ANSWERS: 6
  • I'm assuming the wife's living with him in this 'far away' home? Do you mean rest of *his* family? Or *your* family? I'd think it's probably a good idea to be farther away. Especially if either family is particulary overbearing. Or gossipy.
  • I think he is very wise indeed. And so are they for realising it. Escape is vital.
  • I would probably just go with him.
  • Is this a young marriage? Did you guys move because of him getting a job somewhere else? I would be offended if she had no reason to think this otherwise. Sounds to me like she misses you, and is blaming him for that - which isn't fair. Have you talked to your mom about this? Is your mom a "meddler"? I'd not really bring it up unless she does, and tell her what the reasons are for why you did move. Otherwise, technically - it's not really any of her business.
  • I would think my mother was sad because you wouldn't be close. It's jealousy because someone else has her baby. It's normal. The only difference between you and many other people is that you actually heard it. Love your husband and enjoy being with him. Be nice to your mom and call her often. Don't put yourself in the middle.
  • I would think she's being petty, oversensitive, and narcissistic. If she suspects others of pulling away from her, then she must know that she's a b1tch. I would not mention overhearing her remarks, but if she confronts you, just explain why the new place is a good match for you and your husband's needs. Kids move away; that's a fact of life. The mom needs to get over herself.

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