a good friend but at times when personal matters don't allow it. You may have to drift apart for awhile. If things start to become stable you may want to renew your friendship. If not, move on and make other friends. I have.
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