When you feel in your heart your s/o does not love you, but you love them what do you do?
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Sexyrabbit
ANSWERS: 7
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you have to ask them when they are in a serious mood. Dont assume. but get them to tell you the truth so you can make in informed decision either to leave and move on or stay.
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Whatever you do, please do not make any accusations to his face about it. I have been accused of not loving my boyfriend and it hurt like hell that people would think that lowly of me and second guess my intentions. I have also been accused of stringing him along, using him, messing with his head, and so on. It hurt because the accusations were and still are false. They just aren't true at all. I would imagine it would hurt him as well to be accused of something like that. Is it at all possible that you are over-thinking something right now?
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Maybe what you feel in your heart is that YOU don't love HIM? We can only feel our own feelings 'in our heart'. Are you sure you're not projecting? Look at his behaviour if you want to know if he loves you. Trust him, love him, take a genuine interest in him and try to make him happy in your company and above all, relax. If he doesn't love you he will soon make it obvious, then you can make a decision about your life. If you already have reasons to think as you do, then end the relationship and move on to a better place. It will hurt but it will also pass.
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I do not know what you do but, sometimes it makes me VERY sad. :(
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Realize it takes two....like dancing. You both have to be engaged in the relationship. It's not about words but feelings and actions. Why would you feel love for someone who doesn't reciprocate?
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Well, he must have done something to make you feel this way. I feel for you, because that is a horrible feeling to have. What makes you feel he does not love you?
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Go to a hospital and ask doctors for a heart transplantation ;) Now seriously - it's not easy to accept that the one you love doesn't love you. Think of your previous relationships where you were on the other side - he/she loved you but you didn't have the same feelings. Now you know how that feels. Grats - a character growth a little bit. Let's continue. I hate to make lists so I will tell you to do the dirty job and make 2 ;) On the first one list all the reasons for your love for him/her. On the other list all the reasons he/she you think probably have for NOT loving you. Next step - show the second list to your best girl friends and ask them if they think what you've wrote there match you. If they say yes then you have to work on that. If they say no - such a good friends, they save you a lot of work ;) Oh and by the way about the first list you made.. you can throw it in garbage - literally! You can't make someone love you so decrease to minimum the time you see him/her to a minimum so you can forget him faster for your own good (and decrease your suffering) and meet more people and move on with your life.
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