Since I'm going to visit my friend in July in the UK, and he gave me oral sex, should I expect to sleep with him? I mean he's my best friend and neither one of us really thought about getting with each other, it just happened.What 2 do?
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berkgrl23
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I wouldn't expect anything. Just wait and see what happens. If you both want to be together, great. If you both realize it was a one time thing, great. If you want it to go further, talk it out with him. He may or may not feel the same as you.
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it all depends on what you want. if you want to have sex with him, and he with you, then my advice would be to discuss it because if he is your best mate, you don't want a sexual relationship to destroy the friendship, which is what can happen sometimes if these things are rushed into. if you both consent, try and make it clear that if the sexual side of things doesnt work out that you can both still be mates. dont go over there expecting to have sex with him, he may not feel the same, or he may. this is something that you just have to play by ear. but be prepared that if a full bliwn relationship results from all this, and it ends bitterly, so could your friendship. decide between you, what is more important and what is worth the risk. if you both feel that you could have a sexual relationship without it affecting your friendship, then why not??!! sex with someone you trust, respect and love in a way can be the most fulfilling sex of all!
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As a best friend, you should be able to talk about it before hand. Figure out how you feel first, and then write of call him/her. I don't think you should ever feel obliged to have sex with someone though. It should be something you want - not something you feel you owe.
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if it was a fluke, guess not. if it was something you both wanna do again, go for it!
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you should not expect anybody and if you do not really want to dont just do it becase HE does! hes your friend and he should respect you enough if you like eachother and you both WANT to and you both know where you stand in the relationships (still friends, partners) then it ok to do so, but not just because he gave you oral sex (which again i hope you wanted)
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If he is your best friend, why arent you asking him?
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Why would anyone be 'expected' to sleep with anyone? In this instance I'd imagine it will sort itself out when you get there..
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You should expect to do what feels right for you. If you want to have sex, you should talk it over first to make sure that you have reached an understanding of how things are going to be first. Friendship involves communication and being honest with each other. If this doesn't happen, you could end up losing the friendship too. You could chalk it up to a one night thing and move on. But don't feel like you "have" to sleep with somebody. That's purely choice.
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My assumption is you are in a diffrent country if you are planning a trip to see said person 6 months in advance. Do what you want to do but dont you think that is rather long distance from where ever you are. Its ok to have friends with benefits but are you ok with it and when you go back home can you leave what happens in the uk there. Weight everything heavily before you decide to have sex with him.
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