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by Anonymous on April 24th, 2008

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Im very worried about my sex life with my current boyfriend. i lost my viginity to him and i havent had an orgasm with him yet even though he has. i really wanted my first time to be amazing. how can i get him to give me an orgasm?

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  • by Thinker on July 20th, 2008

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    90% of women do not climax during intercourse...you are not abnormal at all. This is why guys need to learn very well how to stemulate a woman with lots of foreplay and make her climax before intercouse. Also he should lick and kiss your neck and up and down your spine from your neck to your butt. Guys especially younger ones do not understand how important foreplay is to a gal. Too often he thinks if he gets off she should be satisfied...it just don't happen that way!

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  • by Ayla01 on May 8th, 2008

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    truth be told, some woman cant orgasm through sex. I think i was on partner number 6 or 7 before i finally found a guy who could get my rocks off. Can you orgasm by double clicking the mouse yourself? If you can, then just pay attention to what you're doing (ie do you like up and down or circles)and then try mimic it during sex.

    And no one ever tells you, whilst pumping is fun and feels good, its really the grinding that gets the job done.

    above all. Practice Practice Practice.

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  • by GreenFreak on April 25th, 2008

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    I'm no expert here (had some similar problems with my ex ><, who is so far the only woman I've had sex with), but if I should give you three good words of advice, it would be foreplay, foreplay and foreplay!

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  • by OlySiren on April 24th, 2008

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    I believe it is something along the lines of 80% of women or more that can climax (have an orgasm) only through clitoral stimulation. Don't fret, it will happen naturally as agonizing as it may be. Different positions can assist in helping it along (woman on top) so maybe suggesting that in bed can work for you. Good luck!

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  • by Piggle on April 24th, 2008

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    The first time is rarely amazing - you either have waited so long that you've built it up in your mind to be so utterly special that it would be impossible to live up to. Or it's clumsy fumbling and nothing to write home about.

    When we worry about things we often prevent them from happening - don't "expect" an orgasm every time and don't worry about not having one; relax and it will happen. So long as you are happy, relaxed and enjoying making love with your boyfriend you have nothing to worry about in that department.

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  • by Anonymous on May 8th, 2008

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    Breath deeply. . .

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  • by Sexyrabbit on April 24th, 2008

    Sexyrabbit

    if that is all you got to worry about then i would have to say life is great..don't worry it will come natural

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  • by Masculinist on April 25th, 2008

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    Woman on top gives a better chance of attenting orgasm, trust me, I've blown their minds off!

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  • by Anonymous on May 7th, 2008

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    He has to rub or lick your clitoris...

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  • by -_You Can Leave Your Hat On....- on May 8th, 2008

    -_You Can Leave Your Hat On....-

    get some 'toys' from Anne Summers Shop

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  • by wthing8 on July 20th, 2008

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    Get a new boyfriend

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