ANSWERS: 3
  • Up front, you may have to give extra concessions to them, for them to agree. i'm not saying give them the farm, but at least be fair and equal. Do not be greedy. this may be the reason you are in this situation. What use to be "ours", is now "mine". divorces happen everyday and yours is no exception. maybe this is why so many couples, before marrying today, have prenup agreements. its all in black and white, if it does not work out. You wined and dined this person, before the marriage. you are again going to have wine and dine this person, if you want your spouse to agree on a divorce settlement. Only you two, can work this out......
  • This is usually what you are paying your lawyer to do - they get the business taken care of without all the emotional baggage left from the marriage. If the lawyers cannot come to an agreement, try mediation - they are unbiased and make sure that nobody gets taken to the cleaners, while still ensuring that everybody's rights under the law are respected. -- Well, you have a problem if you each have your own mediator - you are supposed to have only one, and that is one that you both agree to have. If you each have one, then you still have the problem of bias.
  • You unfortunately can't. But you can try to go through a mediator.

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