Does it bother you when your bf told you he slept on the same bed (ur bed too) with his platonic fren which you dont know who she is while visiting when you were away..and he said no sex related.. Does is bother you? Shall you forgive & forget?
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YES bothered!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and NO forget!!!!!!!!!
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Well call me paranoid- but i would be deeply annoyed about this... There may well be nothing to worry about. But was there no where else to sleep in the whole house except for in your and your boyfriends bed. Ask him how he would feel if another man slept in your bed in his place- even if nothing happened?
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Obviously I would be annoyed by it. Any normal girl would. HELLO! It's your bed. He DISRESPECTED you by inviting some other girl to sleep in it, whether they had sex or not. That is wrong on SO many levels. That's even worse than if it was his own bed at his own house.
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Of course it would bother me. Why not sleep on the couch? Why would someone who cares for you open himself up to any situation like that? Even IF nothing happens you still have that image in your head. Forgive? The question I would be asking myself is what kind of person am I sleeping next to? Not whether or not to forgive or to forget.
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hell yeah and I would like to hihglight one thing... THRE WAS SEX INVONVED, first of all why did he have to sleep with her while you where gone... its almost imposible not to happen anything when people from opposite sex sleep by each other. SERIOUSLY think hard about this and instead of thinking as his girlfriend think as the girl he slept with... You'll know what I mean
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Hmmmm? Why does he need a bed warmer while your gone? Honey, men do not go popping "platonic" friends in their beds.
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