Is it right for my fiance to still talk to his ex girlfriend, and should he have her cell number and work number stored on his cell phone?

Ima have to go with a yes. Some people like to keep in contact with past relationships it's normal. On the other hand if this guy is actually two timin on yo ass then no its not right. Can't say for sure, depends on the person's morals. If you feel that you know him well enough and you have a good level of trust for each other then you should have nothing to worry about. No one can answer this question but you, in the end. It's up to you to decide how much you trust him (not how much you LOVE him, love can be used in very deceptive ways) So make the decision for yourself, do you believe that he simply wants to stay in touch, or maybe just likes having her number handy? Or do you believe this could lead to bad things? Some advice would be to confront him, tell him how you feel (i do not know to which side you sway) and work things out. Relationships need communication, you should feel comfortable talking about any and all things with your fiance as this will help keep your relationship in good spirits. Best of luck.

I hate admiting it but im insecure in that department, so no no no no no no no no! it would make me uncomfortable and then i would play the little game well if you talk to your ex ill talk to mine :) wouldnt be good for our relationship

tbh no.Sorry but we are all humans and fact remains keep touch with past relationships only end in hurt.
I am pretty sure he would not like it if u did same.
Me and my fiancee had a similar thing.
At first i did not mine but then i one day asked her what he said on his last call.
it was like "i changed" "is there hope for me "etc.
Now clearly she see him as a friend who she knew 3 years before me and shared a lot of time with.Yet he does not.
It bothered me and i mentioned it.She came out with something like "but we are just friends and its totally harmless"
So i said next week off to stripper joints with a few guys ,will only be back in morning.She went mad and i reminded her that "its harmless ,only goign out with friends"
She promptly deleted his numbers and asked not to call again.
The end.
You need to do something similar,because while it may seems harmless there no reason for it to be there in first place because there always a risk of it been harmful.
A bad arguement for instance could turn an emotional person to the waiting hands of a ex who has "always been there for them".

Your fiance says he love you than trust him until.....
I would not worry about it or let it hurt my relationship with the
man I love. I have the same problem
and husband and I are stilled
together and happy. He shows
no sign of "can't be trusted."
So what they are friends......we are more!

I would also probably be jealous of that, but what is his reason for still talking to her? Obviously, they broke up for a reason. You should let him know that you don't approve and maybe you can come to some sort of agreement.

Thats is wrong. What is there to talk about. How much they miss each other. Or how good the sex was. Or how lame you are and how much he misses her. Bottom line, he's disrespecting you and you need to put your foot down.

ya,i see nothing wrong with him having her number on his phone,ie if he heart is clean and he really loves you.

As you are a couple you need to ask him serious questions about his feelings for his ex girlfriend.

Why not? It seems like this has nothing to do with him and EVERYTHING to do with you... It's "right" for him. If it's "wrong" for you then find another fiance.

No. I might be old-fashioned about this type of thing but I think it's disrespectful for any person to have contact with an ex, unless they have to talk to them regarding children in common. That is the only reason good enough, in my mind, for them to ever talk. Other than that, they should never speak to each other or see each other unelss they happen to see each other in a crowd while passing each other!

Well my husband actually still talks to his ex-finance. Honestly it drives me crazy for the fact of knowing that he had an intimate relationship just as the one that him and I are in and he still talks to her. She calls him like every month to ask how is he doing when she was the one who broke up with him. I think its disrepectful if I say I don't like when you speak to this person and yet you do. I just don't think that her intentions are right. If she broke it off and push him out of her life why should she want anything to with him. I have tried to accept it many times but it never works out because the thought is still there.

dont worry if he really love you is not important if he has his ex girlfriend namber and he tok with them,, you se u say EX means nothing important,jut thing one things,HE LEAVE ALL HIS G.F. AND IN THE END HE IS WITH YOU HE IS YOUR FIANCE,thet stupet girl arent important beliv me i tok like this from my experienc, I had same problem i had used to chek my fiance mobile everY time and deleted all his namber friend but in the end i so he love me and i dont need to chek his phon and to make my self nervous,,,,sorry for my poor english

Of course - just because they are not dating dosn't mean they can't still be friends.

I've been married for years - and I'm still close friends with 2 of my former girlfriends...a friend is a friend afterall.

I think if he ran into her somewhere it would be okay to say hi and/or have a short converation. Although I might still be jealous. But he should not have her number stored in his phone. If he is over her he needs to delete her.

I would definatnley wonder why he was still talking to her however instead of assuming that there is something going on between them I would just ask him " I was just curious is there any reason that you still keep in contact with her?" That way your asking and not assuming and if he's smart he'll realize that its not something that you are completley comfortable with because I can guarentee he'd be upset if you were still talking to your ex unless it was business related and even then it would be something he probably wouldn't like. I agree with Jenniferprofits comment that there is obviously a reason that they broke up however its still concerning to you and if you are going to be married you need to have trust and understanding and if he gets upset with you then maybe your concerns are justified. Good luck

Hell no. As a guy, I would and could never do that to my woman. That is completely disrespectful. I wouldn't say it was cheating, but damn you're talking about an ex that he used to have sex with, and do nasty things with. What is there to talk about with an ex. How much they miss each other? Please. Put your foot down on that one.