If you knew for a fact that you could get away with it would you cheat on your spouse or significant other?
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ANSWERS: 100
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No way! If you truly love someone, you wouldn't want anyone else.
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Heck no. Why would I even want to do that? Wouldn't that defeat the whole purpose of having a spouse or significant other? If I am with someone I am committed to them.. so NO! =)
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I take my marriage vows very seriously. Getting away with something does not even enter the question for me. I decided long before I got married that I would be exclusively hers.
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No! That would just be mean on them!
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Absolutely not. I chose to commit myself exclusively to my wife when we got married. I don't refrain from cheating out of a fear of getting caught, but rather because I love her (even on days when I'm not happy with her for some reason...).
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no way.i found the love of my life we have been together for 4 yr's i could never find another guy like him.i love him with all my heart and that would be mean to do that to anyone.
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Absolutely not. My significant other (not yet a spouse) is everything that I need, why would I look elsewhere?
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No! Even if I never got caught, I would still know and I could'nt live with doing that to the man I love.
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---nope---
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of course i would! especially if i knew that i could get away with it! it's the perfect crime! wow, a night of hot passion, with someone who isn't my wife - someone different, someone new and exciting, someone who might know some different moves? hell yes!
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no
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Please note before you read this that I'm not married or anything. Yet. Not a chance. For several reasons: First, I'd feel freaking terrible all the time. Someone'll notice that eventually, and I'll spill the beans. I'm not good at lying. Second, no one gets away with anything forever. Once your time's up here, you get to deal with the eternal ramifications of your actions (and the mindset with which you did it).
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No. Even if your spouse doesn't find out, you never actually get away with it. You have cheated YOURSELF.
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No. Because i would not only be cheating on her...i would be cheating on myself as well.
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No. I would sooner kill myself, and I don't take that phrase likely.
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No I would'nt!
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At the present I don't have a significant other, but when I did, I never developed strong feelings for another. I never allowed such thoughts to enter my mind. To me cheating is a sign of self disreapect and weakness. I may not get caught but I would know and I would hate myself. So my answer is no.
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No. 'Don't actually have a significant other, but regardless, if I did and I met someone else I had stronger feelings for I wouldn't cheat on them, because they're still my significant other ; P
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no - I would never be able to live with the guilt
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No I would not. Getting away with it or not it is still against everything I believe in.
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Is it considered cheating if you have her permission? With her permission it removes any guilt or marital strife. In that case, then yes!
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No cause even if i get away with it i would know and i wouldn't be able to live with that.
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No, because it would feel horrible from the start. I can't even imagine it.
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No! My SO deserves to feel secure in our relationship. My cheating would compromise that feeling of safety. Even if the cheating were never discovered, I would know. It would eat away at me and cause problems that would surely affect us both.
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No because the guilt would kill me I think so I would end up telling on myself.
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No because the guilt would kill me I think so I would end up telling on myself.
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No, the guilt and shame would get to the point where I would have to go with ritual suicide with a samurai sword lol.
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Nope!!! If I felt the need to even go out and cheat, then I would not respect my relationship.It would mean that I am unhappy in it so If thats the case, I would simply tell my significant other that I am not happy, move on and find someone else. The pain of being cheated on is real and very painful and I have been cheated on...I don't wish that pain upon my worst enemy!!!
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No! I can barely talk to my ex boyfriend without feeling guilty and disloyal to my current boyfriend.
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No..I've done that to my ex- and it didn't make me feel good even though I got away with it. Now, I couldn't bring myself to cheat on my boyfriend. All that I dream in a man, he has it. What more can I ask for? Ü
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Nah, I don't have any desire to go outside of my relationship. My hubby fulfills all my needs ;)
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Well if i was Over and i mean way over the age of 16 and had a significant other no i would not
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Have you been watching that new game show? First off, God sees everything and he would know I was a wicked, selfish adulterer. Secondly, I would know what I was guilty of and it would eat my insides up. Third, who the hell would have me, I am a wreck.
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NO. I could never live with myself if I did that. It wouldn't matter if I got caught. I would probably end up telling him eventually anyway because I would go nuts.
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No. Even though I wouldn't get caught, I would still know what I had done. I have to live with myself.
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No, because even if no one ever found out, I would know and that knowledge would kill me. I speak from experience.
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Not really no, I mean i am male, and I did say most do have trouble resisting, but really its all up to you and I don't see the point, whats the point in being in a relationship if you're just going to stuff it up. If you want to cheat or sleep with someone then do the right thing and end the relationship you're in.
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Nah, I'd feel wayy too guilty and end up confessing to it anyway.
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No I would not! I wouldn't want to live my life with something like that on my head .
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every chance i get and lie about it too. better that than be called a looser.
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No, cheating is sick. Anyone who answers yes needs shock thearpy.
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Definitely not. If my current relationship was on the downslide enough for me to consider someone else, I would end it long before I'd ever act on a temptation. I wouldn't want it done to me, that's for sure....ever heard the saying "If he cheats WITH you, he'll cheat ON you?" That pretty much sums it up. Wouldh't want to be on either side of that fence!
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No. If one is so unhappy in a relationship to have the desire to go outside of it, then one should get out of that relationship before entering another one. And trust me when I tell you that even if one doesn't get caught right away, they will eventually. Something like that always comes out!
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Never.
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nope. not even close. I am really happy with the one i am with so it wouldn't make sense to me
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Never...I couldn't live with myself !
