ANSWERS: 6
  • Oooo, that's a tough one. Don't want to scare the girl off. I would hold off a little bit longer, but that's just me.
  • How long ago is this "recently"? Because if it's less than 2 months, I can tell you that with about 105% certainty, you're fooling yourself big time here. Have you ever heard of "love at first sight"? I'm sure you have. So have I! The thing is, love doesn't happen at first sight, because you fall in love with someone's personality and attitude, which you will not have a good idea of before you've known her for some time. And I'm not talking about days or weeks here. So, you've fallen for this girl - or what you see to be this girl. That's nice, it's always great when you've got a special someone in your life. But dude, don't you go and confess to her on your knees. And no, not even when standing up, or flying in the air for all that matters. Why? Let me fill you in on that. Women generally search for certain qualities in guys - qualities like honesty, integrity, confidence and for instance, reliability. There are also certain things that women - once again, generally - really wouldn't mind NOT finding in men. Traits like being clingy, not being a good listener and being hasty. Sadly, this is what many guys are! Many of them become dependent on their newly found crush, and turn into these doormats, these butlers that will do anything for the girl. This will be their first, and last mistake. The bad news is that they won't get another chance for a good first impression, but the good news is that they can learn from this and when an even more gorgeous and lovely beauty appears, they'll be better than last time. Now what do you think confessing your undying love at this point would cause to happen? Nothing? Wrong. It'll instantly tell her that you're a dog on a leash and will do anything for her. You've got no backbone, no attitude and you're really hasty - and most likely, clingy too! Sounds pretty bad, huh? It won't get any better after that. What you need to do here, is to calm down, grab yourself grab by the scruff of your neck and stand up straight. You are a confident guy... No, you're the guy every woman in this world wants. You talk like that guy. You even BREATHE like that guy. Now next time, no gifts. You can buy those later. Just concentrate on having a good time with her, and you're going to do great. You're not a doormat: you're the man SHE has to assure herself to be good enough to get another date. She already has? No she hasn't. If nothing else doesn't work, pretend that she looks like a gargoyle - one frightening sight of a gargoyle. This is just to keep you under control and to help you keep your composure. You can do it!
  • Yes, if it seems to have happened too fast, then it probably did. You have nothing to loose by waiting.
  • Yes, if it seems to have happened too fast, then it probably did. You have nothing to loose by waiting.
  • Hell no, you should at least sound her out and see whether things are headed in the right direction. you could make a rod for your back in telling her that only to find when she farts in front of you that you can't stand the chick and want to get out of the relationship...stop with the gifts too, you're making me look bad!
  • You should confess to her that you have feelings for her. I wouldn't phrase it as "love" just yet because that might sound a little creepy and weird. But definitely do it now.

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