Yes it was.

Well... In no way is it asking for peace and trust...

Yep, trouble and hurt for everyone.

well depends... most of the times, it should not be worth it...

I would say so. :)

Yes. Take it from one who learned from the experience.

More like begging for it.

Asking? More like "demanding" trouble. Respect the boundaries...

Why would you even go there? Yes, it's a very bad idea. Think of how you would feel if it was done to you.

For lack of a better word i.e in lieu of asking for trouble. I would use the word Dangerous. But it doesnt start off that way at first it seems like no one could care less. The Trouble comes later thats why it seems harmless.Jealous Spouses can resort to murder eventually.

In cinema it's making "eternal triangle" comrade, whether we approve it or not! N.B. Without eternal triangle/ No trouble/ And if there is no trouble, nothing could excite my uncle!He he he....of course no bless, Prof.Mes

is the pope catholic?

its a bit desperate isnt it? theres plenty of singles out there - why go for one thats hooked up?

Without question.

It depends upon one's objective. If you're just looking for a good time with no attachments, then it's probably ok for you emotionally (morally is another story). Every relationship comes to an end. Someone's going to be left hurting as in every relationship, but objectively, if you don't want them to leave their spouse, whata are ya gonna do when they tell you, "Guess what, I'm leaving my spouse. Now we can always be together. You may not be ready for that. Too much muck all the way around and I've been there, done that when I was very angry about my own marriage and was single again.

As sure as the Sun rises in the east.

Big time trouble, and you would be a home wrecker to me.

Its not asking for trouble. Its posting a bulls eye on your forhead and screaming for trouble to shoot you. Stick with singles. :) ~+~

No. It's welcoming trouble. It's not "asking" for trouble, because the person already put himself or herself into "trouble" when he or she started dating the man or woman.

are you joking? if you seriously need someone to answer that for you... then you aren't very smart.

I dont know about asking for trouble, that would depend on what you consider trouble. What you will get, is lied too, deceived, used, and manipulated.

Yes of course it is, I suppose you allready know that since you are asking. Just remember what comes around goes around.

I didnt think anyone had to ask such a question. Of course it is. And you are goin to be the one that gets hurt...obviously if hes married hes not tryin to be serious with you. You'd just be his 'side fun'. He ould only want to see you for sex. Me personally, i would NEVER allow myself to be with someone that puts me second. Plus, what goes around comes aournd.

Yes.

Hello... Is there anybody home???

YES! lol....I wonder how many ppl have answered with this....but, if they are prepared to cheat on the one person they made an ABSOLUTE promise to, then what are they gonna do to you? Value yourself, and others will too. RESPECT is the key

YES!..and DATING that person KNOWING that he/she is married... The trouble is deserved.

If he is still with his wife then yes. Never break other peoples married life cos its a sin and it wll fall back to you. Put yourself in the other parties shoes and you'll know how it feels.

Almost the same as driving at 70 miles on a four lane highway with your eyes closed.

keithold, i hope this is a purely hypothetical question and not something that you are actually involved in. Dating a married person is wrong on so many levels. Getting killed by a jealous husband is probably the most significant. I would advise strongly against this.

One survey claims that having an affair with a married person will significantly increase one's chance of becoming a murder victim. :o

Yes, yes it is.

yup... be careful.

hmm well ask yourself this if your spouse was dating someone else? would it cause trouble in your relationship? I know it would for me, To hell with that someones gonna get draped up. lol

yes its a big trouble... to you and others... and you will hurt everyone who is around...

Does the Pope wear a funny hat?

Most assuredly. It is like pulling the pin on a grenade, eventually it will explode. Unless... and this is the only way I can think of that it wouldn't be.... I am technically married, but I have been seperated nearly three years. I will NEVER take my ex back. I am just waiting on the papers to sign for the divorce....

Lol. It's not asking for trouble...it just is trouble. The person who dates a married person is the trouble as well as the married person who enters into such a disgusting union.

its not only asking for trouble, i think it is also wrong. you dont cause that kind of pain, ever. except for cases like zandalee's.

