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Jen-Jen
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If I get that "Am I being too intense?" feeling, then I back off a bit. The feeling itself is what tips me off, in other words. Too much pressure (or whatever you call it) can kill a prospective relationship, but you probably know that already, huh?
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If one gives the other one the opportunity to call, rather than calling them all the time, one will find out if they want to have contact or not!
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Just that you are asking this question makes me think you have an intuitive inkling that you are... remember what smothering does...it puts out the fire...it zaps the life force...
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I would ask myself how I would feel in their position. I cannot stand that "smothered" feeling and I require some room to move and breathe..so I certainly would not inflict it on anyone else. There is nothing much worse than having someone's "head up your a**" all the time.
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I call my mother every few days. I don't call anyone on a regular basis but my husband on my way home from work. If you looked at my cell phone activity, you would know I was not a big phone talker.
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Yes you just 'know'! at least I'd always hope I wouldn't be clueless to the fact !
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the conversations are short. and the person you are calling cuts the conversation short by saying they have to go.
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When he or she starts wanting space.
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They will start to avoid you.
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You need to analyze your behavior, when contact is too frequent back out we all need our space. Allow the other person to take the initiative and call you, count how many times you have called if it is beginning to be too much stop it and let the other person remember he has to call you too. You know when you are smothering someone from the way they answer you if they are sort of cold and distant or seem distracted, this means back out. Best regards.
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probably when they stop calling you or if they tell you theyre too busy
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