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by korvain on April 6th, 2008

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If someone chooses to be a lesbian because they dont like sex with men, why would they use strap-ons with penis shaped dildos, seriously, this question really does puzzle me can someone please help me out here...

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  • by Rocket on March 7th, 2009

    Rocket

    They just like women... don't take it personally... Dick is always good, real & fake...

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  • by Account Closed on December 3rd, 2008

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    Being gay/lesbian really isn't about the sex acts, but rather with what sex you prefer to have a partnership relationship with. It is choosing a partner in which to share all life experiences with (including sexual ones).

    Knowing this will help you understand that it is not so much the penetration but what is being used to penetrate. A strap-on no matter what is 100% a device that will never grow soft or get your pregnant. It may look like a penis and feel like a penis but it does not behave like a penis.

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  • by razz4901 on April 6th, 2008

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    Because it feels good...why do gay men jerk off by wrapping there hand around their penis (similar to the feeling in a vagina)...don't equate a sex act with a specific group...i know straight couples where a female inserts fingers in the straight mans asshole...this does not make them gay...

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  • by king of ellipses on April 6th, 2008

    king of ellipses

    because vaginal penetration feels good. Just because they don't want to sleep with men, it's not just their penis they don;t like. They don't want the intimacy of a man. vaginal penetration whether digital or with a dildo feel great and fits right. The vagina is shaped inside to accept the penis. It doesn't make them less gay to want to stimulate the best possible way.

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  • by bigben on May 19th, 2009

    bigben

    because every dildo is based on the design of the cock and the cock is the most natural thing to be going into a vagina.they are made for each other.the cock is a cylinder shape can you see any women sticking squares or triangles up themselves no cause this wood sting like a bitch(pardon my launguage)a question to ask you if your a straight man and you had to take one of the following in the ass a penis shaped dildo ,a square ,a triangle or a pineapple you no what line you wood be in

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  • by Moongrim on May 19th, 2009

    Moongrim

    Because the market is saturated with penis shaped dildos.

    Perhaps some day there will be a lesbian inspired dildo company.

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  • by D.J. on May 19th, 2009

    D.J.

    You know what lesbians call that redundant, useless tissue surrounding a penis? A man.

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  • by bagkhan on April 1st, 2009

    bagkhan

    Because they love woman, but they want dicks too, but not the real one.

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  • by eye8rsoulslieq on May 13th, 2012

    eye8rsoulslieq

    There's more to being a man than a penis

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  • by Anonymous on July 18th, 2011

    Anonymous

    Women enjoy vaginal penetration regardles of WHICH gender or sex appeals to them ! ( Gay men like fucking too - they just prefer fucking other men rather than fucking women ! ) One of the most satisfying sexual experiences of my life was doing a threesome with two lesbian women ! ( I had answered an ad and was the lucky guy they picked to fulfill their fantasy ! ) They were very attractive women who were clearly in love with each other, happy with living together as "life partners", and obviously not interested in changing either their relationship status or their living arrangements ! They had just both developed a craving for what they called "some REAL dick" ( openly admitting they had both gotten to a point where they wanted more than the "toys" they'd been using on each other ) and made it clear to me what they did and DIDN'T want ! Neither one of them wanted me to kiss them ( they only wanted to kiss each other ), they let me know neither one of them was interested or would be sucking my dick, they let me know they would be OK with me fondling their breasts even though that wasn't their primary goal, and I had to convince them to let me pleasure them orally because it was MY favorite sexual activity - again it wasn't a part of THEIR primary goal ! They each wanted to experience me FUCKING them ( getting "some REAL dick" as they called it ) and watch me fuck their partner ! They both seemed to enjoy stroking and playing with my dick, they kissed each other while I fucked one of them ( then we switched as I fucked the other one with them still kissing each other ), and they allowed me to lie on my back so one of them could fuck my face ( at MY request ) while the other one rode my cock - again while they embraced and kissed each other ! It was a VERY erotic one time experience for me - they seemed to thoroughly enjoy getting "some real dick" - but it was clearly about them pleasuring each other sexually ! I was just the lucky guy they picked to satisfy their sexual desires in pleasuring one another !

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  • by pixielater on December 3rd, 2008

    pixielater

    There are still plenty of lesbians who find the idea of penetration appalling- which is ridiculous and sad. Alot of them are too caught up in their extreme feminist principals to relax and enjoy what nature blessed them with. For a woman (gay or straight) to deny the pleasure of penetration would be foolish. There are benefits and drawbacks to wearing a strap on- the benefits being that the wearers hands are freed and it allows for more intimacy as it is easier to kiss and make love simultaneously- also the added psychological effect of the sex being more "realistic"(strong gender roles have existed within the gay community since the dawn of man i.e.-the butch,the femme,the top and bottom etc.)-lesbians want to be able to have sex face to face like everyone else. It gets old doing the deed with your hands alone. Its fun. The drawback is that its hard (for me personally) to find a strap that fits right that doesnt dig into my skin. Maybe its just me.

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  • by Josh on January 16th, 2009

    Josh

    Gay or straight is not a description of what sensations a person want to feel. It is a description of the gender group they are attracted to. To be penetrated via strap-on does not infer that a lesbian wants penis. The nerve endings and pleasure center functions the same in a straight woman as it does in a gay woman. While the physical feeling may be the same, the person they're engaging with is not. I like when my wife puts toys in my ass. Some may be a little penis looking. I'm absolutely not gay, because I only want her to do this to me. I suppose that you could say that a straight woman, by your standards, must have some gay tendencies because she likes receiving oral from a man. I mean, typpically, this is a frequent act performed by lesbians...

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  • by Anonymous on March 7th, 2009

    Anonymous

    They are not gay because they don't like penetration from men. It's because they are sexually attracted women. Just because you like oral doesn't mean you want to receive it from someone of the same sex even though it's essentially the same act.

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  • by mufdiva007 on June 4th, 2010

    mufdiva007

    i would say it's more about the men than the phallic devices...

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