Can somebody explain why many people on dating sites, actually are emotionally unavailable for a relationship?
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Yanstari
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I don't really KNOW why. But maybe it's because some people who are using the service are only using it because they know these people have tried the "normal" ways of meeting people and have been unsuccessful. They might think it's an easy way to find "easy targets" Sad as that sounds, I have actually heard people say things like "try the dating site, it's a surefire way to get laid..." I think it's kinda disgusting. On the other hand maybe these people are using the site because they don't have TIME to meet people, and therefore, don't really have TIME for a relationship either...
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Perhaps that's why they are single in the first place, and are going to dating sites because they keep striking out in real life but haven't acertained that the problem is them.
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I wouldn't have thought a large percentage were - if I was in that position I'd think of it as them not being emotionally available *to me* , that I wasn't what they were looking for.
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I couldn't tell you! You must just have rotten luck. I've met the last few boyfriends of mine online. Not that I broke up with them over extremely odd reasons by any stretch of the imagination; we're just talking about the few people I've met online and gone out with over the past several years. My fiance and I met online over six years ago :D
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These people are on dating sites looking for people to feed their own selfish needs. They fully well know they have no business dating anybody but they want to get that feeling they had with the person that dumped on them and intern don't give a damn if they dump on you. It's just basic human selfishness. The sad part is doing this sort of thing doesn't help them recover from the hurt. What they need to do is quit the bullshit and give themselves time to heal by taping into other aspects of their life that can give them a sense of power and fulfillment. If they don't have anything going for them then thats the time to find something. Join the gym, learn a new language, start a new business just dont date. I really can't stand these people because they are like a virus that infects the dating scene and unfortunately I have been victim a few times.
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they look for man or women to be in fact they are nice here.
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I don't know about the women, but I think most of the men out there are having trouble these days meeting random chicks out in the real world for casual encounters and try online dating sites because they have heard about other guys' successes.
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They are? I've never ran into that problem. I guess they just want to cheat? or looking for someone before they end their current relationship
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That is why they are on there in the first place many times. They don't have skills for real life responsibility and can live in a dream world of their control and making.
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They are lonely at dead end and try to get out by meeting new people. Most guys online is in a relationship/casual one but not happy. In reality they can't change things and internet is the only place they can reach out to others
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