If a boy gives me a lot of attention, I feel like he is isn't giving me room to breathe. Does that make me weird? Does that mean I don't love the guy? Is it true what they're saying? I'm pretty sure it doesn't and isn't, but I'm just making sure.
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What you're complaining about is probably "clinging" -- yes, it's nice to have attention, but you probably sense that he's not quite comfortable with himself, and is somehow seeking validation from you. That's going to make most people uncomfortable. It doesn't mean you don't love him... if this guess is correct it means he needs to do some growing up, and you need to learn how to express what it is about this that bothers you. So I suggest getting comfortable with the phrase "you're being clingy, it bothers me".
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Not giving you room to breathe seems more than alot of attention....This should'nt be synonomous with love. You seem to be on the right track...follow your instincts.
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No. No. More info required. Okay.
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When you say a boy gives you attention it makes me ask how old you are? Boy's that like to be in your space all the time are normally insecure and they just want to be around you to say this is my girl. It doesn't make you weird or mean you don't love them. There is nothing at all wrong with wanting and having your own space. Just tell the fella that you need your space so he doesn't think therre's something wrong with him.
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How can you love someone that is clingy and doesn't give you room to breathe.
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Yup, your weird allright.
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