If you love someone, no matter how much they hurt you would you still stay? Honest answer pls.
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nalini
ANSWERS: 5
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No,I wouldnt.Someone who hurts me that much,doesnt deserve my love.
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About 10 years ago had I seen this question my answer would have been yes because back at that time I felt better to have someone even if I was miserable with them than to be alone. Now I can honestly say no way would I stay with someone who hurt me all the time. It's not worth it. Being alone is not all that great but it's a hell of alot better than being with someone who constantly hurts you.
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Funny thing about love is, no matter how many people you ask to define it, is how many meanings you will get. I rather like my parents definition the most. So it is how I myself feel it should be. Love is the only emotion that has to be shared. It has to be a give and take on equal terms to be true. Anything less is not love. To answer your question. I could not in all honesty feel love exist in the bond with someone who wanted to hurt me. Although I may have the greatest feelings for them, if I could not get the same in return then real love just isn't present. I would not stay.
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Well thats a hard question to answer since I dont know anything about you two. However if the love is as intense and the hurt then you might need to try and work on things. Dont throw your love away. Talk about things. Sometime people hurt one another not intentionally and sometimes without even realizing. The most important thing in a relationship is communication. Try hard (it takes two willingly) and work on the things that are weak in the relationship. I promise if you both want it it will come, just not over night. I have been there done that and things are just wonderful between us. If you need someone to talk to dont hesitate to contact me. jljsif0126@hotmail.com
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If the person is intentionally hurting me, and refuses to stop then I would leave. If they are accidentally hurting me and refuse to stop, then I would leave. If the hurt is only in my attitude and perception, and I cannot change that, whilst around them, I would leave.
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