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Never I have been on the other end of that situation and it was not a very pleasant feeling to find out someone who claimed to love me and made sacred vows to be only mine for life cheated on me. Knowing from experience what it feels like to be cheated on why would I want to do that to someone else. There is no such thing as never finding out. Either you will slip up at some point in time and get caught with your pants down or the guilt of what you have done will catch up to you and you will not be able to handle it and will come clean sooner or later. If I were with someone and werethat unhappy with them to even consider cheating I would leave before it got to the point of cheating.
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No way, with all the diseases and stuff going around, why subject myself or my partner to the possibility of that?
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Never...end of story.
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In my 20's for sure but not now.
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Of course. Why not do it if you can get away with it? Hell, being with one person CAN get boring. Cheating now-and-then will surely spice things up!
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No way, I have more respect for the men I date as well as myself....
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I couldn't find anyone better than her for me to cheat with. So no.
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She does not deserve that from me, she is wonderful and I would NOT cheat on her :o)
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Ewww, no. My s/o is way too hot. I know i'll never get better lovin' than him so what the heck would be the point???? *shivers* it actually would gross me out to be with someone else...
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no. that makes you even more deceitful and wrong. plus the guilt would be enough for me to consider it "not getting away with it." what kind of person would that make me? regardless of whether or not my spouse knew?
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No because i know he wouldnt do that to me so i certainly wouldnt do that to him.
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No i love him too much and the guilt would just consume me.
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No, I would know and that would be enough to damage the relationship in the long run.
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No. It's not about him finding out, but that I would know. It would eat away at me.
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Nope.Because God and I would know and I don't think I could live with deceiving my spouse if I had one when God knows what I did.
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http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/564414 here is a whole mess of answers including my own
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No. I love him too much to do that.
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I'm divorced but when I was married, I'd never cheat. My ex husband was the best, why would I go elsewhere
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No I wouldn't and there is a reason behind it a while back i cheated on my boyfriend of two years. I had to tell him because i couldn't let that come between our relationship and he would have never found out if i hadn't told him. I have other opportunities since but i refuse to let that happen again and to this day he and i are still dealing with the repercussions of my actions.
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No. Not getting caught wouldn't be a factor. I wouldn't cheat because cheating sows the seeds of destruction in a relationship, even if my partner never finds out. I would know and that's enough.
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Absolutely, NO WAY! I have way too much respect and love for my boyfriend.
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No, because I would know. And a person's character is determined by what one does when nobody is looking.
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Never because I "would" know. No sex in this earth is worth that.
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If i love him, I don't cheat on him.
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Nope... I don't want the guilt. (Doesn't mean I can't/don't look and maybe fantacize! LOL)
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If you love your partner the guilt would haunt you, Especially when hes always nice and loving to you, and great to be around. if they havent cheated on you, and they love you dearly, then dont bother cheating. this will effect your relationship, and your behaviour will change, which is inevitable. If however, it is the complete opposite, then go for it, as long as it wont make you feel guilty. But saying that you have to think about whther the person you have the affair with is worth loosing your partner, and if that is the case, then just tell the partner, before any sexualy contact with the other, that way you will deal with something that is more deeper than that, that your relationship with your partner is not worth kepping any longer as you may have fallen out of love, or your feelings have changed, or your relationship has fizzled out. Saying all that, one never really realises what they've got, until its gone and that is a fact...
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Why cheat in the first place? What is the prize? Homelessness, heartache just to mention a few 'small' items that go along with cheating. If I ever cheated on my partner - I'd do it him by having him put a wig on and talking with an accent - :)
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I've already cheated using the tips I found on http://www.affairtips.com Is it wrong? Yes. Do you know my situation before you judge? No. Do you know what it's like to be beaten within an inch of your life in front of your children but can't leave? No. I've cheating but it makes me happy. IN my life, I'll take happy any way I can get it.
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NO! it takes a lot to build up trust and i feel good being trusted... i think if your relationship ist working then the 2 should really analyze why and work o it if thats what they want to do so there is no need to cheat. I believe in monogamous(sorry if i butchered the spelling) relationships so persoally... no i wouldnt besides my conscious would really get to me
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Nope, and i never would be caught cause I'm in a long-distance relationship.
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No way I would never do that to my husband..Plus no man can satisfy me as much as he can.
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nope!! cheating is wrong weather any1 knows or not cheating is also pointless!
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No, "I" would know and in my heart I couldn't bear the pain of having done that to my husband. I don't do guilt very well. It just gnaws at me and kills me.
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No I would not, because its wrong and I would not want my man to cheat on me.
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nope.
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Nope. My conscience would eventually get the best of me.
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Get married, have a child then have the well dry up for 10 years. My convictions are silently saying No, but my manhood is screaming 'OHHHHH Hell YES' Hope none of you all ever have to go through it!!!
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no its not my style - i try to treat others how i would like to be treated etc? boring but true
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Not with this woman I got. Not even in the perfect world.
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No.
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NO!
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No,cause whats done in the dark shall come to light...
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No, because while I might not get caught, I would know and the guilt would be worse than being found out.
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In a word No and I would not expect her too either if the shoe was on the other foot.
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Not a chance. I've found the perfect woman for me and I am totally happy and content with her. I'd feel like a slimebag if I ever cheated on her. I don't think I could forgive myself.
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No, I would hope that the guilt would get to most people whether or not they ever get caught. And why would I want to be with someone that i didn't even think was worth being faithful to? That would make no sense. And it's a matter of respect. I have respect for my b/f & hope that he has the same respect for me.
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No, I wouldn't!
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No.
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Absolutely not.
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No, ive had it done to me in the past, and its a horrible thing to happen to anyone. I would never hurt anyone by doing that.
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Nope. I don't cheat on anybody.
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No. Regardless of what the status is between us I would have to know what I've done and that in itself would be punishment enough.
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Most likely not.
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