What do you think

Yes. If they are separated, but still married, then most likely. If they are close to a divorce and there are children involved...definitely. This is one of those types of relationships where you could get really hurt (not just physically). The odds of you being the rebound are great and there is a slim possibility that this relationship will last. It's better to save yourself the grief and heartache and find someone who's available to love.

Sure it is. For one thing they may well be children involved who will lose out when news of this infidelity comes out and for another just what kind of person is it he'd do that. Who's to say you won't be next?

YES it's same of planing to steal something or fooling someone or maybe more! as long as the other person is still in relation with someone els.

It sure is. Maybe one day someone will be asking the same question again because it is your husband they are dating.

Keithold, I thought you said we would never talk about this on answerbag.

It depends, if they are clearly separated and have no intentions of working things out then I think its OK... BUT that's it, anything else is definitely not OK.

hmmm interesting question. Is going up to someone and punching them in the testicles who is 5 times your size could easily pound you into the ground and is known to have a very short temper asking for trouble? I think you know where I am going with this Keithold

Yes. In more ways than one. Not only is it a good way to get your butt kicked, but there is the potential (almost certainty) of hurting all the people close to the both of you.

Yes,yes yes!!!Its going to cause hurt all round.Not a nice experience believe me,even if you say you wont get involved you will,best get out now while you can!

Yes it is. There are too many wrongs going on there.

yes it is if they are married you keep your hands off.

Big time. The married one will either never leave their spouse but still cause great heartache everywhere they go, or they will leave and you would be left with a guilty cheater on your hands and one who will do the same to you since they aren't an honest loyal person.

Definately! I'm not being a damp cloth or anything but if he can cheat on his own wife who most likely has bore his children, what would stop him from cheating on you too? Also if he has a family, it is your duty as a woman to make him see sense, by all means talk thats fine but dont entertain this man any longer, he'll take you for a ride.

Sounds like it to me...

1) If you want a definition, I would say that dating a married person is giving and receiving love (all of this happening with a married person). 2) Dating a married person is certainly not going on the market place and actively proclaiming: "May I get into some trouble?". I don't think that anyone want to get into trouble here. This is also certainly not the reason why someone is dating a married person. They would rather have this without any trouble, and if trouble happens, they consider it hard luck, and some price that you could eventually have to pay when you are doing this. 3) This only shows how you can sometimes get an absurd result if you are taking an expression in a wordly meaning. Because after I thought about this, I saw this definition: "to ask for: - (idiomatic) To increase the likelihood of something by persisting in some action; to invite. If you keep on speeding, you are asking for trouble." Source and further information: http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/ask_for In this sense, I could only imagine some few situations where dating a married person would not "increase the likelihood of" trouble. However, trouble is not a *necessary* consequence.

no...it is asking for no future.

ummmmm. Yeah. It's also pretty stupid.

In my opinion Yes.

Absolutely.

Normally yes,nine out of ten or just afairs,your probably not dating him your his thing on the side,I would find that insulting and degrading.Do yourself a favour and consider your actions,dont do this to yourself and not to his wife,she is beeter without him and you too

Yes yes yes yes yes yes

Hahahahahahahahahahahaha are you serious!?!? YES!!!! A lot of trouble!

Yes, and thinking that it would have a good ending is very stupid.

of course it is...you get what you give. You hurt others knowingly and deliberately it will come back to haunt you. Do you really think a married man has any real respect for a woman he knows lowered herself to accept sloppy seconds? If you know he is married then he does eventually begin to see you have no class. And what about the innocent wife the one he tells you is so mean or cruel or unstable>>> remember he is only telling you things that ake it seem 'right" for him to see you (aka get into your pants) and if it were so bad as he wants you to believe...why is he still home?....nothing any one does or doesn't do says or does not say justifies be wronged in this way by the man/woman they married. Cheating is for cowards! Instead of working on what they have they reach out for something they gave up right to when they said "i do" Fix your marriage or leave it...don;t drag a third party in and devastate your spouse further by not only no longer loving them enough to work thru things, but to not respect them by running around with a cheap peace of ass. Nothing true or real can ever be built out of lies deceit and betrayal!

no its perfectly fine, as long as they are married to you.

