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by live laugh love on April 9th, 2008

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Have you ever loved someone that has hurt you every way possible, and even if your not with them anymore, you still cry about how bad they hurt you and you dont understand why you still love that person when you really want to not miss that person?

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  • by jordan davidson on May 25th, 2009

    jordan davidson

    The problem is u girls. want to go out with the alpha males, the really popular guys and the best looking guys that every girl find desirable. so being his girlfriend he wont care, he has the pick of any girl there are gonna choose the best one. But yu dont think about the average guys, that maybe aren't as good looking or as popular, who would do anything to go out with a girl like you. these type of guys will never hurt yu. How bad do u think these guys feel when yous don't want to go out with them and they dont get the chance to be hurt.

    If u go out with that type of guy, what do u expect.

    And to answer your question, i have never been hurt with someone or haven't had the chance to get hurt by someone lol.

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  • by suzycue on May 18th, 2009

    suzycue

    That's not love, m'dear. That's low self esteem. That is bordering on martyrdom. People don't hurt the ones they love....let him go and get on with it.
    Your past is a guide post...not an anchor.

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  • by Cheery Cherry on April 9th, 2008

    Cheery Cherry

    I haven't felt like that since I was in my late teens. Since then, I have realized that it wasn't love at all.

    Love shouldn't hurt, at least not in every possible way. Maybe it's not the person you love or miss, it's the idea of having someone to accept you or someone to share your life with that you love or miss. The best way to get over the feeling is to let it go and start understanding yourself and building your self-esteem. Understand why you feel you deserve nothing more than someone that hurts you. Understand that right now, you don't need anyone to make yourself feel whole because you are capable of making yourself whole and focus on doing so. Once you start understanding yourself and liking who you are, your relationship with other people will improve and you'll wonder why you settled for less.

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  • by music_is_soul on July 16th, 2009

    music_is_soul

    those are my exact feelings. it's good to know that i'm not alone. (:

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  • by RSean on May 29th, 2009

    RSean

    Absolutely. My ex cheated on me, came back, used me, tried to work things out, told me she wanted me in her life one week and the next she moved a new guy in with her that she dated for a week. and for some stupid reason I still kinda miss what we had. Love sucks.

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  • by maiko16 on May 18th, 2009

    maiko16

    Yeah, I know exactly what that's like. I know I should hate him but I don't. I'm still in love...

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  • by LaceyRae on May 20th, 2010

    LaceyRae

    This person is hurting and you guys are going to talk about whose hot&whose not? Haha wow, very mature. Anyways, everyone has to experience some sort of heart break. It sucks, but for you to keep it together when the rest of the world expects you to fall apart, will make you look so much stronger. Keep your head up!

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  • by Anonymous on April 9th, 2008

    Anonymous

    yes i know what u r feeling try to talk with him about not to hurt u again or leave him and get over he situation

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  • by Alice on August 17th, 2009

    Alice

    Yeah. I have been put through so much and then I blame myself for allowing him to continue to hurt me. He cheated on me so many times and he laughs about it to me and tells me that they were better than me. I have to stand tall because I am pretty and educated and some of these women couldn't compare still he gave them what I felt should have been my time and it still brings tears to my eyes to know I have his child and he has one bor after her yet he doesn't look for our child and see the other on a weekly basis. Oh well time to move forward...

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  • by charlotte5569 on February 23rd, 2010

    charlotte5569

    No because that would mean my brain is overthinking and not attending to what is going on today

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  • by Anonymous on May 18th, 2009

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    Yes, I felt this way a few years ago. My husband of 15 years had an affair with his friends wife. I was devestated. I loved & hated him at the same time. We were still living together, and it didn't get any better. Finally, I moved out. I was scared but I moved. I had to love myself. I stopped hurting as bad, I was at peace. You will get better, and move on with your life. Time heals all wounds...trust. This was about 2 years ago, and now we are actually friends. He also saw me with my new boyfriend a year ago, and that hurt his feeling also :) But, by then I was showing him that I was better. Even when I was sad or depressed, when he picked up the kids, he never knew it. If you ever see that person, please show them that you moved on, or give the appearance that you have. Don't ever let them see you down. This is your STORM, but the sun will shine again! Everyone has a STORM, it what makes us stronger.

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