Perhaps she posted the listing before you guys got together and didn't remember to take it down? It's easy to forget that those postings are up there. : ) I wouldn't worry about it too much at this point. Give it some time, and then if it's still there, you can mention it to her - at that point you should expect her to take it down.

well before u jump to conclusions have you tried to see if your friends claim was authenticate?? if it is then maybe your girlfriend isnt as into you as you are to her but if you can't prove what you friend has told you then just disregard his whole inquiry and continue to be deeply into your girlfriend.

At the risk of stating the blindingly obvious . . . Why don't you ask her. At the moment you, and several others by the sound of things, are second-guessing what's been going on. The two of you have been together for a month; these early days are the potential seeds of a life together and already you have questions that you feel a need to solicit other people's advice on rather than talking to the girlfriend that you seem to want a relationship with for the rest of your lives. Try some honesty, with each other. Honesty is not only about not cheating etc. it's about having the courage, security and trust to say anything to each other, even when it seems painful. For anyone else to give you the correct explanation for this incident will be a chance in a million and how would you know the correct one even if someone DID manage to give it to you. She knows, she can explain it. EVERY answer that anyone else gives you will either worry you further [that won't help] or put you mind at ease [eventually the doubts will creep back in and you'll be back to square one because you're not absolutely sure] She is the only one who can give you the right answer and you'll know it's the right one. So never mind what anyone else thinks, talk to her; I think you'll be surprised when you do finally get the answer, it's unlikely to be anything you expected and you'll feel a thousand times better for knowing the truth, quickly.

I found out I signed up for a dating service before, and I forgot completely about it. I think I signed up for it because I was curious by what kinds of things they said on it. I had no intentions of ever using it as far as I know. I found out I was registered one day when I was going through my e-mail and found e-mails from the web site. Once I found out, I deleted my account. Anyway, perhaps your girlfriend did this as well. Another thing: How do you know your friend is even telling the truth?

You've been dating for a freakin' month. 1) Maybe she doesn't even REMEMBER she's got that profile there. 2) Maybe she just hasn't even thought of taking it down yet (too much fun with you, ya know?) Holy Crap people are "sensitive". Just ask her why it's still up there. Bet it'll be one of the above reasons! ;-) (NOTE: I had a profile on a number of "rendevous" sites, where you filled out a profile, and then searched for what you liked. I NEVER deleted them... Actually, the sites, themselves, went away. WHO CARES!?! I wasn't gonna date anyone from there after I met my wife.)