[sarcasm]No, what a fantastic idea! =D[/sarcasm]

Do bears shit in the woods?

Definitely, girl ,do not think about it :)

well i was dating a merried man and he told me that he loved me and his wife knew about me and she told me that all she wants is her man back but i fell in love with him and i guess i was crazy for thinking that but he went back because he said that something was going on with his kids well he took all his stuff and said he will be back in 2 weeks but it's going 2 be 3 weeks and he has not called me so i guess he is going to stay with her get this he was living with me for 4 months lol crazy and his wife knew we where do things and she was ok i guess.

not for me...i'd enjoy ruining someone's life.

not really... depends on the "married person" and how smart they are dating a stupid person is always bad, being married AND stupid is definitely bad

Yes. Leave the married person alone... and find a single one.

course it is! do you have brains? cara x

oh yea keithold it is

NO FUCKING SHIT!!!

Dating someone who is married is bad in 4 ways. 1. Homewrecking! 2. If they cheat on their marriage what will they do to you? 3. You cant make a hoe a housewife!! 4. Breaks 2 of the Ten Commandments@ I have been married for two years and I personally think if someone wants to date outside of their marriage they are running from a problem in their marriage they need to be facing with their spouse. I hope they do not have kids that will be crushing.

YES ! (unless, of course its me !-just kidding)

YES!!!!

besides asking for trouble.. baby girl. u wating ur time..... he may never leave the wife for u... for real..

Yes absolutely.

I think you already know the answer to this; but yes it is always a bad idea. The married person almost never leaves their spouse no matter how much they claim they want to leave. You will be the one who suffers having to always be second best. You would never be happy and will waste years waiting for someone that will never leave their spouse. If you are dating a married person the best thing to do for everyone is to end it. Your self esteem and reputation would also suffer; do you really want all that drama? Find a nice, single person to date and you'll be much happier.

depends on what kind of date.if youre just dating fr friendship then its okay,but if youre dating for a relationship,wow thats trouble you are going to ruin a marriage and a family.

Yes!!! Haven't you ever heard that married men I know with kid's will usually never leave their wife. They are just looking for booty lol.. That in itself should tell you that they are a creep! And to stay far away! I mean you could never trust them for crying out loud..

Personally, I feel if the person can feel OK with being unfaithful, They will turn around and do the same to the next partner. Not to mention spreading alot of std's all over the place.If one wants to have variety, they should not get married.Tinadivine....

if you consider an armed and angry spouse trouble, yes... though honestly I would be grateful to you for revealing her lack of faithfulness. I am one of very few people who place their anger apropriately. the spouse is the one betrating, not you.

It would be for me. Better off not to even try something like that. Unless your just looking for more pain & trouble.........

Yes and if the person has kids what results from the affai could be emotionally damaging

If that person isn't marired to you it is.

Yes..nothing good can come from cheating..someone is going to get hurt. :)

Big time.

... knowing they are married, YES, very much so ...

Yes.

well yea ill say it is if you get close with that person and their partner knows about it yea ur in big trouble unless you somehow figure a way out of the mess

In a word--YES!!!! On so many levels. No good for you. Not good for the married person. Certainly not good for the family of the married person. I've been on both sides--there is pain anyway you cut it. You deserve better, you are better. You can't build happiness on someone else's pain. Not worth it.

no its making trouble. i mean what the **** are you thinking you don't want someone to mess with your spouse if you were married would ya?

Yes even if you really like that person... wait untill they are single again. You will seriously regret it later.

most defiantly!!!!! i found out my husband now separated for 3 weeks has had another women on the side!! its the most horrible thing in the world to happen to anyone..i mean does the other women not have any moral respect knowing he has 2 kids with his wife!! basically no offense but in my experience the other women is the scum of the earth..there so many single men out there why go for the ones that are married damn home wreckers!!!

YES. Plain and simple. What makes you think that they will be good to you (his mistress / her fancy man) when they would willingly treat the spouse like that.....

What possessed you to ask a question like that? Mr Bill

not unless they are married to you.