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by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on September 28th, 2009
Where are you from Afganistan? She can't talk to someone? Do her a huge favor and get this annulled you don't deserve to be married to anyone.
by Joe-Speedy on August 26th, 2006
There is not reason to get excited here. She married you. Let the past be the past and get on with life.
by Piratebooty on September 28th, 2009
Well, first of all..was she just talking to a guy friend? Was she talking about meeting them, having sex etc..?? If she was talking crap about hooking up, then all you can do is talk to her about this more and sort things out. You are now married, so don't let something small ruin a good marriage.
by Anonymous on September 28th, 2009
If she wasnt when you asked her, I think you are blowing this out of porportion
by Sandman on September 28th, 2009
"Seeing," "talking to" and "serious" are all relative terms.
I talk to dozens of people, male and female, every week. I don't marry them.
I go out now and then with both men and women, but I don't sleep with them.
You're working yourself up over nothing.
Let it rest.
by MasterS on September 28th, 2009
Good lord let it go, your married arent you, she may have lied to you, but i believe she is telling you what she believes to be the truth.
Unless shes messing around on you right now and lying to you, you should let this go, judge her on her current actions not the past.
by Ganja Girl on September 28th, 2009
shes your wife rite? this was three weeks prior and not proceeding? she married the man she wanted to, pal..appreciate it.
by john pennington on September 28th, 2009
She could have a point about you being serious.
Maybe it was a good thing she did this in order to get it out of her system, before you married her.
Fate has a strange way of acting sometimes and just maybe this was meant to be.
I would not overreact to this, unless something else pops up.
After all, she did marry you and not the other person.
by katydid15 on September 28th, 2009
Please clear something up for me. Does "talking" have some other meaning in this question? If not, what exactly are you concerned about??
by Alice on September 28th, 2009
Wow you two were about to get married...how much more serious can you be. Sorry that you had to discover this but if you two are happy then let it go and move forward. It could have been cold feet on her behalf that's all.
by shady on September 28th, 2009
Let it go man. She picked you
by themyelinsheath on September 19th, 2009
I'll bet she never thought she'd be married to a Warden.
by Ocean Flower on September 19th, 2009
Geez...you sound a little insecure...is she with that person now??..or with you??...past is past...just love her and everything will be beautiful...and if not...then shes not for you...
by Chris E on September 19th, 2009
First of all you are ready married and you two love each other I would not worry about it. Marriage is about trust and love. Trust her that she is there for you and you there for her. Leave the past in the past.
by sonuzz on October 15th, 2006
first of all see that your wife loves u and u both are happy in your married life if this is then forget about here past injoy in the present and futurelife because what ever is there in here past u can't change it and u are not sure that she was having some past or not and if u think somethink negatively it will make some difference in your relation ship then u will be suffering from mentally disturbed no cocentration ext.always remember that relationship is like thread once the thread is broken and u try to joint it there is a nought in the thread.
so simply i will suggest u that be relax see the picture properly forget about past and be in future she married with u because she wants to marrie with u she likes u if there was anybudy elese in here live she never marries with u.
by Glenn Blaylock on August 26th, 2006
Do you have reason to believe that she has continued the relationship with the other guy? Do you want your marriage to survive? If your answers are No and Yes respectively, then don't ever mention this again to anyone. As Joe-Speedy wrote, she married you. You got the girl. If you keep bring this up, it is going to drive a wedge between the two of you that will eventually tear you marriage apart. So, let it go.
by ladyshakespeare on September 19th, 2009
she was TALKING to someone? I talk to people everyday. Whats the problem?
by Rollie on September 28th, 2009
Drop it. You are making yourself miserable and probably your wife also.
by Prunesquallor on September 28th, 2009
Talking to someone? Can't she talk to whomever she likes?
by fly32407 on February 3rd, 2010
you could...
1. ask her about it, everything about it, go through it all, ask who the person was and everything that happened, let her know how serious you were and then put it to rest.
2. ask "are you still talking" and if she says no, then put it to rest and don't bring it up again. forgive her.
or
3. make a big deal out of it and lose her...ur choice.
by - MojoThunder - on September 28th, 2009
that's funny ... i asked a similar question a few months ago, except i was the guy she was banging :)
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I think he means it as in talking shit..
by Piratebooty on September 28th, 2009
I sure hope so, but it don't sound that way to me. Anyway, who marries someone that you are still describing that way as if she is a total stranger you just met?
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on September 28th, 2009
I don't see it that way. it is almost as if he is thinking she is cheating and being modest about the whole thing. Usually to suspect someone, something is going on.
by Piratebooty on September 28th, 2009
Well someone better track him down and ask him. Might be tough though because he left two years ago;)
by gtravels loves her life penguin on September 28th, 2009
LOL. You are kidding!!! Why is this question current then? He probably killed her by now.
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on September 28th, 2009
LMAO! She left with the guy she was talking to!People can go and pick up on questions from yrs ago. I have almost wanted to myself, but did not want to confuse anyone..lol
by Piratebooty on September 28th, 2009
Look I am still here and I have some good questions just rotting in my personal closet. Have at it.
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on September 28th, 2009
Sorry ladies. Just teasing. I always picture people talking to themselves on questions like this but sometimes there is information that can be added that would be relevant to anyone today;)
by gtravels loves her life penguin on September 28th, 2009
Don't be sorry. I'm glad you pointed it out. That is hilarious.
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on September 28th, 2009
I'm sure he'll be back any minute;)
by gtravels loves her life penguin on September 28th, 2009
I hope so, I want to see if he is still with his wife..LOL
by Piratebooty on September 28th, 2009
What is going on? I can't access my answer page.
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on September 28th, 2009
I could not either. I was not even getting my answers or anything.
by Piratebooty on September 29th, 2009
Hooray, it's back and working. That was a hassle.
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on September 29th, 2009
It was. I was almost tempted to ask why I was not seeing any comments to my questions or comments. I was beginning to think they did not want me here..LOL
by Piratebooty on September 29th, 2009
I know, it looked like a new way to penalize someone. I wrote them immediately on feedback and asked what's up. So did other people. You have to do that or they don't know sometimes there is a problem. So do it if you ever have one.
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on September 30th, 2009
I will. Thanks :)
by Piratebooty on September 30th, 2009
Aaaarrrrrgghhh!
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on September 30th, 2009
arrren't we a bit silly? Shall I make a wicked wench walk the plank?lol
by Piratebooty on October 1st, 2009
Pirates and people who are interested in them are a lot of fun to me! Stay swashbucking forever.
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on October 1st, 2009
I agree! Saying in y family is Blackbeard is one of my ancestors. My mother grew up down in the Eastern part of NC, near the NC coast. Mom always joked with me and said that is where I get my temper from..lol
by Piratebooty on October 1st, 2009
Very very very intersting great great x 10 grandaughter of Blackbeard. I would milk that one to death if it was me!!! (I can relate to the temper thing too)
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on October 1st, 2009
HAHA! My grandmother's cousin was a teachy (not sure if I spelled it correctly). Come to find out it derived from Teach, which was his name, Edward Teach. He had a home in Bath NC and married a woman from there, whose father was a county planter I believe. It is pretty cool. If I had the resources, I would do more research to find out for sure.
by Piratebooty on October 2nd, 2009
Sorry, it was my great grandmother that was a teachy..
by Piratebooty on October 2nd, 2009
Pirate, anytime you want to tell me about this, I am all ears. I think its really interesting. I love Pirate lore and I love Gypsy lore.
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on October 2nd, 2009
Thanks:) Same to you!
by Piratebooty on October 2nd, 2009