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I wish women would take over the porn industry. Instead of the current video rape and degradation depictions, actually train guys into the things women actually like and want. As far as the fuck scenes. They spend a week or two filming those 30 minute events. Total BS. Notice too how after the money shot the guy treats the woman like dirt and it comes to an abrupt end? Men and women would be much better at the real thing if the prior was directed to teach men to actually please women and put their own desire to cum to the last. Case in point I recently read the average guy lasts between 2 and 3 minutes after entry. The average sex from first kiss to finish is only 7 minutes. After which the guy rolls over, sleeps or showers. And the woman unfulfilled ends up masturbating to the finish. Take control ladies. Don't let a guy beat you to the finish. Lay down the law he doesn't cum till you do. Fast as guys are on their own, your guy will be slowed way down. Besides you actually enjoying it, he will enjoy it more. Men tend to be naturally bad lovers. You can make them great ones. Just like kissing and necking. Hours of that and he didn't get to cum. Next time he tried harder.

I gotta say I don't like it either (I said this in a recent answer as well to another question). I'm very alternative and kinky but for some reason the spit thing I never liked. Whenever I see it in porn where they spit on each others genitals I either look away or just shiver in repulsion. Geez you porn stars are making tons of money, spring for a proper bottle of lube lol. But I guess some people like it for the 'dirty/primal' look of it I guess.

Good question. I would say that no most people don't do that during sex. I have played around alot in my little 34 years and I would dare say that the women I have been with (liberated or reserved) would have atleast thought it gross or told me right out "you can go now and don't come back". That trend is in porn not reality.

I think it's gross too. Either get me wet enough that my 'natural' lube does the job for us both or get some KY. Spit is way not sexy.

i've done it once. i had got my gf really horny but she wasn't that wet, and i knew dry fingers would hurt her... i was afraid at the time to lick my fingers after i had just fingered her, so i let some spitt fall and rubbed her out. surprisingly she was cool with it when i asked her if it was okay. she said it didn't bother her at all.

Saliva is very sexy. All a matter of how it's applied. Application should be done directly with the tongue. To the penis or vagina. Spitting for distance on a person is for the purpose of degradation. Well, there's always a few that enjoy what the majority find repulsive. I understand Adolph Hitler really enjoyed being heel stomped and peed on by women. Supposedly those two things along with verbal were the sum total of his sexual enjoyment. Now what is really disgusting is doing that sort of thing to someone repulsed by it. Rape has a deeper definition. It is more than having intercourse or oral by force. Rape is also forcing the person to do anything of a sexual nature against their will. My vote is you can get away with a brief but unwelcome kiss. If she tells you not to do it again and you do, well, maybe it's not rape, but certainly gets my vote as sexual assault.

I think it's cool if a girl wants to spit either in her hand or on my penis while giving me a handjob.

I sure there's a place for this (fetish porn), but for my taste, not in the mainstream. I don't even like it in bondage or rape scenes.

Spitting is sexy. When I masturbate, I spit on myself. Very stimulating.

I first heard about the spit thing as a tip sent in by a girl to FHM, it makes handjobs so much nicer as it's lubed but it feels much less artificial than KY for example. Plus the fact that it belongs to the woman aswell is good, I would never use my own! Most girls in my experience have no problem with using their spit when giving me a handjob. It is regularly in porn these days though aswell, haven't really seen guys use spit on the girl though.

Eh ive only done it once...and thats because my girl wasnt wet enough