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  • So basically, he wants the relationship without the title. If you like him, why not run with it. But if you feel that yo may get hurt, it might be time to make his mind up... He cant have his cake and eat it too- especially if it hurts you in the process
  • I would totally STAY AWAY. He is not ready for the relationship...so try not to think of it in those kinda terms. You will just end up gettin hurt in the end.
  • I think he is playing aroung... i would suggest that you have to stay away from him.. maybe he want a relationship with you but without commitment...like an open realtionship... and the rest it's all up to you... Good Luck ;)
  • thats kind of creepy........
  • This is called a Rebound relationship and they rarely end favorably. But if you really like him then talk to him about what your both feeling and find out if your on the same page or not.
  • Help me to understand what "just friends with benefits" means. If you are trying to have a sexual relationship without an emotional one, then you better understand that you cannot have one without the other! Sex and orgasms lead to strong feelings about your partner. That is why God forbid it outside of marriage. From "http://people.howstuffworks.com/love7.htm" In romantic love, when two people have sex, oxytocin is released, which helps bond the relationship. According to researchers at the University of California, San Francisco, the hormone oxytocin has been shown to be "associated with the ability to maintain healthy interpersonal relationships and healthy psychological boundaries with other people." When it is released during orgasm, it begins creating an emotional bond -- the more sex, the greater the bond. Oxytocin is also associated with mother/infant bonding, uterine contractions during labor in childbirth and the "let down" reflex necessary for breastfeeding.
  • Well, he has a relationship. If he has a problem defining it that way, well, so be it, but he is definitely in a relationship. Oh, and so are you.
  • it sounds like he is getting the best of both worlds by getting the benefits but not the commitment. It really depends on what you want becasue if you want more then you are going to end up hurt when he says he doesnt want to commit to you.
  • What help do you need. Sounds you both are getting what you agreed to....if it is you who would like to take it further...you be open and honest...and if he puts you off again, decide whether you are OK with continui9ng on as now...or you break it off because the terms have changed. Either is OK, you know.
  • help you with what? he wants the sex, you give it to him...your phone rings, you answer it...he doesn't want a relationship and you have sex with him anyway and answer the phone...what is not clear to you?

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