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  • Ask him.
  • I passed out two weeks ago and was alone with my daughter at the time. I called him immediately to come over because i was upset and his response was to sit down and i would be ok. He then went to work out and showed up 3 hours later, even though i was crying and told him i needed him. Working out was more important than his girlfriend whom he claims to love and wants to spend the rest of his life with. Why wasn't he there for me? I asked him but he just says he is done talking about it and avoids the situation. Then last night i was traveling late at night and he knew I was tired but when i called him and asked him to please talk to me for a little while to help keep me awake he told me he had a bad headache and needed to eat and that he would call me back after he ate. So 45 minutes passed and i had not heard from him. I called him and asked if he was done eating and he told me that he was still waiting on his food. So why didn't he call me back when he knew that I needed him??? I don't want to seem like i am a needy girlfriend because i'm not, but two times i really needed him and something else was more important. He seemed so irritated that he was having to talk to me. I am so confused lately. One night he is very loving and affectionate the next he is cold and distant. He doesn't make time for me like he used to. Do you think this is a lost cause???
  • Ever heard the song "in the heat of the moment"? pretty well describes your situation. he wants you there, when he wants you there, not when you need him. sounds like a con artist scam. Bottom line, when he wants a roll in the hay, he expects you to obey. anything else, for your needs, is trivial. Again, its all about me..........

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