ANSWERS: 12
  • If you are still unsure, or undecided ... DON'T move (or move-in) with him yet! Wait until you are SURE! If he loves you, or really cares about you, he will understand, and not try to force or pressure you into anything!
  • I don't think these are under the best of circumstances when considering moving in with someone. Date him but the moving part seems waaaaaaaaay to soon......good luck.
  • Why would you move in with someone you "recently" started dating? Why would you consider it if you're still unsure? Why would you let someone back in your life that you don't trust? Don't kid yourself - there's no "i don't know if i can trust him or not" If you're not sure if you can trust him, then you DON'T trust him. Simply put, DO NOT MOVE IN. I would personally recommend moving on altogether. You HAVE to ask yourself, what's his hurry? Sounds to me like he might NEED a roommate and you're a viable solution. Not a good situation at all.
  • Trust doesn't just grow on trees, and you can't force it. If you move in together now it would probably only get worse. If you are having doubts that is a pretty good sign that you guys are not ready. Good luck:)
  • When in doubt ... don't.
  • I personally wouldn't do it. You have to listen to what your heart tells you to do.
  • if you cant trust him moving in aint a very good idea right now you should keep datin to see if a trust will grow back.
  • do you KNOW you WILL recover from the injury... if not then do not just into commitments and living together is a commitment. if you think you will never fully recover then it is time to close the door and start looking elsewhere. if he hurt you by cheating you will never get rid of the scars and need to start fresh
  • leave it for now and take it slow.. if there are doubts then sort them out before making any commitments
  • Wait until you have a strong peace about it.
  • For godsake do not move in with him at this stage. Best friends do not hurt one another and if he has hurt you then the trust has been broken. Moving in with him will not suddenly make everything OK, it will not instantly repair or restore the trust between you, it will not make all the hurt vanish overnight. What it will do, is make you ever more vulnerable, even more so than you are now. You let him back into your life to see if things would work but as of yet, there has not been enough time to know the answer. Tell him no. If he loves you he will understand and wait however long it takes for a different answer.
  • Tell him that you need time for thinking. In that case you don't refuse him and still have hope to be with him. Bobbie

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