ANSWERS: 9
  • Maybe you are just too codependent. Maybe if you did lose him, you would discover yourself.
  • You should realize that your overwhelming fear of losing him could be what leads you to losing him. Relax, enjoy yourself.... I'm sure he's a great guy so enjoy that. Don't spend all your time worrying about if that great guy is going to leave you. If it was meant to be, it was meant to be, if not, you'll find another, but you can't beat yourself up in advance. You might as well just break up with him to save yourself the time, if you insist on stressing over losing him. Why do this? Have some faith in yourself or you won't enjoy anything.
  • You need to live for now! Not the what if's! Relax! enjoy today, tomorrow will take care of itself!:):)
  • If you are over-thinking things, please stop now. You will probably only end up pushing him away from you if you don't.
  • I know exactly where you are coming from. I love my boyfriend a lot too, and I am constantly sleeping and staying home from school because of my constant fear of losing the one I love. I try to chill out and get involved in things, and keep myself busy. I know exactly where you are coming from. I guess it shows how much we love our men. (: g/l.
  • I know exactly what your tlkaing about...I ust cry because I love him so much...and i dont want to ose him,
  • Make him sign a slave contract, and then make him sleep in a cage in your bedroom, an only let him out when you're horny.
  • Ok. I have a girlfriend who stresses like that. But my girlfriend is the greatest person in the world and sometimes it may seem that you're going to lose him cuz of fights or drama but really you're not. If you both love each other then you're not going to lose him that easily. Cuz if it's meant to be, then it;s meant to be forever, not until the first fight happens
  • You are not defined by your bf. You are a valuable human being in your own right. You are great and wonderful and fantastic, intelligent and beautiful. You are magnificent. Learn to love and accept yourself, as you are, without judgment. If you can learn that, then you will find you can live comfortably with yourself and do not require another to validate you or to make your life complete. And you will choose your friends according to how they value themselves. You will NEVER lose someone,though others may be so short-sighted as to lose interest in you. That becomes their problem...do not let it be your problem.

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